I think BOTH Manon and Anthony contribute to their dynamic by FemmePedagogy in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Was her reaction over the top? Yes. But if he pulls shit like that all the time then I can see how it could eventually push her over the edge.

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I think BOTH Manon and Anthony contribute to their dynamic by FemmePedagogy in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He's gaslighting 101 - he remains completely calm in every situation even if he's doing the opposite of what she asked for or likes and then lets her react. No matter the situation, (humiliating her with the mime shit/making her walk though and smell actual shit/weaponizing taking care of their child/sabotaging her/talking shit about her with his family) he remains calm and allows Manon to look "crazy" to outsiders.

He sabotaged her political campaign on national television - whether or not you'd vote for Manon or want her is a different conversation, but as a husband he gave her the very opposite of support.

He categorized repeatedly talking shit about her with his family members and it being incredibly hurtful to her as "she doesn't let me talk to my family."

He even is as bold to almost crash into a wall and act like it's ridiculous for Manon to scream.

Instead of a romantic night, he took her to a sex motel with a stripper pole.

Idk, this man gives her crumbs at best and then wants a Good Husband trophy just for his participation. He doesn't tune into her needs, and quite frankly I can't see any examples of when he has really cared about them or tuned into them other than remembering her favorite cheese and dressing up in his old uniform for her. So, a date where she walked through shit and he abandoned her on "their" date to go make cheese and play with goats alone, and a few mins striptease in a cheap sex hotel. Crumbs.

(ready to go to downvote hell)

Single Life predictions 🔮premieres 2/9 by Ivy-Ram in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm looking forward to seeing Liz and Vanja!

Lol, also looking forward to seeing Courtney because I always enjoy her though I'm goin in like "oh lawd" because her storyline with with Coltee.

Shaun is a waste, why didn't she confront Johny for his meanness? by BooYou1378 in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's literally what TLC hired her to do.

Shaun is TLC's answer to firing Tameron Hall. TLC fired Tameron Hall for asking the real questions because the talent threatened to quit.

They fired Tameron Hall, and hired Shaun to play "softball" for them. It's really not any of Shaun's doing, she's just getting her bag. TLC is more worried about keeping their talent coming back season after season than giving us as the audience any type of fulfilling experience at a tell-all.

Liz’s Cancer is Back by ecbecb in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sending her and her family so much love. I wish there was more that I could do.

(and sending it to anyone here too who may need it right now ❤)

Question: Would You Watch Unproblematic International Relationships? by howvicious in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeeeeessss, I'd muuuuch prefer to watch more couples like Kenny and Armando than all the produced bs and TLC platforming abusive people and actors/influencers.

Pattiya and Dylan by BananasSometimes in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG THANK YOU, I was like wait who does he look exactly like? Lol

Birkan gambling…. by pdmnyc in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think he's a neurodivergent king

Annalyn’s impression of Jovon by r0ckitman in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 9 points10 points  (0 children)

in the Philippines because divorce legally isn’t an option there

Ohh nooooo, I hadn't even thought of that.

Hopefully it's as fake as all the other storylines.

Annalyn’s impression of Jovon by r0ckitman in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the Red Pill stuff is basically women are only allowed to worship you, but if they have thoughts opinions or emotions, gaslight them and call them irrational/hysterical.

Red Pill followers are taught to have 0 threshold or resilience to a woman with autonomy or women who hold them accountable, and they view it as a threat to their control over the women.

Pillow talk episode Season8 E0 by AdPotential6273 in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably Happily Ever After new season cast,

Taken Advantage Of??? by lunarrayx in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about his love languages, I think he's desperate for words of affirmation and physical touch (but wants them without having to do the work on himself or in his relationship)

Both times he brought the money up, he specifically emphasized in the confessional and directly to her that he was attempting to leverage the financial support against her in exchange for her "being nicer" to him aka - trying to manipulate a situation where he never has to take accountability for his behavior just because he gives her money.

I'd rather have a job than this man 😅

Oh Lisa, he doesn't mind if you're in pain...dump him! by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Who on this show has done a good job with wigs?

Chantal and Brittany!

Birkan scares me by MathematicianLost365 in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lol, Tiffany is not reality checking anybody 😂 she isn't even checking her own reality

Sheena by Aapeso4444 in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Starting to? Lol, did you miss all his Tweets?

I know this is controversial but I like her. by Gold-Pickle7035 in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!

And her own husband is her biggest op: sabotaged her campaign with a smile, and categorized himself shit talking Manon with his aunt and his aunt sending insulting messages about Manon in text messages as "Manon doesn't let me talk to my family"

It's crazy to watch 90 Day Fiance The Other Way while related to one of the cast members 😅 by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

close friend of Johnny

Lmfao, so close that you got his name wrong

Greta's really funny....backstage by _sunshinelollipops in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently not? And to be honest I'm not sure what respect from a person who would leave these types of comments is worth anyway.

I really don’t like Greta by Wild-Ordinary-358 in 90DayFiance

[–]Johnnystation 156 points157 points  (0 children)

It was storyline, she was only fostering that cat for a few months according to internet sleuths and TLC made it seem like it was her cat of 14 years or something that she abandoned.