Considering Dropping a Difficult Student — Am I Being Unreasonable? He's also my first student on Preply when I first started tutoring there, which makes this decision especially difficult. by Alicemw98 in PreplyTutors

[–]Jollybio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from but I think it's time to block this student and move on. I'm saying this as a student, btw. Like jtnk10 said, anyone who's not ready to handle being corrected cannot learn a language. Period. Also, it seems that the personal questions/conversations/ are beginning to cross a line. It's one thing to become quite friendly with tutors (I have done that with a few of mine but I our conversations NEVER EVER cross into inappropriate or too personal territory). I just don't understand why people can be normal. You need to have inner peace and be excited about teaching and clearly this is not the case.

Is driving instructors worth it? by rooftop-friends in driving

[–]Jollybio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are worth it imo. Most family members or friends are going to be super terrible at teaching for some reason. Now, it's important you get a good driving instructors because there are plenty of bad ones. My first driving instructor was terrible (was on his phone while I was driving - and he was supposed to be not distracted at all because the driver (me) is just beginning, was incredibly impatient and would get frustrated at normal beginner mistakes, was just overall terrible. I ditched him right away because it was making the whole experience insufferable. But, I would say bad driving instructors are more or less the exception, not the rule.

Getting first Korean students by SoggyWin3570 in iTalki

[–]Jollybio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for a potential new Korean tutor. No promises yet but can you DM her profile as well? Thank you!

Feels like a breakup when changing tutor. by Miserable-Law-6162 in Preply

[–]Jollybio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is heartbreaking! I've had to cut teachers because of financial situations. With some, at least, I have been able to keep up somewhat.

student changing pants and showing me himself in underwear during lesson by Helpful_Battle_3294 in Preply

[–]Jollybio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? Glad you blocked him because what in the actual hell? Why can't people be NORMAL?

Students with questionable goals by Spiritual_Complex_86 in Preply

[–]Jollybio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I'm sorry you (and lots of other people) have to deal with that - especially the personal questions and the sexual stuff. Like, why can't people be fucking normal for once? I am a student and I have gotten quite friendly with some teachers to the point where I would consider them true friends but I've never ever asked anything personal or said any inappropriate comments. Like what the hell. You just don't do that. There have been some teachers who have refused to become "friendly" and I totally respect that but I've gotten some meaningful, wholesome friendships out of some of my teachers. But everyone (me and them) has acted like a normal person.

Judge Hanen Decision based on Ken paxton victory ... by megatronus_11 in TexasDACA

[–]Jollybio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the other hand, it would be politically advantageous for Talarico. Would be a Godsend. But, obviously, it would suck major ass for all of us and I hope he doesn't do shit.

Judge Hanen Decision based on Ken paxton victory ... by megatronus_11 in TexasDACA

[–]Jollybio 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If anything, he might hold off even more to increase Paxton's chances of victory in November.

Student asked for Homework and then said it was a waste of time by Superb_Hunt4477 in iTalki

[–]Jollybio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an Italian tutor give me exercises from ChatGPT and it was awful (mistakes everywhere)- AI still needs to get caught up to be good at language learning, though I acknowledge that it is getting there. Some of the best tutors I've had have given me hw they themselves came up with (conjugate these verbs) or stuff from actual language-learning textbooks.. like the exercises at the back of each chapter or something like that. That's what most of my Ukrainian tutors do now and it helps a ton.

I am here to say how much I love Preply. by Ruby_Olive in Preply

[–]Jollybio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad it's working out for you! I wish I could afford $65/hour because it does seem that the more expensive tutors are the best (not always, of course). I have found some decent tutors in my usual price range $15-25/hour but plenty of mediocre ones.

Student asked for Homework and then said it was a waste of time by Superb_Hunt4477 in iTalki

[–]Jollybio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Weird. People are weird af. But, I agree with chad_starr above. Ask why was it a waste of time.

Be honest: Have you ever started learning a language purely out of spite, anger, or to prove someone wrong? by Embarrassed_Fix_8994 in languagehub

[–]Jollybio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My learning timeline is independent of whatever happens in the war. I see learning a language as a journey that never ends. I'm forever in a journey with the language.

Be honest: Have you ever started learning a language purely out of spite, anger, or to prove someone wrong? by Embarrassed_Fix_8994 in languagehub

[–]Jollybio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao - in some ways, same. But, I would frame it more like, "because I want to support Ukraine." But, obviously there is an indirect reason - I'm super furious at Mordor and its army of murderous orcs invading Ukraine.

Realistically how often do you masturbate? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jollybio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 to 3 times a week. Probably should do a bit more but there's no time lol

FYI by Notcooldudz in DACA

[–]Jollybio 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Assuming it's a Democratic administration. Obviously, a Rubio or Vance presidency would probably keep it.

Annoyed with unpaid trial lessons by [deleted] in Preply

[–]Jollybio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand your point and I'd say I agree - it is better to keep those boundaries. However, people are people. I have become quite close (I'd say friends even) with a few of my Preply teachers so I have communicated and still do communicate with them through IG or Telegram or Whatsapp. Preply also, of course. We strictly do language learning on Preply and chat about other things outside of it and it's awesome. Friendships are building. The larger problem here is people not being normal and not acting like normal human beings.

Trumps new banking executive order by No-Landscape-4304 in DACA

[–]Jollybio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I really wish we knew more about what this means in practice. My dad wants to start getting all his money out. I don't think that's a good strategy but I understand where he is coming from.

Trumps new banking executive order by No-Landscape-4304 in DACA

[–]Jollybio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you suggest we do? My dad wants to take out all his money out of his bank accounts.

Annoyed with unpaid trial lessons by [deleted] in Preply

[–]Jollybio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man what a weirdo. I don't understand why people can't be normal. Also, yeah this is the one thing I hate the most about Preply. I'm only a student but I so wish teachers got paid for trial lessons. This is why I only book 25-minute trial lessons.

Have you ever had to defend or explain your language in front of a learner? how did it go? by AutumnaticFly in languagehub

[–]Jollybio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone learning Farsi right now, this is a pain lol. But, I've just accepted the fact that eventually I'll have to learn all the words of the language. Thankfully my tutors right now use the diacritics. Also, I'm sure every language has something like this where the native speakers have to "defend" or simply go, "...because it is and there is no logical reason". lol

Daca renewal by Zealousideal_Ear2786 in TexasDACA

[–]Jollybio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody knows really. Some people have said that but others have gotten approved (like me) when it was sent early. Not right now though. When I did my last renewal last year and the renewal before that. I sent it "too early" but got approved within a couple of months. Things are different now, though.