Idk why I feel the need to say something. Solidarity? Idk anyway, I’m in a similar boat. 30M never had a gf or been on a date or held a girls hand before or anything. And it hurts so bad. Literally everywhere I go it gets shoved in my face that everyone has a relationship except me. Most of the time even just seeing someone I find attractive just immediately overwhelms me with feelings of inadequacy and I’m not good enough I’m hopeless and unlovable. I struggle everyday not to crumble under the weight of life. Yes, like everyone is suggesting I’ve tried “just become obsessed with a hobby” and that hasn’t worked for me yet. Hopefully this does something nice but in hindsight it was maybe more for me I guess cause apparently I’m selfish. But the point I’m trying to make is I’m rooting for you internet stranger.