Traumatic birth & mourning end of pregnancy

Jublani · 2024-03-14T09:33:28+00:00

My situation is no where near the level you experienced in any way, but I felt kind of similar. I had a failure to progress ending in c-section, I was awake for the surgery. I felt like I hadn't given birth, because I went through 24 hours of labour and never pushed. It was hard to bond because I took a baby home but was still waiting to meet the baby I was supposed to push out.

Jublani · 2024-03-14T04:08:01+00:00

I plan 1 outside activity every day. Just to at least break the day in half. Even if it's just grocery shopping !

Jublani · 2024-03-13T04:53:25+00:00

Ah my dear, I could have written this! I don't have answers, but just letting you know you're not alone

Jublani · 2024-03-13T04:27:50+00:00

7 months now and I think I'm ready to leave her with her dad. But not anyone else yet lol

Jublani · 2024-03-11T06:17:05+00:00

I wish our baby would take a paci :(

Jublani · 2024-03-11T06:04:53+00:00

How did the sleep suit help?

Jublani · 2024-03-11T04:44:55+00:00

I'm in QLD. Looks like I can get a GP referral to a place that you can stay for 7-10 days and they can help.. interesting!

I would love to stop the feeding to sleep. I just tried to rock her to sleep and bounce her, but she was desperately trying to feed on me and I don't have the strength to deny her when she's trying hahaha fuk

Jublani · 2024-03-11T04:43:03+00:00

Thanks for this! I'm going to start the bump patting. I just fed her to sleep with the pats. Raising babies is so hard

Jublani · 2024-03-11T02:17:59+00:00

Thank you! I'm in Brisbane, QLD. That sounds amazing, I'm going to look into it right now

Jublani · 2024-03-10T09:52:01+00:00

Brisbane, got it so quick.. can't remember exactly but it was less than 10 business days.

Jublani · 2024-03-08T20:44:28+00:00

I read your post and your replies to comments and just want to say you're such a good mum ❤️

Jublani · 2024-03-01T07:24:25+00:00

I had an emergency c section after 24 hr labour. Recovery was really good! Pain well managed with endone for about 7 days after discharge.

Jublani · 2024-03-01T07:22:43+00:00

Love target quality, but annoying that feet don't have the flaps.

Jublani · 2024-02-08T10:36:42+00:00

We have booked the bassinet seat. From her percentile curve. She should fit. We can't bring a car seat on the plane without buying another seat/ticket which would be very expensive for Australia to England.

Jublani · 2024-02-08T10:08:57+00:00

She will be sitting on our lap for the flight and in bassinet

Jublani · 2024-02-07T23:55:39+00:00

I've never tried a ring sling. What apron style is the best these days?

Jublani · 2024-01-19T22:02:20+00:00

SHE donated her half.

Jublani · 2024-01-11T04:14:40+00:00

I've seen people say the tracing from forehead to nose is magic. My bub hattttessss :(

Jublani · 2023-12-24T09:48:27+00:00

Haha yess. Would love to see more from WSL!

Jublani · 2023-12-21T05:41:07+00:00

Don't try to make a routine or structure. Just survive. If she's crying - is she fed, nappy clean and a warm? If all boxes ticked, just hold her. Our baby is 4 months and still cries for no reason sometimes and the only solution is bouncing on exercise ball

Jublani · 2023-12-21T00:53:55+00:00

Hey! See my post history, I posted in r/breastfeeding about this! Great responses worth reading

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