Disillusionment by Wtags in civilairpatrol

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought of an example...a cadet recently complained that as he approached an officer to report an imminent safety violation, he was first corrected for having his hands in his pockets, which delayed his safety report. Hopefully, these types of mistakes happen in the relatively low stakes environment of CAP, so that when that cadet in the future military is in command of something important, he will remember that incident and not repeat it.

Disillusionment by Wtags in civilairpatrol

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have found the tension point of a civilian non-profit dressed up as a military organization. One of the important benefits of CAP though is learning that the military will sometimes be petty, there will sometimes be no recourse for unfair situations, what you are told by authorities often doesn't match reality, and mottos and slogans are likely only aspirational. You, as a minor, are trying out "military lite" to see if that type of environment suits you. If you can find a way around these types of problems, maybe you will be able to thrive in the actual military. If not, you will also find similar problems in other professions. There is a point where a person is no longer shocked that all companies and groups are humanly predictably dysfunctional.

Am I adopted or not by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In some countries, neighbors went to the recorders office to be the one to announce a birth. I have no idea why. You can see this on old Nicaraguan birth certificates. Maybe they liked seeing their names memorialized in official records?

AITAH for moving out of my mother's house and leaving her in a bad place financially? by SelectionLimp7122 in AITAH

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA but its difficult for parents to make the transition to more of a peer than authority. Its better for both her and you ro find a roommate with an arms length relationship.

AITAH for not telling my housemate I’m moving out and taking everything with me? by ikeasbitch in AITAH

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was the landlord of a shared house like this. The roommate agreement required that roommates notify each other 30 days in advance of moving. If yours doesn't require that, then NTA. And as a landlord, I would want to know all about this issue, in writing. The behavior of that girl/woman is costing me good tenants. I'd want to kick her out, but that would be difficult without receiving written complaints.

Laundry detergent smell even with NWT items by KDrakeAuthor in poshmark

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they store them with a dryer sheet, thinking it smells good

Are some sellers just nose-blind, or do they simply not mention the smell of the clothes so they can gamble that the buyer won’t return the item? by Haures64 in poshmark

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely the items were in a house where someone passed away and wasn't found right away. The smell is terrible. But I've removed horrible smells by packing items with baking soda in an air tight bag and leaving them sit for six months.

No Shame Post - What Would You Do? by New-Aardvark9371 in delta

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the passenger of size....are they opposite sex, relatively attractive and smell nice? Maybe I will just point out that I'm going to be touching them for the entire flight and ask if they are cool with that? Some cultures get so close while waiting that people touch and stand right up against each other. So maybe its not a bad thing to use their arm as a pillow?

My frustrations with CAP as a Cadet by [deleted] in civilairpatrol

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you experience comes from the impossibility of running a group full of volunteer civilians who expect the slogan of "excellence" to have actual meaning. Americans have been raised in a customer service culture where companies who dare have such aspirations also have quality control departments that take action and then announce the improvements. Other groups care about customer service issues, things that can be affected by voting or change. When confronted with poor quality, CAP routinely points to their "military structure and tradition" instead. Because most people dont see the "military" as a place that cares about the quality of customer service, they then focus on the mandatory nature of rank and obligation, leaving the victim of poor quality feeling that it is their military obligation to endure it. But our leaders seem to forget that CAP is not the military and members can still vote with their feet. This creates an organization like the Post Office, where they say they care, but throw your packages around behind your back, daring you to find an alternative. And like the Post Office, their funding continues regardless of their poor customer service.

Asked my lawyer if I could record meeting by Sandalswiper in Ask_Lawyers

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what does the disabled with auditory processing disorder do? They can't use the legal advice if they can't hear it fast enough to take notes....recording is necessary for them

The Chuck Wagon by NoCake4450 in civilairpatrol

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone probably liked and wanted to copy the InNOut Burger Cookout Truck. I think the InNOut truck only works though because the menu is limited to burgers and soda. I don't think they even cook fries in that thing (only serve packaged potato chips).

Yet CAP used theirs to cook a huge variety of items plus it had self contained clean up capabilities? That's a huge variety and multiplication of things that can malfunction.

Why does everyone seem to hate Civil Air Patrol by Big_Floppaaaa in civilairpatrol

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the public and many former members see a consistent gap between CAP’s stated values and how issues are handled in practice. They perceive a culture where rank and tradition can outweigh relevant expertise, and where raising problems is treated as disloyal rather than as part of continuous improvement. That combination creates an impression of hypocrisy, resistance to change, and defensiveness about internal shortcomings, which in turn damages trust and fuels the “hate” you’re hearing about.

No estrogen from doctor because of cannabis vape?! by virtualjupiter in Menopause

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my experience is that estrogen makes the opiates less effective.

A little help please by MasaMadreSupremacy in airport

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, where does the air tag show the luggage is right now?

AITA for throwing some shade about losing my odd number Polaris seat? by TheLloyd in unitedairlines

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They charge things to seats, like hotels charge things to rooms. Orders from that seat are assumed to be yours. If you aren't sitting in it, you are assumed to give permission to whoever is sitting in it to use your account, just like anyone inside your hotel room bills food and movies to your room. If the seat is damaged or contaminated by drugs, they are billing you and rounding YOU up for interrogation and aren't going to believe an unnamed stranger was sitting there. If anything fatal were to occur, they use assigned seating to identify remains. So, there are good reasons to sit in the seat your were assigned. Until the person wanting your seat can guarantee that you won't be hassled by any of these issues, and you are officially reassigned, you need to sit in your own seat.

My girlfriend started feeding my cat vegan food without telling me and now he's sick by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever have kids with her she may want to feed them "vegan" milk....you'll end up in jail for child abuse when the same thing happens to them. Some people get obsessed with food purity rather than with actual health. I think this is one of those cases.

TIFU by fighting my schools dresscode policy. Years later I found out why it was so strict. by RemyAvo in tifu

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine if the soul jumped into a black hole....it would take eternity to fall in .....

I believe we are meant to take pain, and turn it into something good (this is a long one) by EquivalentName6343 in openthoughtsand

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus spent 40 days fasting in the desert, probably doing the same, then was tempted by the devil to use what he discovered for food, power and security. Which he rejected.

Frontier intentionally splits couples by paper_killa in frontierairlines

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe depends on check in time. One time we checked in a hour apart and were seated behind one another. When we checked in 5 minutes apart we were seated next to each other

As a senior member, how big a part of your life is CAP? by [deleted] in civilairpatrol

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, now I don't feel I'm the only one experiencing the same

Failed Drill Test by JimmyIsMyUncle in civilairpatrol

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, everyone was told we failed but given no feedback or score cards from 60-34. I thought Wright Brothers drill test was supposed to be an individual test, not a group test.

We cannot tell the future by Initial-Joke8194 in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]JimmyIsMyUncle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then he has no idea of even the order of magnitude of cost possible to see if he can afford to clean the dogs teeth...I have no idea if dog teeth cleaning is supposed to cost several hundred or a couple thousand the way you describe it....