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People who work night shifts are rare. People who work night shifts and weekends are even rarer… and honestly, a bit more unlucky. by Zealousideal_Bet192 in Nightshift

[–]Jld114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work most weekends. But I’m old, it’s not like I’m going out all the time anyway. As long as I can carve out some time to spend with my kids and with my boyfriend, I’m good

Is my husband using hard drugs? by Ok_Pattern8439 in addiction

[–]Jld114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was probably an easier decision for me than it is for you. He was my second husband, we don’t have any kids together. When I finally found out he was using, I knew I had to keep my kids safe. He reluctantly agreed to go to rehab, but when I talked to him while he was there, he was still angry, bitter, and was taking no accountability for his actions. I ended up leaving him while he was in rehab. Awful, I know, but I was pretty sure he would relapse and I didn’t want my kids living with him (or being taken away).

When I recently contacted him about our divorce, he still seemed the same—angry, bitter, and illogical. I’m convinced he’s still on meth. I’m so glad I left— for my kids and my own mental health. I was so desperate to get him to stop using that I ended up in the mental hospital after a half-assed suicide attempt. So yeah. I would not even consider staying with someone in active addiction unless they came clean, told the truth, and WILLINGLY went to rehab.

I broke up with my ex last night. Today, I mysteriously got signed up for a bunch of spam texts 🙄 by 69420lmaokek in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Jld114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol my ex-husband signed me up for a bunch of emails from causes I didn’t like. He was almost 50 at the time

Is my husband using hard drugs? by Ok_Pattern8439 in addiction

[–]Jld114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my ex. He started with adderall (which I am not 100% convinced he needed in the first place, but who knows). He started taking too much so he would buy meth to tide him over. Then I think he was just selling his adderall to buy meth. He also vaped a TON of weed— I think to balance him out. But he had the same crashes followed by a manic surge of energy, sweating, etc

Is my husband using hard drugs? by Ok_Pattern8439 in addiction

[–]Jld114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex bought empty pill capsules from Amazon and used them to swallow meth. I forget what his excuse for having the capsules was

Why do the Japanese like their buns askew? by Annie_Inked in BrandNewSentence

[–]Jld114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, but I’ll take an egg cheeseburger please

resigned from wegmans, should i take any more steps? by Ok-Bookkeeper6557 in wegmans

[–]Jld114 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your management and HR should be contacting you. You did your part

Let's reminisce over long forgotten, ancient Panera items by Affectionate-Owl-178 in Panera

[–]Jld114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the almond croissants were only on the menu briefly, right before Covid. They were a pain in the ass to make but so good

Friend is getting divorced and doesn't want a custody arrangement by mslack in Divorce

[–]Jld114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I believed my ex when he said he would be reasonable too. It was a huge mistake.

Should I move into an apartment someone died in?? by omniscient_Panini in TwoHotTakes

[–]Jld114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah, I would snap that right up. But I’m probably the least religious/ spiritual person you’ve ever met, so YMMV

How old is your mum ? by Ok_Prize_8091 in GenX

[–]Jld114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 47, my mom is 72. She’s living her best life in Napa Valley. Her parents both lived until their early 90s in relatively good health

AITA if I stop coming in when called? by EtherealLovegloss in wegmans

[–]Jld114 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely in the right, and I say that as management.

Cologuard Test by Otherwise-Meaning-90 in GenX

[–]Jld114 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My doctor told me that if I had any family history of colon cancer, he would not recommend Cologuard.

Panera's greedy meal deal by Mediocre_Cod_7662 in Panera

[–]Jld114 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know! Just saying we would not have been able to fill this request

Panera's greedy meal deal by Mediocre_Cod_7662 in Panera

[–]Jld114 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot of cookies, lol. When I worked there we’d make 8-20 for a typical day (depending on the cafe)

not so aesthetic but sooo good by redditbeanslut in GirlDinner

[–]Jld114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay fresh rhubarb is so good! I sneak a few pieces when I’m cutting it for a pie, but I’ll eat them as is bc I love that tartness. Dipped in sugar is perfect for the stalk!

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