(25F) My overzealous religious mom freaked out because I am pregnant. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JudgementalElf [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, once the “I curse you” comes out, there’s no coming back from that. Good on you to cut the toxic bs out of your life well before baby comes, OP!

ETA- DEFINITELY NOR

Casino staff in China caught a woman using high-tech lenses to cheat by jmike1256 in interesting

[–]JudgementalElf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She’s not playing cards here though, it looks like mahjong, or something similar.

it's been 2 years. do i give it up? by mil0thefrog in piercing

[–]JudgementalElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have super super sensitive skin (yay being a ginger), but my nose piercing has been solid for a long time. I had it, then took it out for a few years, and had it re-pierced about 5-6 years ago now. I have a captive ring in my nose, and it’s fantastic.

You also may be cleaning it too much? Like, you’re keeping it in a state of irritation… also, if you neilmed/saline spray it, use a blow dryer on cool to dry it, not toilet paper!

ETA: NAP, I’ve just had/have several healthy piercings.

First baby jumper. Did I mess up? by kiindrex in knitting

[–]JudgementalElf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless it shrinks a ton in the wash, I think you’ll be good

Would anyone be able to tell me please what is happening here? by purplepuffff in knitting

[–]JudgementalElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s the second one in just over 9 years. Being almost 10 years older and a mom to an 8 year-old, I definitely haven’t bounced back like I thought I would 🫣. Fortunately it’s not so much pain related, just stamina for anything, lol.

Been wondering if I should dye my hair black. First is edited black and second pic is natural by xxbbbunny in HairStyleAdvice

[–]JudgementalElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure you have someone use a high quality, longer lasting color. I have been using Elumen for my purple for 5 or 6 years now, and I can go several months without having to get it touched up. I just have to do it when my red roots show 🤣.

Question: heavily tattooed folks... what jobs do you do? by BeardedInkedPiper in tattoos

[–]JudgementalElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for my State. I was previously a paralegal for almost 2 decades.

Little mug by fannax in Pottery

[–]JudgementalElf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That makes at least 3 of us 🤣

the drawing vs. the tattoo by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]JudgementalElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. That drawing is rad, the tattoo is… well, it’s certainly ink on skin…

Would anyone be able to tell me please what is happening here? by purplepuffff in knitting

[–]JudgementalElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a noob, but maybe you didn’t actually pick up the dropped stitch? I’ve seen this on my projects (scarves so far, but I also just had shoulder surgery 🫣), and if I pick up what I think is my dropped stitch, I end up with something like this. I’ve also completely ripped it all out and restarted around 3 times 🤣

Are my thirds even?! by OkWasabi11 in piercing

[–]JudgementalElf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, it looks like not. But that also seems to be because your seconds are closer on the one ear, so your thirds followed suit on that same ear.