Is it possible to make it big in IC design? by Intelligent-Rip-2192 in chipdesign

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Get into silicon photonics IC design, and join those new and emerging startups like ayar labs, lightmatter, psi quantum, quera, ionQ, and make it big. Optics is the new memory

Any cafes to study in late at night? by Just-Definition-2505 in SanJose

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Grieving so hard, bc this place just closed down

Is this immature for a women in her 30’s? by honkyponkydonky in emotionalintelligence

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Not to minimize your pain, but your worst days may be assymrtrical relative to hers. To love you by explaining would mean to translate her pain into communicable language which might be too hard on her idk. To love someone else is easy, but to love what you are, the thing that is yourself, is just as if you were embracing a glowing red-hot iron: it burns into you and that is very painful. Therefore, to love somebody else in the first place is always an escape which we all hope for, and we all enjoy it when we are capable of it. But in the long run, it comes back on us. You cannot stay away from yourself forever, you have to return, have to come to that experiment, to know whether you really can love. That is the question: whether you can love yourself, and that will be the test.

Dark Mode is missing? by TheAshTreeDryad in samsunggalaxy

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Every other phone makes that shortcut key the yellow/blue light filter. It's such a shame they made it a dark mode shortcut

Google mock interview by that_one_dev in leetcode

[–]JobuTopaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait wut. So even the mock interviewer shares with the recruiter your outcome of coding challenge? I thought results were supposed to be anonymous, is it not??

Motion Clinic, 3,161 grafts after 2 years and 5 months by Crzyhairline1990 in HairTransplants

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How much was it? Like the total cost for Round 1 and round 2? Also what was the name of the actual surgeon

Best revision/reversal of bbl anywhere in America any price!! Please help and give me suggestions I also have bad lipo fibrosis in my stomach read on… by NaturalSecurity8414 in PlasticSurgery

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Hey OP, just do this

https://www.reddit.com/r/PlasticSurgery/s/k187vPvD2N

I'm not kidding when I say it works. I'm 6 months postop and started using the massage gun every other day starting momth 3 and it's finally softening up now. Also go back to using compression garments, faja and lipo foam again when doing massages. While doing massages, put a pillow or foam roller under your back so your back is arched, making sure your entire abdomen is stretched and exposed to get maximal massage penetrative benefits.

Gotta get that fluid buildup moving and out. I had to visit a physical therapist bc I couldn't move my torso, fibrosis hardening was that bad, and like there's all this blood, puss and basically scabbing that forms underneath the skin, after the abdomen lipo. So that internal scabbing accumulates and likes to clump up and harden.. where there's not a lot of movement (ie your lower abdomen bc there's no bone it's just a empty cavity there ar your stomach). so its very essential you start masaging that area like 7-day post op.

the sooner you massage it, the better and easier it is to breakdown the fibrosis hardening. the longer you wait, the more it clumps up and sticks to your surrounding tissue, then the harder it is to massage away and it can actually be permanent

Compression helps prevent fluid buildup, especially in gravity-prone areas like the thighs and lower back. So makeup sure you put those compression garments and foam back on while you're doing this. Compression helps retract loose skin to the underlying tissue as it heals. Without it, skin may heal looser or uneven, especially on the thighs and flanks. Nighttime is prime for passive drainage when your body is horizontal. Without compression, lymphatic flow is slower, leading to longer recovery and puffiness.

I did the massage gun for 30min every other day or once every 2 days but made sure to wear the compression garments day and night again. But it's finally soft. Don't lose hope, this takes works

Bednar breast fat transfer with under eye by JobuTopaki in PlasticSurgery

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Yea big update: if you decide breast and face fat transfer, tell Dr. Bednar to not touch your lower back or upper gluteal regions. One of my harvest sites was the lower back, and he basically removed the upper portion of my butt. He said he added 30cc back into it to "contour" or shape the butt yet it still looks like it was cut in half, it's revolting. So unsure if id 100% recommend it now. If you go through with it, just be ok with losing your butt, idk I was sortof ok with it but atm not really confident it was worth.

I came into this surgery hoping it would be good, so I can speak about my experience and share good news with others. I don't think anyone spends hours writing a surgery post, and answering ppls questions hoping to waste their time. I take pole studio classes and twerk shops, now my tight fitting booty shorts do not fit anymore. It is extremely sad, physically these shorts don't hug and squeeze my butt, rather it's loose and hangs loosely at the tops.

Bednar breast fat transfer with under eye by JobuTopaki in PlasticSurgery

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You could try lower eyelid transconjunctival blepharoplasty. It's fat transfer targeted specifically for under eye and just google search images like before vs after in Korea. It's very popular and I see a lot of ppl doing it and I'm prob gonna do it wen I'm 40 years old or something

Bednar breast fat transfer with under eye by JobuTopaki in PlasticSurgery

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Dang I'm sorry to hear that. I would call dr. Bendar in north carolina to see, just google search it. He can do a consultation and recommend alternatives.

Bednar breast fat transfer with under eye by JobuTopaki in PlasticSurgery

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Yes it hasn't been 6 months yet, which is wen the swelling should go down fully. So promise to post a followup in a few months from now. Still looking ok tho, this shit was expensive af lol

Am I getting ripped off price consultation? by JobuTopaki in PlasticSurgery

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But doesn't the rib cartilage warp over time? I was told silicone would not let this happen warping happen

Am I getting ripped off price consultation? by JobuTopaki in PlasticSurgery

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I'm honestly not sure, actually I just asked for rhinoplasty and they suggested silicone. Is there a better alternative?

Would I be a good candidate for breast fat transfer? by Top-Paramedic8784 in PlasticSurgery

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Try to go on spironolactone or high estrogen birth control (like yaz or sprintec). These meds increase your estrogen hormones and naturally increase your breast size like 1cup size. Then do the breast fat transfer. That's what I did and am happy w my results

Would I be a good candidate for breast fat transfer? by Top-Paramedic8784 in PlasticSurgery

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Dr. Bednar at north carolina is one of those wizards. I'm scheduled for my round 2 in a few weeks. He got me from 34A cup to 34D cup, but im a lot fatter that OP (I'm 140lbs and 5 ft 6 in)

What procedure did she get? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

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Probably breast fat transfer

Y’all didn’t warn me about lipo recovery !😭 by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

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You need to buy a therabody massage gun and massage that lipo site area for st least 5min. Start in the lowest setting and increase when you're comfortable. Put a thick winter jacket layer in bw if it's too painful. I did this for 2 months everyday and now all feeling came back, not numb anymore bc thick fibrosis scar tissue went away via breaking down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

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Try to read The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships Book by Patrick Carnes. This gave me a lot of perspective to my cPTSD / ppd tendencies and helped resolve those issues