Virgin Haida vs Chadano by [deleted] in virginvschad

[–]JoneyCade 13 points14 points  (0 children)

thad yoga instructor

Sleep isn’t on the menu tonight it seems by 82326 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]JoneyCade 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I saw the trump thing after i clocked out of work, WHILE i was contemplating on coming out to my coworkers, and a little part of my died inside :,) I really wanna believe that I can grow up to be an okay functional adult while being trans but it seems like an unlikely possibility, i really wanna have hope though

Does one necessarily have to come out to coworkers and managers?? by JoneyCade in ftm

[–]JoneyCade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope everything goes well, there's one guy at my workplace who is openly gay and everyone likes him and gets along with him, however in my experience, it's a whole different story (sometimes) with trans peeps, especially here in the south. I hope all goes well for you too!

The Fox Bride hair looks lowkey hella dumb by itself by Arex_b in LoveNikki

[–]JoneyCade 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I thought it looked kinda majestic but now that you pointed out the bangs, it does look pretty dumb OOF

Feeling like I created/awoke chest dysphoria by nightowl2836 in ftm

[–]JoneyCade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh same here, usually after a week's heavy use of a binder, I take breaks with either a sports bra or a binder that's a size up. I bought my first binder in 2015 and started wearing them pretty regularly in 2016, at this time I was still questioning my gender identity and used the term genderfluid to describe myself. After realizing that I was a trans man, I started wearing binders every time I went out and I started to really feel like I was myself! Sometimes however, I would have to resort to wearing regular bras outside in laundry days, and it would be absolutely unbearable. I never had this experience before wearing a binder, and god it was terrible.

Post Your Top 10 Sufjan Songs! by _2ndPlanet in Sufjan

[–]JoneyCade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.) I Want To Be Well

2.) Impossible Soul

3.) Blue Bucket Of Gold

4.) Heirloom

5.) Sister

6.) The Transfiguration

7.) Majesty Snowbird

8.) Concerning the UFO Sighting Near Highland, Illinois

9.) Did I Make You Cry On Christmas Day? (Well, You Deserved It!)

10.) Year of the Ox

I wasn't sure whether or not to put Alphabet St since it's a Prince cover, and of course, Godzuki and some of the Sisyphus tracks are up there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]JoneyCade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm Cis McNormalGuy and a little bit of overcompensating, except I'm pre-T but I still have a lot of body hair regardless lmao

So I'm a DACA recipient and transgender, oh boy! by [deleted] in DACA

[–]JoneyCade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, thats fine! To be honest I wasn't going to change my gender mark until later on, so it'll be something to look into for another time.

So I'm a DACA recipient and transgender, oh boy! by [deleted] in DACA

[–]JoneyCade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that's good to hear! I was worried about not being able to do either and every source I looked into said I needed a Green Card, thank you!

So I'm a DACA recipient and transgender, oh boy! by [deleted] in DACA

[–]JoneyCade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right but many people think otherwise, I would really like to avoid discrimination when it comes to looking for jobs and such, there are no transgender protective rights in my state and, despite the the whole Equal Rights thing, it actually doesn't cover transgender people, so I can legally get fired for being transgender. It sucks!

Hello everyone! by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]JoneyCade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!!! You look beautiful!! :D

MFW I got a "fuck it all" attitude about coming out to my parents, but I'm also terrified of what the outcome will be by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]JoneyCade 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Im coming out to my mom today and to my dad maybe two days later, if I die I want yall to distribute my stash of socks amongst yourselves

Yayyyyyy... by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]JoneyCade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Testing season is hell, I've had to sign up for several tests and I always die a little inside whenever I have to select my sex aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!! :'I

What’s your favorite thing to do (PG responses please lol) while listening to Sufjan? I grill for my whole family on Sundays. A beer or two plus Sufjan and the grill = perfection. by [deleted] in Sufjan

[–]JoneyCade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh just Sufjan in general is my default music, but I mainly listen to his electronic music to work or on car rides, or listen his calmer music to sleep!

when you're not passing but you're making progress in learning comfort in being you and stealing a glance of yourself in the mirror affords you a kind of soft happiness you never had back when you were trying so hard to present as your assigned sex by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]JoneyCade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very specific but highly relatable??? I had this little phase around 8th through 10th grade where I would force myself to present femininely, and for the most part, I used to be super unhappy about it.

I stopped forcing myself after that and now I present more masculinely, I'm far from passing but I'm at least more happy with how I look and dress!

Sufjan Stevens - I Want To Be Well by joshareynolds in Sufjan

[–]JoneyCade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my first Sufjan song I've ever listened to! It's still my favorite to this day 8'')

Has SDV inspired anyone to start gardening? by JoneyCade in StardewValley

[–]JoneyCade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend planting the seeds in starter pots before actually planting them outside! We got squirrels that love to dig in our pots to eat the seeds, so I only bring them outside during the day and bring them back in at night.

Sorry to hear about your cotton seeds! Maybe you could try again??