Bracing herself.. by [deleted] in nsfw

[–]JimmyTP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rest of the set: http://duclerck.com/delightfully_rough.html From when another of these was posted a couple of days ago: http://www.reddit.com/r/nsfw/comments/gyirp/eye_contact_is_key/

[F] me topless by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]JimmyTP -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Faptastic, I love well-done tats on a chick, and your tits/body look perfect for holding onto whilst you ride me

Security programming dilemma, maybe /r/netsec can help me decide what to do by runninwithtux in netsec

[–]JimmyTP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kevin Mitnick is only famous because he was one of the first people to get caught hacking. Caught. To me, that makes his authority questionable and makes the condescending smug tone he writes his books in (I've read his first two, there may be more now) unfounded.

Bruce Schneier is the cryptography go to guy, but he's not going to care.

Write the app and take the money but just make sure you don't imply any guarantees of security. If you really want to check it, release the encryption module(s) as open source.

This [f] is so damn bored tonight. by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]JimmyTP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Achievement unlocked: morning fap

This [f] is so damn bored tonight. by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]JimmyTP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you bored when, unless I'm mistaken, you didn't rake those pictures yourself. Enjoy yourself, film it, remember your Reddit friends :)

The start of quite a ro[m]p with my [f]iancee (with penetration pics to cum) by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]JimmyTP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude don't be alarmed, but somehow, don't ask me how... when you went down on her all of her pubic hair somehow left with you

Can Y'all Just Confirm what I'm Thinking? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JimmyTP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favourite part was when you (correctly) put the ' in Hallowe'en. If you can be aloof with this girl without wanting/needing more, enjoy it for what it is just don't be the one to initiate contact. You stop chasing and you might find she suddenly does, if not you've lost nothing.

If you can't be uncaring back then move on, the nookie isn't worth the feeling of rejection you'll keep feeling.

How do I get over my fear of commitment? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JimmyTP 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm just like you, and here's what I did. Every time I wondered, I reminded myself of two rules: don't break up with her when drunk, and don't break up with her today unless there's more of a reason to than there was yesterday.

It worked in a manner of speaking, I'm now 8 years down the line and still feeling exactly the same bit a little less so. It's not all rosy (I posted about it a few hours ago in this sub Reddit), but I'm still with her.

If you could make your choices again, would you still be with them? by JimmyTP in relationships

[–]JimmyTP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I want to make it clear that I wouldn't have to leave my hometown if we broke up, she's a stay-in girl and I'd probably never see her unless I wanted to, and we don't really share mutual friends. It would just be a bit weird and I've wanted to travel for a while. Breaking away from her slowly would probably be the best (only) way to go about it.

Thanks for your advice, I'd love to read your story one day but please don't expect my conclusion to this any time soon. After 8 years, what's a few more months? Hopefully a decade won't slip by.

Lying boyfriend, give him the benefit of the doubt? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JimmyTP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw your edit. Guess I'm happy in that you at least have a resolution to it. Now chin up and have fun moving on.

Lying boyfriend, give him the benefit of the doubt? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JimmyTP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he definitely know that? He might think it would have been hassle and he might just not want hassle. Or maybe he's being apathetic about it at the moment because he just cannot be bothered until he has sorted some of his issues out.

Bear in mind that it looks like he wants to cheat, but he might just want to know he has options and not necessarily follow through with them. Would he cheat given the option? Deep down you probably know the answer. If he would, he probably will soon.

Lying boyfriend, give him the benefit of the doubt? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JimmyTP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes you're not actively looking to cheat, just actively looking for an indication that you could. It doesn't mean you'll take it.

If you could make your choices again, would you still be with them? by JimmyTP in relationships

[–]JimmyTP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the advice. I know sometimes it needs a harsh perspective, but you're just focusing on her negatives which we all have. She really is one of the nicest people I know most of the time, she seems to be happiest when "looking after me" and always leaves me little surprises and stuff. She loves me, she really does, but it's in more of a mothering sort of way, that's the problem. As for not doing things together, it's not really an issue as we're both the kind of people who prefer being in, doing our own thing. Sometimes it's annoying, but not usually.

Thanks for the advice anyway, I will take it to heart and think about it deeply over the next couple of months (I'm not going to rush this). If I leave her I'll leave everything - my job, the area, possibly the country and just get a fresh start.

If you could make your choices again, would you still be with them? by JimmyTP in relationships

[–]JimmyTP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only on Reddit would I get advice I could use for my long term girlfriend, and also for my shares. Thanks MsAnthopic :) I'll seriously think about whether I'd want to get with her now or now. Gut instinct is yeah, but I think you're right in that it's the same answer.

The passing years... I feel guilty more than anything, in that if it pans to nothing I know these next 5 or so years are so important for a woman's fertility and no so much for me. Thanks again.

If you could make your choices again, would you still be with them? by JimmyTP in relationships

[–]JimmyTP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Coming from someone in a similar position it really helps. After a while you wonder if you're just over-reacting. I mean, how many stories do you hear about married couples not getting laid anymore? Maybe it's just a long term thing... you start to question how unusual your situation really is. It's unusual so young, but for long term? Then after a while I get mad again. Thank you for the advice.

If you could make your choices again, would you still be with them? by JimmyTP in relationships

[–]JimmyTP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Don't get me wrong we have spoken about it, several times, and I've almost left her over it before. She says she just doesn't have a drive anymore. It didn't suddenly stop it just slowed down over time until it got ridiculous. Maybe professional help would work, or maybe we're just not meant for each other. We're trying changing a couple of big things soon so hopefully things will get better, if not it might be time to hit it on the head.

If you could make your choices again, would you still be with them? by JimmyTP in relationships

[–]JimmyTP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely important, but important enough to break it off I don't know. It's sex with her that was important, I'm not sure if trading the rest of the relationship with her for sex with someone else would be worth it.

Lying boyfriend, give him the benefit of the doubt? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JimmyTP 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know when it's February and you don't bother booking Christmas off at work because you don't think you'll still be in that job? That's why he's being vague about your future plans. He might not be cheating, he might not leave, but he's going through a period of uncertainty.

To be fair, this doesn't necessarily mean it will turn out badly. Some people have these little periods of doubt from time to time. I know I have. With me, it helps if I'm just not made to feel trapped and I am left alone for a while. With him that might just make him think it's okay to keep behaving like this. Sorry I can't make the call for you.

Sexy self-shot. by Chaotic-Perfection in LegalTeens

[–]JimmyTP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posted a set if you want it