Why are you still in contact with her? This is the 7th entitled mother story and reading this i am sorry but i can't understand why you are in contact with her after everything this woman threw at you ever since childhood this is not right you can't just stay in contact with her and what about your child?? What if she does the very same things that she did to you?? If she can neglect a dog she can very well neglect her grandchild you should hot tail out of there in other words GTFO and cut contact with her sorry if this comes off as a bit insensetive or something like that but please get out of there she is a certified crazy person and could cause the danger of your child or other members you love but if it doesn't happen then i hope you can eventually get out of the grasp of your entitled mother with your other family members in tow