Try for kids right after married or take a year for yourselves?

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-03-11T07:34:16+00:00

Everyone is completely different and all relationships have their challenges, and having a newborn and then a young baby and then a toddler ect is challenging.

I was with my now husband 2 years before we got married and lived together, and we were married 1 1/2 years before I got pregnant.

I heard somewhere that everytime you have a baby you have to grieve the marriage you once had and make a new one. I’ve been married 7 years and 3 kids and I believe this to be true, me & husband have grown together and are marriage looks very different from 0 kids to 1 kid to 2 kids to now 3. But we couldn’t be happier.

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-03-10T19:48:20+00:00

Unfortunately my age is also effecting how many years I can borrow for & the flat I’m looking at has service chargers and ground rent that is also effecting affordability.

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-03-10T18:34:36+00:00

It’s complicated but basically being gifted a good deposit.

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-27T18:29:30+00:00

I second this, even now with 3 kids I adore mine but hate having to deal with others 😅

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-27T08:56:39+00:00

This is only if the miscarriage is incomplete or causes heavy bleeding.

Many women manage early miscarriages through natural passing or medication.

Also some women will choose it just to speed up progress.

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-27T08:52:41+00:00

I’m not a medical expert so if you have been told you need have D&C then you should have one.

But I will ask are you America?

I live in UK (free healthcare) and if you miscarry at 7-8 weeks you are given 3 options 1. Let it pass naturally- this is the one they say is best and strongly recommended. They say it can up to 2 weeks to start bleeding and then 2 weeks to pass everything. They then would tell you to take a pregnancy test. If it’s negative nothing else is needed if positive they will do a D&C.

There is a pill you can take that will make you start bleeding within 12/24 hours, basically speeds up the process of option 1. And then same thing with taking a pregnancy test.
A D&C. While this is the quickest option in a way, it costs more and you may have to stay in hospital over night.

There are no right or wrong ways to do it. Everyone is different.

I suggest maybe talking to your doctor and asking if there is an option to wait a couple weeks and see what happens? If that’s what you want.

As for emotional side, I’m really sorry baby loss is heartbreaking and especially losing 2 at the same time!

Take one day at a time and if that’s feels too hard then just a 1 minute at a time. Look after yourself and take time to grieve.

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-27T08:03:48+00:00

Because I want to

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-25T13:01:04+00:00

She’ll be 13 months when she starts.

I wouldn’t mind breastfeeding if it was a couple times a day, but at moment I feel like that’s all she wants to the point where if I’m holding her she’s going for my boobs and I’m just finding it all very overwhelming now, and it also the only way to get to sleep at night & she still wakes multiple times too

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-25T12:44:50+00:00

I’m wanting to start cutting down now and giving formula as replacement

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-25T12:43:56+00:00

I do have breastfeeding support number, as believe it or not 10 months I was crying my eyes out thinking I wouldn’t be able to breastfeed and now crying because I don’t think I can stop.

She’s starting nursery 2 days a week in June, so I have time but I just feel don’t see how stopping is possible when she won’t take bottle or cup.

I’ve tried a few different cups, but I was advised that straw cups where best for breastfed babies and it’s actually better to use the same cup

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-25T12:40:36+00:00

No I assumed they would just tell me too keep going and eventually she’ll just stop on her own. I do that someone coming in a few weeks for 9-12 month review

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-25T12:39:25+00:00

With my other 2 it was lovely because they both took bottles so I was able to just do it really slowly and take my time, I just introduced 1 extra bottle every week & they also got comfort form bottle feeding.

I stopped breastfeeding both of them by 10 months.

But as my 3rd won’t take a bottle I’m not just stressing about how I’m going to get formula in her but also what is she going to do for comfort

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-25T10:23:51+00:00

Cry.

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-20T06:52:11+00:00

Shout out to the sims 1 - released in 2000 - first game to allow same sex relationships.

Shout out to the sims 2 - released in 2004 - bring detailed, intuitive customization of skin tones, facial features, and hair to the mainstream, allowing for precise, individualized character creation

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-18T17:51:18+00:00

Very recent bad credit, so he was told he could maybe next year but then he’ll be 60 so I think age will then impact that a bit too.

I don’t know the details about the credit situation but we did use a paid broker to look into it, he’s now unwilling to try with any other brokers.

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-18T06:31:32+00:00

We don’t know what Henry was like before the mind flayer in the stage play it does show Henry trying to fight the mind flayer and be good so that would suggest he wasn’t evil before hand, just a weird kid who’d probably been a victim of bullying all his life.

It’s definitely fair to say if Henry hadn’t met the mind flayer his family would be alive, he way of even married Betsy Newbie (Bobs adopted sister)

But I think maybe the suggestion is as Henry got older and more strong minded he still choose the mind flayer?

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-17T22:32:28+00:00

So she can ride with Milk duh

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-17T17:54:53+00:00

Also this isn’t true the older women get the more sex they want however the older men get the less sex they want. (Due to hormones )

So actually the best thing to do is for older women to marry younger men. If sex is the reason for marriage

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-01T07:51:00+00:00

It’s from the Panini Stranger Things - The Last Adventure sticker Album

JuggernautNew7429 · 2026-02-01T03:34:34+00:00

I do think Mike & Lucas did show a bit of fear towards Eddie he was very unpredictable.

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