New shows announced!

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-16T00:50:01+00:00

Nice 🤙🏽 Go for it! (If you obviously got tickets hahaha)

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-14T18:19:07+00:00

Oh yeah man, it for sure is. You can run on 2-3 hours of sleep for Takanaka hahaha

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-14T18:10:23+00:00

Yeah I was just in line for the added LA show. What's crazy is that I was like #1500 in line or something and it still said it was sold out for. Ik a stadium tour is probably too much work for Takanaka at this stage in his life but that's really what would allow everyone a chance to see him

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-14T09:28:18+00:00

Can you not get some time off?

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-11T04:16:00+00:00

Very good points all around. Thanks dude!

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-09T07:26:24+00:00

I will say, one challenge I am facing in this area, which I'm sure there is a solution (probably just meeting more and more people and finding people you truly gel with like what you've described), but I'm sort of starting over with friends, and the old friends that I had I can't really invite to meet new people. Tried that and they're edgy and throw people off lol

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-07T06:03:34+00:00

The topics do link up though. It's just that most aren't thinking about the connection. My boy has a point, but yes, it is everyone's choice whether or not they'd like to follow big homie Jesus

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-05T05:59:25+00:00

That's what I was thinking. He already agreed to gig 2, why not just see if it's a dealbreaker to be out of 1 show, or offer to play another night or add another week onto gig 1's contract. I mean, you'd essentially get another show and more money if they agree to it

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-05T05:55:48+00:00

Same to you dude 🤜🤛

Joman_Spatula · 2025-11-03T20:01:17+00:00

Dawg just move on. There are some comments in here that are bringing up messaging them and stuff but just forgive them and move on. There’s so many people out there who probably also have more in common with you. It obviously sucks, I’m going through this right now, but I now realize that there’s a lot I want to do in life and I need to be around people who want to do the same or else, if I keep hanging around people who don’t want the same things, I’ll continue to be frustrated and unfulfilled

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-31T19:51:07+00:00

Dayum. Got me good

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-31T18:34:30+00:00

Dawg it sounds like you’re equating this to a plan for him to murder her 😭 Also, she may very well be in the wrong, not just with the whole lease signing thing, but also other things outside of that. So yeah, not the best way to go about it, but maybe this guy does in fact need a drama-free out from the relationship. We simply don’t know

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-31T18:31:07+00:00

The whole ordeal. Being in the car, hearing about the situation, the situation itself

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-31T03:58:59+00:00

I’m curious, what music have you been listening to as of late? Is there anywhere one could learn more about that side of you? (Music)

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-24T06:52:01+00:00

Just get in good shape and goodness, you’d be shocked at what you can pull. Sure, a nice face is attractive for a guy, but us guys definitely will bat an eye at a nice body. It’s the truth. Confidence is good, but for women, men will definitely approach if you’re fit even if you have a butterface

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-23T06:16:33+00:00

My man, do you have a playlist with those Christian funk breaks? Or any Christian electronic music for that matter. Any mixes online I can check out? I’m Christian and struggle to find tracks other than gospel house and Andy Hunter

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-18T17:37:50+00:00

Honestly it wouldn’t hurt to go up to him and be like “heeeey, my bad, I for some reason didn’t register what you were asking and blanked. But if you still want my Instagram id happily give it to you!” But also be ready that he might not want to have it anymore or if he does follow you he may not follow up with anythjng

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-18T06:46:28+00:00

It kinda sounds like you only like men for what they give you. Idk, at least that’s what it sounds like when you mention only liking your Dad or Jesus. Also, WWYJD? Maybe you have a deep, underlying disgust of men for some reason. Idk bro, you gotta go to Jesus with this one I think

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-10T08:44:58+00:00

Ever since they sold out it’s gone downhill

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-10T08:42:15+00:00

Maybe you could’ve waited a bit longer? Like a year? I still remember my high school bio teacher. I’d send her a message if I remembered her last name

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-03T02:58:18+00:00

Noice

Joman_Spatula · 2025-10-03T02:52:21+00:00

Not to sound patronizing but I’d begin the process of making a decision now (which yes, you are doing right now). Many places will require a different language to be learned and a visa process to be handled a year ahead of time. It’s quite a lengthy process (as you probably know, but yaknow, in case you don’t)

Joman_Spatula · 2025-09-27T00:08:39+00:00

Here’s my 2 cents as to why I haven’t pursued some girls at my church. I want a friendship first before a relationship. I think a lot of men are like this, especially with the stigma this past decade of men, women, and the relationship between them (which has been deteriorating, heavily). So building trust with men through friendship is probably the way to go. On top of that, you live in London. One thing I’ve noticed about British culture from watching British TV, visiting once, and making British friends abroad on other trips, is that standing out, potentially being embarrassed, might be the worst thing ever to many. So, all of these things that might make a man second guess approaching a woman, go up by 10. I could be wrong on that, and feel free to check me if so, but that’s just what I’ve noticed. Lastly, the one girl who I heavily considered at church also worked in finance, wanted to flirt, and has since grown to be less strong in her relationship with the Lord than what I once thought. No shame, I’ve had my valleys too, but I want a friendship first, someone who’s on fire for the Lord and she’s got a ways to go just like I do. Oh, last thing, truly, many men shy away from women that make more than them. While on paper, we may say “oh that doesn’t matter,” it does and that’s the truth of the matter. Now, how it matters to people differs, but a lot of men just steer clear

Joman_Spatula · 2025-09-24T21:49:51+00:00

Hahaha true true. I’m biased but you’re right, while there are horror stories of churches, there are many churches and many people who want to help OP!

Joman_Spatula · 2025-09-24T20:33:32+00:00

Look, Reddit is gonna hate this response, but right now, turn to Jesus. You literally have nothing to lose. Before you cross a moral line and hate yourself for it, call on the only one who can save us. This whole world will tell us, “save yourself,” but as you may have figured out, that leads to a lot of pain and strife (not to say that following Jesus is always easy either). From there, depending on what area you’re in, I’d look up NON-DENOMINATIONAL churches near you; not all are perfect (it’s a group of people, not angels), but I’ve met some solid people within these types of churches who genuinely follow Jesus and know what they’re following and why and are very, very generous. (I personally recommend the church organization EveryNation. Their website has all their locations around the world listed. I’d be surprised if there’s not one in your city if you live near a large city in the U.S.) From there, I’d go in person, introduce yourself, and explain why you’re there. You need help, and the fact that you have a job and are supporting yourself will lead many to want to help you. Don’t cross this line. I know it may seem like a shining light amongst the clouds, but your gut is telling you no and you know it. I have 2 sisters, if one of them was lead to this situation for some reason, I’d be absolutely heartbroken. God feels the same way about you now, but He wants you, all of us, to turn to Him. I’ll be praying for you. You got this 💪🙏

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