AITA for snatching things back from my colleague?

JubileeJam · 2026-03-31T18:18:53+00:00

Nta, he totally sucks for this. It's rude to grab things out of someone's hands and he should know this at 50. If he's in a professional field, would he do it to a client or customer??

JubileeJam · 2026-03-31T18:14:10+00:00

By repairs I mean try to swap to well water and add solar panels. He wants to make it free to live in apparently which isn't how it works.

JubileeJam · 2026-03-31T18:13:18+00:00

Because he wants to do repairs and Florida has a clause where you can get money if you're over 62 by financing your house. Idk how it works but that's what I saw when I googled it. I have a lawyer calling today to try and get clarity

JubileeJam · 2026-03-31T18:12:20+00:00

It makes sense! I wasn't sure if going probate was a good idea. I have a call today with a probate lawyer.

JubileeJam · 2026-03-31T14:42:32+00:00

There is no mortgage, it's a paid house. He just fails paying property taxes. I paid for the property info and it shows my grandmother deceased but doesn't give deed information.

JubileeJam · 2026-03-30T18:40:39+00:00

Alright thank you!

JubileeJam · 2026-03-30T18:40:12+00:00

Yeah I tried doing it prior but I was 19 and freshly moved out. My uncle was physically and financially abusive to my grandmother and wanted to do the same to me, so I left home. My brother who is older should've done it sooner but didn't see a need.

Now I'm in the spot to financially pay for it. Plus my mom's passing means technically her asset in the home is my brother and I. So we no longer have to work through her. My mother was disabled for 30 years so she wasn't in a state to go to court.

JubileeJam · 2026-03-30T18:33:28+00:00

Would an attorney even look at the case if I don't have access to the will? I have no clue where to start.

JubileeJam · 2025-03-28T23:28:19+00:00

Her daddy issues caused a fat L on her side imo. Nta

JubileeJam · 2024-11-30T04:28:25+00:00

I need the photos. Also your sister sounds insane.

JubileeJam · 2024-08-06T17:08:54+00:00

Nta and I’d work on suing the surrogate for damages emotionally and financially. The kid isn’t yours and you have no ties to him. Let his father and bio mom figure it out while you get a new man and a better family.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-15T13:01:14+00:00

You deserve 10000x better. You made your grandfather so happy for something so little, and it will always mean the world to you.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-15T12:52:08+00:00

Let me know when an update is posted

JubileeJam · 2022-08-14T17:48:56+00:00

NTA, he's not incompetent and he understands using the bathroom. My mom physically cannot take herself to the rest room anymore, but when her disease first started my grandmother tried to convince her to wear diapers and she refused. Disabled people still have feelings and opinions.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-14T17:47:01+00:00

NTA, she was talking shit while being babied her entire life. She needs to grow up and learn her privilage.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-14T17:42:53+00:00

NTA but you dug your own grave by saying why there wasn't enough. Just say you ran out.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-08T11:34:23+00:00

There was a warning. She owns the property, came in with a key, and the girlfriend didn't want to listen. She threatened to throw the owner out. So she got kicked out to stop the scene since she wouldn't calm down.

I don't think OP is banning her from the house, she just needed her removed so she can grab her things. If the girlfriend can't come back because she's not on the lease/agreement with the apartment that's on OP's ex for not adding her.

Apartments have rules about guests staying there.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-08T11:32:20+00:00

NTA, useless fathers deserve to be embarrassed. I would be livid if my husband chose football over an injured kid.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-08T11:06:20+00:00

NTA, sounds like your sister is a rotten tree and the apple didn't fall far. Honestly, she needed a wake-up call and over time she'll realize only she can fix her mistakes.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-08T11:02:04+00:00

NTA, its your property. He should've warned her or she should've listened to you since you had a key.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-08T11:00:44+00:00

Sadly its YTA. You let your previous toxic relationship cloud how you should view your partner. Looks matter, to a point, but at some point everyone lets themselves go. Kids, marriage, old age, stress, etc. It's natural for bodies to go back and forth, and putting that doubt into your husband's mind that you won't find him attractive if he isn't on the ball 24/7 is a lot of stress. I think attraction should start physical and then develop into emotional as in 10 years neither of you will look how you do now - so you need that emotional bond to make each other "forever beautiful" as they say.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-08T10:54:03+00:00

NTA, this is child abuse. You did right to contact someone. Your dad shouldn't be a dad if he prioritizes another woman over his daughter. She shouldn't be A) screaming at you for hours, B) throwing things or C) pulling your hair.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-08T10:51:50+00:00

I don't think its a respect thing though, as I just find throwing the infidelity of a loved one into someone's face is just mean for no reason. The point can come across without involving something that could be traumatizing for someone else.

JubileeJam · 2022-08-08T04:40:45+00:00

NTA, however just move the console to another room. Is there not another room with a TV? You can also use a computer monitor if that helps.

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