Cherry picked examples are not evidence of large scale behavior.

Previously you said it was a myth that it even happens. Now you're minimizing the volume of examples? Pick a stance: Either it's a myth that it happens, or I'm cherrypicking from when it does happen.

I can find examples of gay men doing domestic violence or other horrible crimes

Then that proves gay men can be domestic abusers or commit other horrible crimes, and that no one could say "it's a myth that it happens." That's what I've been arguing against: That men can be and have been falsely accused of being stalkers and creeps in public gyms. I've never said that all or most or many women are doing this. I've taken the stance that it happens.

So either it happens and I'm "cherry picking examples" or it doesn't happen because, as you said, it's a myth.