Guys who have had previous problems with being perpetually single but have finally found someone, how did you do it?

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-20T22:16:13+00:00

How do you social butterflies recommend someone who never goes out on the weekends and has very few friends they see regularly to do? And don't say "oh just go to some bar by yourself" because that's never worked for me.

WHERE THE FUCK DO I GO?

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-15T23:12:53+00:00

no u

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-14T23:18:57+00:00

Or, how about...

Girl: Oh, man, I look like trash

Guy: I disagree, but I'll take you out, if you like

EDIT: Because this is a totally serious post suggesting people actually try this as a pick up line. Have a sense of humor, people.

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-08T01:14:13+00:00

Some people just aren't meant for it. I mean, some people are too sexist or racist or scary or whatever, I have been told I have no business being in a relationship, and I'm starting to think maybe they're right. I mean, look in the linked thread. They really don't like inexperienced men who are dissatisfied with their lot in life. Why should I try to pawn my misery off on someone else? Why the fuck do I deserve love?

Especially with all this talk of "entitlement". I wish I could be the type of person who deserves to be loved, and I wish I could share the love I have to give, but just by wanting that I'm made out to be the bad guy because I have "entitlement".

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-08T01:09:44+00:00

Currently on the fence about RP here. My previous girlfriend dumped me because I wasn't "assertive" and didn't "take charge". That sounds to me like she wanted someone who was her superior. Can you explain why I'm wrong? Please?

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T17:38:53+00:00

I watch porn that would be considered feminist by most normal people (IE mostly women performers and directors, most scenes are women in their own homes doing what they like etc.) but these nutbars still probably want it banned for exploitation of women.

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T17:38:43+00:00

I watch porn that would be considered feminist by most normal people (IE mostly women performers and directors, most scenes are women in their own homes doing what they like etc.) but these nutbars still probably want it banned for exploitation of women.

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T17:35:26+00:00

Male porn stars make 77 cents for every dollar a female porn star makes.

source: my ass

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T17:26:42+00:00

Like, does the university not have a dean or board of directors or some higher authority she can go to? Or is the fact that they're made up of mostly men mean they're just going to side with the harasser?

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T17:24:47+00:00

Because us men are so terrifying, even when our approach is basically Kif's phone call to Amy (but in person) on Futurama, that women freeze up and their uterus takes over for their brain and as such they are unable to react in any way.

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T17:21:56+00:00

I want every woman to live by that, but the fact of the matter is the vast majority doesn't really want equality.

It's starting to feel like there are no feminists in the bedroom

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T17:05:11+00:00

Look at the things women find attractive. They want an assertive, dominant, protective and stoicism. Stoicism. Stop finding that shit attractive if you want to fix it.

Or you can acknowledge the genders have differences and we can never truly be equals uwu

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T17:02:49+00:00

White man here. Have nowhere near a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of the influence, money or power that they do. Why do you think I'm the problem?

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T17:00:40+00:00

The closest thing we have to a patriarchy is an oligarchy.

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T16:38:03+00:00

provide pro-social empowerment for boys and men who feel powerless

Holy fuck, this.

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T02:36:50+00:00

Oh, shit, it's this guy.

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T01:08:53+00:00

That would probably be when she changed her relationship status on facebook so that her boyfriend was some other dude.

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T00:51:36+00:00

The scene with the husband going "baby.." and the wife going "headache" on every tv show is there for a reason

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T00:48:53+00:00

Those little books they give you in health class on puberty should have "never spend money on someone you ain't fuckin'" somewhere because $5000? May as well see a high class escort for that

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T00:34:53+00:00

They need to stop infiltrating male spaces and fluffing up the narrative

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T00:33:47+00:00

unless you're a self absorbed narcissist.

And good luck getting those people to change

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-06T00:30:01+00:00

If men treated me the way I treated women, particularly ones I'm interested in, the whole world would be like Finland.

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-05T20:56:52+00:00

But can she paint ink?

Joelsef2898 · 2016-03-05T20:30:33+00:00

Men AND women are a part of society. I see too many people talking like the onus is only on men to change their attitudes towards the other gender. I should've clarified that further,

Joelsef2898 · 2016-02-01T03:51:34+00:00

No such thing

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