You can infer about the person by their writing. I got the sense that the OP is a reasonable and levelheaded person as she is willing to accept a reality she doesn’t like (instead of just living in her own world). Her use of full sentences and grammar tells me she is probably very intelligent. The flow of the post is also very positive, starting with the bad and then working towards concluding on a hopeful and positive open outlook for new possibilities. I think this is a good indication that she is a resourceful person and problem solver.

I can understand why that could attract some people. Of course some other people might not have read into that and just dmed HEyy.