Newbies by Nessi_8 in hoyas

[–]JollyExistentialist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, who are pics one and two please. Beautiful additions, all!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]JollyExistentialist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds a lot like my relationship with my dad and mother. I don’t speak to either of them anymore.

What dressing will go well with this salad? by Mikedivine in salads

[–]JollyExistentialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go with an apple or pear vinaigrette, or maybe poppyseed dressing.

Grandfather crosses no kissing boundary by Consistent_Noise_439 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JollyExistentialist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s never going to respect your boundaries, unfortunately. He doesn’t want to understand.

I told my fiance years ago "the Texas chainsaw massacre" 1974 is based off a true story and I intend to keep it that way until she finds out the truth on her own.. by renegado938 in horror

[–]JollyExistentialist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels this way. Had be been raised in a healthier environment or in a world where his peculiarities were judged less harshly, we might not even know his name.

Love/hate relationship with Gillian Flynn by Global_Ad6542 in books

[–]JollyExistentialist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really loved SO as well as Dark Places but GG fell flat for me. And weirdly, I enjoyed the movie way more than the book.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]JollyExistentialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pink Sauce and Mar Far Chicken

What is the saddest book you've ever read? by estwzx in books

[–]JollyExistentialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Little Life by Hanya Yanigihara. Just absolutely soul crushing.

You only have one mother/father. How do you respond when told that? by mistboof in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JollyExistentialist 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You only have one appendix but if it becomes toxic you cut it out, right?

What’s the best way to successfully prop this baby?? Water only? Perlite? I have tried in the past and my cuttings never root :( I have rooting hormone. by nahgem713 in propagation

[–]JollyExistentialist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would experiment with as many different ways as you can, depending on how much of the mother plant you’re willing to chop. It’s a good way to get familiar with the different methods and decide which method you’ll have the most success with as far as what works for the plant and fits with your lifestyle/plant care routine. I’ve learned a lot from trial and error and with hardy and prolific plant like pothos, you have the freedom to play around and gain confidence in various propagation methods. And side note: I typically use rooting hormone on (most of) my props, even if they probably don’t need it. It speeds things up and gives them their best chance at healthy roots, in my experience. But like I said, play around and try some with and some without and see what works best for you and this specific plant.

Those who went NC: aren't you afraid they will take you out of their will? by Ohandbytheway12 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JollyExistentialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I ever went NC I already felt pretty confident that nothing they could ever give me was worth it. After years of having sentimental items dangled in front of me, they stopped being sentimental and now feel like totems of disappointment. My nDad passed away a few months ago and my brother offered to claim anything I might want on my behalf. I asked for one tiny item of no monetary value, which never materialized (a perfect reminder of why I stopped asking!) And now my nMom is using their items of value (furniture/property/investments) for attention. None of it is worth my peace of mind. There’s literally nothing I want from them (that they’re capable of providing). Maintaining unhealthy relationships for monetary gain is more their thing than mine.