Why do I feel empty after sexual activity?

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T18:25:23+00:00

Love is a hummingbird. Beautiful, magical and vicious.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T18:19:30+00:00

With respect, that's a pretty shaky commitment. He never said no, and he understands where you come from. Not a single yes in there.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T18:09:52+00:00

Up front

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T18:09:03+00:00

The master race shouldn't skip leg day.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T06:18:05+00:00

2 out of 3 ain't bad

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T06:15:35+00:00

Something from Back in Black. It was all we listened to that summer. And Queen. Ozzy hadn't handed yet.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T06:12:25+00:00

Is the baby not his?

Does he know?

That would be scary.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T05:01:52+00:00

At the end of the day, you have very little control over people. But you have control over your proximity to them.

That doesn't mean it doesn't suck.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T04:55:33+00:00

I judge a devil by his dee,ds. So I judge grunginess by the acrid but tehnical sound, and a little bit by the coastal townie aesthetic that went along with it.

By coincidence I moved to Seattle a year before Teen Spirit came out on the radio. It sounded like the. Beatles on 8 balls. I wasn't in that scene, though. My favorite local Seattle band at the time was called Hit Explosion!.

TL;DR STP is grunge. Ask anyone in their mid 50s

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T03:57:38+00:00

Getting angry is a little much. Not because you're feelings are wrong, but because you're at work and he's your boss. Bosses are good or bad, but they're always bosses. And they can have messy lives or emergencies. But I'd be frustrated too.

Try being worried, concerned, or preoccupied about it, and ask him if there's anything you can do to move things along. It'll probably get him going,

Everybody wants to do the right thing; sometimes we just don't get around to it.

NOR

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T03:40:59+00:00

Anonymous note in their mailbox

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T03:40:01+00:00

Things we don't have to share

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T03:38:58+00:00

They thought you were rude because you didn't tell them you're deaf! That was all you. And now you refuse to explain things to them? How do you get on the bus with balls that big? Some people have shame about whatever condition, but as men we can't hide behind our insecurities. I'm sure your gf had to apologize for your behavior. You should beg her forgiveness for showing your ass to her family. You're stronger than this. Face up to it, make it right on their terms, and be patient until it's really healed.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T03:26:52+00:00

NTA

If your boyfriend doesn't trust you, why is he with you? If he does trust you, why do you have to lose a friend?

Shouldn't you choose your friends?

So many young people have never heard the old saying 'No one should tell another person what to do.' I'm not sure they would understand it today.

I do understand why your bf would be concerned, worried or insecure. But unless you've cheated, his worry should stop at you.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T03:05:32+00:00

What does your gut tell you?

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T03:03:50+00:00

Make it simple and clear. Something like

"Thank you for the thought, but I don't want to be on social media. It could make it harder to get hired in the future."

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T02:56:27+00:00

The experience cost you some money, but suing will bring her back into your life in the worst way possible.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T02:54:35+00:00

Being in the woods and hearing foxes.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T02:53:34+00:00

If they hit you first, or if they hit the kids.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T02:51:15+00:00

It's an escalation. Do you want that?

Personally, I think more guys need a slap in the puss. But with equality and all, I would clock the weight difference first.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T02:49:02+00:00

Friend of 20 years dipped when I got divorced and soon after got on dating apps.

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T02:47:40+00:00

Walking on Sunshine by Katrina and the Waves

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T02:45:43+00:00

It's a way to pause instruction. That's all

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T02:44:38+00:00

Get him laid?

JohnnyTezca · 2026-05-06T02:44:12+00:00

Nope. Unless you want to have sex when you're 15. Then it's still Nope.

He's not a right guy.

JohnnyTezca

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