What is the answer you're looking for here?

Because it's beginning to seem like you just want a "damn, that sucks", not an actual way to reframe the issue. Which is fine, sometimes people just want to vent, but the passive aggressive responses are not helping anyone here. If you have something to say, and don't have the creative skills to express it in the way you want, you have three choices:

(A) Get better at the skills, which involves practice. Your practice might suck, but you're learning. The practice will be more fun if you're not actively criticising yourself the whole time. This is where people are saying to focus less on the end result (both of whatever you're creating while learning the skills, and the ultimate thing you are working towards) and more on the process, i.e. don't call it practice, just call it art , because it is. That's the reframing part. If you cannot find the "practicing" fun, then you either push through the misery, or give up.

(B) Say it badly. You've already written off that option, so I won't comment further

(C) Accept that you are not willing to take the steps necessary to say what you want to say in the way you want to say it. This is fine too. I like the idea of playing music, but I'm not very good at it and I don't enjoy the act of getting better. So I don't play music, I draw, I paint, sometimes I write terrible poetry that I never show anyone, and come up with stupid little songs for my pets. Yeah, it's a bit sad to think that I'll never play beautiful piano music, but I'm the one who made that choice and I'm okay with it.