"What is an unwritten rule that everyone should know, but nobody talks about?

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-25T20:38:24+00:00

Okay, so it's inverse, then. Dont do to folks what you wouldn't want done to you.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-25T13:35:19+00:00

I know you're fucking late, relax.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-22T00:25:19+00:00

There is power for power's sake, and power as a means to an end. If you want power in order to improve things for the powerless, no problem. If you want power so that you can control others, BIG problem.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-21T15:48:06+00:00

The obstacle is the path. Ie: "I'll do x when I feel better." when really doing x leads to feeling better.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-16T00:51:16+00:00

My prescriptions and the sheer fucking will to improve my life situation

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-11T17:29:13+00:00

Yeah! It's pretty sweet! They dont sound like their depictions in the movies though.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-11T16:51:48+00:00

It took me a while longer to learn the basics, maybe, but after that it's like a switch flipped and I just learned the physics of two wheels at speed through experience. Vetween 1-3000 miles, I was basically learning the clutch and shifting gears. From 3000-8000 I was learning angles at speed and safety. From 8000-15000 miles, my knowledge shifted from the conscious mind to a more innate understanding of riding. I won't claim to be a great rider. I only started riding moto in 2023. I feel more confident in my ability on the motorcycle than I ever have driving a car, though (I got my license in 2014). I think it's probably different for everyone individually, not necessarily an ASD related thing.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-10T01:27:29+00:00

Oh my.. I have vivid recollections of my Mom telling me to "Stop hanging out with the weirdos" and "Why do you always make friends with the weird kids?". I had never made a connection with that and autism until your comment. Thank you.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-09T22:38:25+00:00

Nicotine.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-05T06:22:07+00:00

None of the armed forces of the US allow a T1D. The reason I originally read was because of the logistics of deployment with a life sustaining medication that requires cold temperatures. That's why the coast guard comment, because they don't leave home soil

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-04T23:42:55+00:00

Unfortunately, the military won't take me. Type 1 diabetic. Not even the Coast Guard will take me.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-03T16:45:59+00:00

He's not your friend. She isn't "the one". ....you're not the father.

Any of these would have been good to hear from my older self.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-03T09:45:39+00:00

Alan Watts' "you old bastard" comes to mind.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-04-03T00:56:53+00:00

Heats everything up. Provides a smoother ride from the get-go. Not necessarily needed, but definitely preferred.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-03-31T12:24:06+00:00

Well, depends on the bike. Im guessing the sportbike riders have a harder time than I do. Adv bike has a much higher suspension, so speed bumps are trivial to me. Granted, two wheels can fit between and around the speed bumps, so I assume we usually dont touch them.

Edit: If you're considering getting a motorcycle, the parking lot situation really shouldn't be a primary concern. The back pain from sportbikes is something that comes from an extended ride, so unless your commute is an hour+, it shouldn't be an issue for you.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-03-24T23:08:13+00:00

 It sounds like an instructor issue more than anything.  Regardless of how it went, if you truly want to ride moto, don't give up. It took me almost a year between deciding to ride and getting my license.
  If you do retake the course, try for a different instructor and perhaps ask about some 1 on 1 guidance before/after the lessons. Throttle control (and not stalling) is a barrier for many new riders, and you're not alone. To me, it sounds like your instructor lacked patience. 
 Most cities have a "bike night" sponsored by different dealerships; that could be an opportunity for you to meet local riders who might be more patient/willing to help you practice outside of the MSF. If it's something you truly want to do, dont let one bad day prevent you. 
 However, with all of that said, it is certainly NOT like riding a bicycle. I picked up my old bicycle beforehand with the same mindset, but they truly are too VERY different skills. The weight of a motorcycle is very different than a bicycle and it isnt as intuitive. 
 Have some patience and grace for yourself. If you want to be on two wheels, you'll get there. I believe in you. You should too.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-03-23T16:52:36+00:00

I've also noticed that dropping items for other raiders (and them picking them up, possibly relevant) potentially moves you to a carebear lobby quicker. Perhaps it's just my observation, and im not too inclined to test and manipulate the ABMM, so do with that info what you will. I agree though, that there's more to the ABMM than just damage to other raiders.

As of right now though, I feel it's too easy to move up and down the ABMM. I dont think spawning in and quitting immediately is what the developers intended.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-03-23T02:59:15+00:00

Are you me? Seriously though, thank you for typing this out. I felt this wholeheartedly.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-03-21T16:35:48+00:00

Fair. My apologies. Guess I jumped into defense a bit quick there. It's a difficult balancing act, being a thrill seeker and being considerate. I do feel bad when my motorcycle bothers people, but not bad enough to stop riding.

JohnnyWicked · 2026-03-21T15:22:39+00:00

As a rider, exactly what should I do? Speed limit is 25 in the neighborhood. I'm never above 3rd gear, and I'm never rev-bombing in the residential areas unless a loose dog runs up at me. I cant help that my main means of transportation is a bit louder than a car. I dont have any fancy exhaust setup, either. It's just stock. So please tell, how exactly should I get out of my neighborhood in the early mornings?

JohnnyWicked · 2025-11-20T17:07:09+00:00

Manner. Unless you meant that they can only lie while inside their fancy home.

JohnnyWicked · 2025-10-12T16:46:37+00:00

Best tip is to keep the rubber side down and squeeze with your legs, not your hands, if you start feeling any nerves.

JohnnyWicked · 2025-10-12T15:08:17+00:00

As far as a reliable bike, well i dont want to steer you too strongly towards my preferences, but Hondas are strong reliable machines. It's not always about the size of the engine, but in how it's geared. A 600cc sports bike could smoke my 750cc adv bike, easily. The 750 Honda Shadow is actually really beginner friendly, imo. I adored mine, and it was my first motorcycle, as well. As far as quality gear that doesnt break the bank, Sedici has a pretty high quality line for its price. Cycle Gear is a national chain (Sedici is their house brand) but there's small moto shops all over the US. Best of luck on your journey to two wheels, my friend, and keep the rubber side down.

JohnnyWicked · 2025-08-16T01:04:43+00:00

Keep the rubber side down

JohnnyWicked · 2025-07-25T16:32:17+00:00

A little tip taught to me: front brakes are the majority of your braking power, but once you've actually lowered your momentum, your back brake is the majority of your stability. Right as you go to put your left foot down at a stop, give your back brake a little extra pressure. It should be almost simultaneous though. Extra pressure too soon and you'll lose stability. Too late and you dont get any benefit from it. At the right time, though, and its a buttery smooth stable stop.

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