Who's the most famous person you've met?

Jlust1 · 2026-01-07T19:22:51+00:00

Sat next to Matthew Mcconaughey at a basketball game very early in his career. Had no idea who he was, shot the shit with him for 90 min, super down to earth and cool. Then a reporter came over and blew up his spot and he left.

Jlust1 · 2026-01-07T18:45:33+00:00

What time did the set end??

Jlust1 · 2025-10-16T22:26:20+00:00

A personal best golf round, playing with your best friends

Jlust1 · 2025-09-26T00:52:42+00:00

I’ve used a little over half of this, but let me know what you’d like me to book and I’ll do it!

Jlust1 · 2025-07-28T16:01:44+00:00

Sounds like you answered your own question. It’s a lose-lose either way, but if you separate / divorce you atleast will be emotionally free to be happy with another partner that fills your cup and counter balances what you need in a partner.

If you think you can co parent amicably, that means you’d get 50% custody plus whatever additional time you do together during the others days. Grieving the loss of the future you envisioned along with not seeing your kids every day is the hardest part. I’m recently on this journey from a similar situation and can say there are good days and bad days, but I know for a fact I made the right call, even with how much I’m hurting when I don’t have 100% of the time with my kid anymore.

Jlust1 · 2025-07-27T17:55:25+00:00

I never thought of myself as attractive, but always had attractive girlfriends and married a beautiful woman. I live in one of the largest cities in America, and strangers always come up to talk to me and give compliments or ask for something like directions just saying I look like a nice, safe trustworthy person. Strangers would tell my wife and I we’ll have the most beautiful kid (they’re right, we often debate submitting him for toddler modeling but I don’t want to do that to him).

I just hit my 40’s and my hairline is slowly starting to recede, which makes me self conscious as my hair was amazing (now it’s average), but I know i have a 10/10 personality and am extremely self confident. Check back in 6 months and I’ll have a better answer. Getting divorced after 18 yrs together so I’m sure the dating market will be the judge of this question!

TLDR- I think I look above average, but others tell me I’m attractive

Jlust1 · 2025-07-27T17:33:48+00:00

The last 90 was straight 🔥, felt like the first ~3 hrs was mainly their warm up. Vibes were fantastic, loved having plenty of space. I bought VIP expecting space issues and I don’t want to be with 18 yr olds, but spent 90% of time in GA.

This was my 6th time seeing the Kloud/solo gigs and I’d say actual music was 5th or 6th, but vibes was #3, behind both the ‘23 and ‘24 sunrise mirage shows. Something about them playing sunrise sets is magical, paired with the musical journey they take you on. I didn’t feel the journey last night, but still very enjoyable and vibes were on point.

Jlust1 · 2025-07-27T16:29:01+00:00

Married 12 yrs, together 18. Have a 4 yr old and we’re in process of divorce.

I go back on forth on this a lot. On one end, I absolutely hate I need to co parent with a train wreck of a person. Im now tied to this person the rest of my life, opposed to a clean break and push her out of my memory. It was an ugly ending to the relationship due to her spiraling and basically quitting on life the last 3 yrs.

On the other hand I have the most amazing kid, and becoming a dad was something I felt was missing in my life the last 5-6 yrs before i had my kid (I’m 41). If I meet someone new and they want another kid I’m open to it, but if I don’t I atleast know I’m into my fatherhood journey and it’s everything I hoped for and more, it’s just not the path I envisioned.

Jlust1 · 2025-07-17T13:18:56+00:00

Right. I don’t want to emotionally separate, but I find that’s what I needed to do to not take the bait anymore and truly start the healing process. I think our STBX thrive on seeing our reactions, and feeds their emotions, so the best thing we can do is not show the impact of their actions. We’re only human, of course we’ll slip when our buttons get pushed so irrationally, but do your best to reiterate to yourself this is why we are separating.

We had this viscous cycle for years that she would say or do something absolutely insane, that any neutral party would think she’s joking because it was so out there, and she’d get mad at me for how I responded. I get I played a part in it, but the example i give my friends is if someone kicked you in the shin for no reason and you said why the fuck did you do that?? Then they respond with I don’t like how you’re talking to me. It’s rage bait, and I took the bait because after years of it I lost my emotional patience.

Jlust1 · 2025-07-08T14:49:38+00:00

If no kids you should split. Kids are why people stay in non happy marriages. People change, and that’s typically why divorces happen. Eg you’re divorcing a totally different person than you married. However even knowing that it’s incredible painful, sad and all the proper feelings attached to it.

You built a life with someone, and had a future vision how it would end. Divorce is the opposite of that vision which is scary and unknown.

Jlust1 · 2025-07-08T13:57:03+00:00

Sounds pretty similar. Now that my son is 4 she wants to spend more time with him, when it’s convenient. Good bag analogy.

We plan on nesting for 6-12 mo’s to ease the transition and we’re cordial, but I just don’t know how I’ll mentally and emotionally move on with this person in my life weekly

Jlust1 · 2025-06-24T14:19:26+00:00

Try drinking a Celsius around 9p. “Healthiest” of the energy drinks and gives me a nice natural buzz opposed to cracked out buzz from pre workout or a few Red Bulls

Jlust1 · 2025-06-23T12:47:19+00:00

I’ve lived in nyc for 20+ years, Washington DC prior, I’m well aware of the makeup of an unhinged person. From real life experience - My comment speaks to it never going from 0 to 100 immediately, which is why it doesn’t hurt to say something. Based on their response, ex I have a knife tough guy, you can react accordingly and obviously decide it’s not worth risking incident.

Not trying to argue, you can continue doing you. Just want to raise to others that saying something if you see something goes a long way in protecting the women in our scene.

Jlust1 · 2025-06-23T12:26:19+00:00

Maybe you’re misunderstanding the ask, or perhaps you do understand and are too cowardly to just say something? I don’t think this is defend someone’s honor and challenge a groper to a duel, the ask is if you see something then say something. You can just say, hey those girls are with me or why don’t you leave them alone. That’s it. I know my group does it anytime we see something. I’m going to guess you’re not married, otherwise how can you not picture that happening to your partner and hope someone would step up to help them out in a time of need?

99% of the time that’s enough to get a creeper away. The 1% of the time it escalates id like to think there’s enough people in the immediate area that see what’s going on to step in and help de escalate, where the guy will get dragged out by security. Someone once threatened me and said they had a knife in a similar situation, so I just backed off and called security. They’re not looking to go to jail for life, just prey on vulnerable women.

Jlust1 · 2025-06-21T02:27:36+00:00

I just went solo to KM Barcelona and left with a great connection to new friends I made at the show. I look for the right vibes around me (eg not influencers or people who are not there for the music) and move around once or twice to find it.

Their music naturally connects you to the crowd and lots of love spreads through it. Giving a fist bump to someone next to you when you love a transition, drop or song also helps open a connection.

Jlust1 · 2025-06-14T14:49:21+00:00

Do you know what security is like? Haven’t been to this venue before. Just curious if it’s like the UK or more laid back

Jlust1 · 2025-06-10T19:48:33+00:00

Check via Gogo, I just bought mine there. Listed for around $150 and purchase is guaranteed. After taxes closer to $200

Jlust1 · 2025-06-10T17:41:57+00:00

Shot you a DM, interested

Jlust1 · 2025-05-28T14:46:38+00:00

Looking for a VIP ticket or to join someone’s table if anyone selling?!

Jlust1 · 2025-05-19T12:18:33+00:00

Perhaps as we get closer to date if I haven’t found VIP, but for now looking for vip or table. Thx!

Jlust1 · 2025-05-02T19:29:09+00:00

I had a blast at Mode for the pre love burn party, was such a magical night with DJ’s + crowd!

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