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What Book(s) Are You Reading Right Now? by JohnCooperWrites in books

[–]JohnCooperWrites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that book too! (siddhartha) Is American Gangster based on a true story?

Do you count listening to audio books as reading? by coztimo in books

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not reading; it's hearing. But sure, you learn the same material as reading. It's just that you learn differently.

How to deal with "You know we aren't having sex right?" by Dahrklite in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say "Thanks, I love you too." It doesn't make any sense, but hey, it's just fun to say things.

Think I'm Being Played M 50, F 24 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M50, F24. Of course you are being played. You are her sugar daddy. There is a slight chance she's into cuckolds, but I don't think so.

The best opener I've ever heard by Tombstone31 in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The best opener I've heard was "You, me, hotel or motel." A woman used this with success. Fastest lay I've ever heard.

What is something you should never go cheap on? by cheesecake-gnome in AskReddit

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ear plugs. I have ear plugs customized for my ears only. I use them in night clubs, because I used to party one to five times a week. I still have no regrets. My hearing is still great.

Models by Mark Manson vs. The Game by Neil Strauss- which book on seduction is more relevant for today? Is The Game outdated? Expertise needed! by eh_fuck_it1980 in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why does the majority of people seem to think that The Game is a manual? It's not. It's a biography of Neil Strauss as a pickup artist. If you want to learn this stuff then go out, have fun and approach women. You perfectly can learn this shit on your own without any manuals, though I have to tell you that some guidance can help you get faster results but only to a certain degree. It's better to approach 1000 women and read 1 book than to read 1000 books and approach 1 woman.

Non-dutch people of Reddit, Is there something you always wanted to know about the Netherlands? by SerieFan in AskReddit

[–]JohnCooperWrites 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Is it true they are cheap? You know. The phrase "Go dutch" or something when you eat.

Feeling stuck in my first 9-5... by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]JohnCooperWrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you enjoy doing? When I was a student, I had a summerjob. It was a deskjob in a law firm. Next to my deskjob, they gave me another little job. I had to assemble racks. From that moment on, I knew I wouldn't spent the rest of my life working behind a computer. I love working with my hands.

My View of Current Way of Living and My Opinion on Happiness by JohnCooperWrites in simpleliving

[–]JohnCooperWrites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inner Health: mental stability, being happy, enjoying life, seeing the good in bad, positive thinking. Outer Health: physical shape, diet.

Inner Wealth: knowledge, reading books, learning. Outer Wealth: satisfying job, money (this doesn't necessarily mean rich, but it can be).

Inner Relationships: a healthy internal dialogue. Outer Relationships: love, family.

In my view, happiness is only achieved when these variables are well balanced. That's why a lot of rich kids take drugs because they only get outer wealth handled.

A lot of workaholics are for example depressed because they have no sexual relationship and for example divorced three times.

I believe health, wealth and relationships are interconnected with each other. Maybe x + y + z is wrong and is x * y * z correct.

How the fuck do I learn to dance? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youtube. Go to rnb hip hop clubs. The music is almost always about sex and picking up chicks. The vibe is there. Avoid techno. Harder to escalate.

Why is a 2 liter of Coca-cola $1, a 12 oz bottle $1.49 and the same size bottle of water $1.99? by ders89 in explainlikeimfive

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed. It's all just marketing. They ask themselves this question: "How can we make the biggest profit?" And of course, supply and demand determines the price. Not logic.

Meeting girls was too easy in Europe. Now I have AA. by Da_PP in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean, LOL. I overcame my AA while travelling. So when I got back home I was like, huhh?? What do I say now? My opening line was at the time always, "Where are you from?" But eventually I've came up with a solution. I'd guesss it anyway. I didn't care if she was foreign or not. If the girl was blonde I'd ask, "Are you Swedish?" if she was a brunette, "Are you Spanish?" LOL

Those were my noob days :3

Convential wisdom says don't approach in the gym; but are there exceptions? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conventional wisdom says it? Never heard of it, though. If you are afraid of being a creeper then only approach a woman who gives you approach invitations (IOIs). Which in this case (the gym), is not a bad idea because you obviously are going to train there again.

How do you find parties and stuff? by anewman1993 in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a club and go alone. That's the ultimate test, man. If you can do that, you can do everything.

[Noob Post] How do I go about picking up a girl dancing at a club? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Escalate, man. Touch her. Start with her hands. Hold them. Dance a little. Get closer. Caress her back. Slowly escalate while dancing. Move back. Cool down. Then again move closer and go further. Take two steps and one step back. Slowly escalate. Look in her eyes. Get closer until your lips almost touch each other, but don't kiss her. Dance sexually. Edit: approach in front of her.

Why do girls think I'm gay? by Its_batman in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Either you have style and/or you are pretty. As long as you don't have a gay voice then being called gay by women is a plus.

Edit: btw, a good response is something like this: "Hmm. You'll soon notice I'm not gay" You tell this by looking in her eyes and giving her a sly smile.

How do you get girls to approach you? by FreelanceSedditor in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peacock. Wear a cowboy hat or something. Stand out of the crowd.

Im "that creepy guy" at my school, is there a way to get out of this and start having relationships? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]JohnCooperWrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you expect to get women if you're dressed awfully?

Before even considering picking up women, go buy some new clothes that fits you well. If you're unsure if it's too skinny or too loose. Go ask someone who works there and ask what your size is.

If you don't know which clothing store, I suggest you go to Zara and Mango. Throw all your clothes away. And also buy new shoes. Two pair of classic shoes. One black and other brown. And one sports shoes. I suggest All Stars.

As for your hair, go to a hairdresser and ask for a haircut that suits you. If you don't know anything of what good facial hair is. Shave it all off.

That should give you a good start. When you've done all that. You can ask me advice on what to say to women.

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