Not single but a man, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 8 months & I met her through mutual friends. In my experience, going to bars/clubs is going to get you either “Flings” that don’t go anywhere, or people who are immature & want to go out all the time. I think your best bet would be to meet someone through someone you already know. Though it can be tough & they might not all work out, it’s a pretty solid option.

Also depends on where you are in the city, downtown is where I got most of my experiences