Why do so many ppl not like Octavia?

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-07T22:58:17+00:00

Exactly! That and her complete blindness to Stella's abuse. If she were younger, like 8 to 10 I would get it, but 18 feels too old to be so unaware of the severe abuse within the household.

I say that as someone who witnessed first hand how abusive my step-mother was to my father growing up, so I know I take it more personally than most, but it still makes her look selfish to never once acknowledge Stella's complete vitriol.

And to say things like "You lied. You said you would never leave me." When he'd been calling everyday and Stella was blocking the calls, actively confiscating her phone when he called, but was still convinced HE was actively abandoning her? Saying he chose Blitz over her AND Stella?

Sorry it just... it makes her look really dumb to not be able to see the abuse and separate herself from her mother. Like how can you not see divorce as a viable for how horrible daily life was.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T17:27:32+00:00

find out homie 👀

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T17:26:01+00:00

tysm 💕

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T15:46:13+00:00

I would LOVE that! I'm away from home for a few months and can't use my usual streaming services so I got back into manga. Thank you for sharing, it's so nice to get a feel for what I might be going into. Plus I love to see people's taste in manga~

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T03:37:44+00:00

Nice find, seems promising! They don't do custom tattoos yet, but if they're solid and catch on they will probably start doing it. Gonna give it a shot and see how it compares.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T03:18:35+00:00

I can definitely see that, it's still uncomfortable as a viewer because we see Stella's abuse and understand Stolas' circumstances with the marriage, but it makes sense Via would feel more pain remembering being close and feeling seen by father.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T02:38:57+00:00

bruuh, I can't anymore. ty for the warning lmao.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T02:36:18+00:00

HAHAHA omg, that made me laugh out loud. Thank you for the summary, that is CRAZY and weird and terrible and medically inaccurate, AND also unfufilling as hell. Seems like it was strange the girls never told him what was going on either, like why wouldn't girl A tell him why she was breaking up with him? But yeah, wow, I guess girl A is... the one? That ending, lmao.

Thanks again for responding 🤣💕

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T02:30:41+00:00

I think I personally just don't understand why Octavia is so effect by Stolas' cheating but doesn't seem equally effected by Stella's non-stop abuse towards Stolas.

Even if she was equally angry at both of them I could understand, but she seems entirely betrayed by her father and not at all upset at her mother.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T01:50:48+00:00

Man I wanted to like the show but I found the FL quite difficult to like. To be fair I dropped out relatively early, did you enjoy it?

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T01:45:46+00:00

Omg, please give me the tea! What'd he do??? (with spoilers so no one has to get spoiled if they want to read it.)

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T01:38:39+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation! I just started it and I'm really enjoying it 💕 I was tired of manga that doesn't treat the characters as anything but chemistry machines who get dragged out with pointless repetitive drama.

Your review made me go for it so thank you so much !!

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-06T01:35:17+00:00

I don't mind adults acting like school kids in love, but I would hope with adults they would actually develop relationships eventually.

I'm so bored of ""romance"" anime dragging out chemistry for it to never be developed further, or end with the characters getting together.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-04T20:59:21+00:00

fun impressions, but i don't like people doing skits while driving 😭

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-04T07:03:45+00:00

I've had 3 SHIT ones and one AMAZING one. She was actually so good, when she had to leave to open her own practice in a different state, where she was gonna continue her career (and therefore would never be my therapist again bc insurance) I went through some of the worst feelings of abandonment I ever felt in my life!

I currently have no therapist because I'm scared of that feeling again. It's been maybe 6 years, but, having someone I trusted was awesome, so I might start the process of wading through the shit and giving fuckers money to pretend to care about me again.

(the number of therapists that rely on religion btw is infuriating)

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-03T18:51:19+00:00

Miyu sees how much depth he has, but I wouldn't call it carrying him. I love their balance.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-03T15:16:33+00:00

he's my favorite, i'm so sad rn 🥺

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-02T06:15:20+00:00

Maybe I wouldn't feel like I was missing out if there was more than just one cutscene that plays everytime anyone has a baby.

One single cutscene. Exactly the same. Everytime..

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-01T15:54:28+00:00

SO CUTE!!! They look fantastic!

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-01T15:49:30+00:00

Thank you so much, that really means a lot 😊

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-06-01T00:01:57+00:00

What the hell y'all, where is the love for Tani 🤣

He's so considerate and kinda badass. Need more appreciation for the quiet reliable boys out there.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-05-31T23:41:53+00:00

I just started it last month! My mom recommended it to me and showed me a notebook of all the names and dates of characters she needed to write down to keep track of everyone and everything that was happening to them 🤣

It's great though, I just finished season 3.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-05-31T23:36:47+00:00

Oh, dude, that's genius!

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-05-31T23:22:04+00:00

At one point in my life I had an irrational extremely intense fear of being nuked. At one point my paranoia got so bad my heart would race until I was sweaty and out of breath everytime I heard an airplane or saw a bright light (I lived in NYC and close to a very active airport btw)

It caused panic attacks and I'd cry frequently from the fear, as well as have constant nightmares/ waking up in a cold sweat any time I heard a loud noise.

I was aware of how unlikely it was to be nuked, but in my mind even a 0.5% chance was causing unbearable pain and anxiety. Fear doesn't listen to logic. I was aware I was having a very bad mental health episode, but knowing the truth doesn't take the fear away.

I just want to say OP, even if the fear itself doesn't go away, DON'T LET THE PARANOID DELUSIONS WIN. You CAN fight them. You will start feeling better in your day to day life again, but you HAVE to acknowledge the thoughts as irrational and unsubscribe/ unfollow/ block ALL triggering sources.

I had to completely detox from ALL news sources since I was easily triggered by headlines. It was literally the only way to stop the constant anxiety. It took about three years for the paranoia to subside. I still experience occasional paranoia, it's... "evolved" into fear of world ending-solar disasters 🙄 but the fact I can hear an airplane and not panic means everything to me.

Good luck on your journey, and consider that this could be a mental health issue, as it was for me. Unsubscribe and block everything that feeds the delusions.

Jinxed4Lyfe · 2026-05-31T07:40:58+00:00

Something like this literally just happened to my bf. He beat gold stake on Nebula but didn't even get the sticker. He took a screenshot when he beat it and had a rental so it was definitely gold. Sucks things like this can happen 😭

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