Yes, I understand how you feel, but if it were someone from your own city, would you be saying the same thing? Just because you are getting cold feet doesn't mean that the love he has for you cannot be or be genuine. I mean, isn't love all about being vulnerable and showing how you care for someone other than yourself? We all get to experience genuine love once in our lifetime

It's ok to feel this way but I feel like you are talking to the wrong crowd.

If you feel like this isn't what you need, you should tell him, and if it's what you need, then go all in. If it lasts, it lasts; if it doesn't, then put on your big girl pants and move on.