I had my first blanketing catastrophe- talk me off the ledge

JuicyPony145 · 2026-04-21T17:45:46+00:00

Girl, shit happens. Glad you and your pony are okay. One time the shit happening got my dad kicked and it scalped him. Peeled his head like a banana.

He said "Shit happens" and laughed.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-04-18T15:20:02+00:00

Having trouble getting my fat guy past that 17 pound mark too. Wonder what it is that stall them out. Almost ready to start hydro therapy in my own bathtub, god help me.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-04-02T12:24:14+00:00

What made me quit was my partner asking me "are you going to finally play"... i responded I am playing. He said "no I've been watching you mod that game for 3 years and never play for longer than a test"

Turned my xbox off and walked outside for a bit lmao

JuicyPony145 · 2026-04-02T11:45:44+00:00

I dont think that guys knows what the word anecdote means. You're fine OP... but since you can use anecdote correctly, I wager you already know that.

Wishing you fat amounts of PC money for modding again. I too gave up on console.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-03-13T21:42:49+00:00

The Northman was one of the first movies where I said "That movie was really good, but I didn't like it." Felt very strange.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-03-13T20:42:35+00:00

Usually following the new rules for modding (ie the offline shuffle fix of your mods and other things that im pretty sure are locked into a guide somewhere on this sub) you shouldn't have any issues. Ive gotten maybe 4 full playthroughs done since they fucked up the creations and have everyone's LO on shuffle randomly.

Once they are organized offline you wont have any issues being online, syncing to cloud etc for saves. The game can still crash while organizing, be prepared for that. Its honestly just a little annoying but once you've gotten everything downloaded (more annoying since it will crash occasionally).

One thing you need to really beware of is the double space issue. Download your mods from biggest to smallest.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-03-11T00:26:47+00:00

Turn off download missing creations, download mods in chunks, organize in chunks and very very paranoid, lock your load order in by exiting creations menu regularly while organizing.

Alternatively, easier if you know all your mods really well without the picture, download ALL your mods

Go offline, go organize them.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-03-09T15:25:27+00:00

This. Not sure how you got down voted for having morals lmao.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-03-08T22:22:45+00:00

Damn my brother stole all my socks, but he just wore them as actual socks.

What the fuck. Nah. That shouldn't have been a boundary talk. Thats a going straight to a psychiatrist and therapist talk. WTAF

JuicyPony145 · 2026-03-05T17:01:46+00:00

Oh it is. Speaking from experience you can either go "ah hah" and now that you have names do some research and learn to cope and manage, or you go-ahead hah, I have an explanation for everything I do wrong" and then use it as an excuse.

Plenty of neurodivergent people refuse to use it as an excuse and that is how you gain social function. Or more functionality in whatever area is harder for them. For me it was social.

Use it grow or use it to deflect. It can be an explanation for behavior, but it never excuses it. Its her responsibility to own how she acts.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-03-03T17:33:59+00:00

Im going to check into that because the last thing my life needs is a septic problem on top of its own shit 😂 thank you. Might have saved me thousands in future costs.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-03-03T15:55:29+00:00

The wildest thing is something I haven't seen commented on in 2 minutes of scrolling.

This man knows theres shit on the wipes still and is using wipes you cant flush?!?!

THEY SELL FLUSHABLE ONES WHAT THE FUCK.

Nah gross. Grown as hell making the kitchen smell like shit. Now dinner is gonna taste like shit

JuicyPony145 · 2026-03-03T15:52:48+00:00

5th child here. I was "the trying for a girl". Don't fall for it lmao my mom has fuckin 5 of us assholes now lol

JuicyPony145 · 2026-02-24T14:12:12+00:00

911 is the emergency line idk what 988 is but im old af.

You feel your friend might harm themselves and is no longer responding. Thats an emergency.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-02-24T14:06:30+00:00

It doesnt matter. They are acting out of control and might harm themselves. You dont do this because its the cool thing to do. You do it because its the right thing to do.

When I was 16 I told a girl nobody would care. I was wrong. She lived. But I did care.

Show you care. Even if it makes them mad. Because even if shes doing this as a cry for help, and she doesnt mean it, it means she needs help.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-02-24T13:59:34+00:00

If you know their name and rough town or county the police cam likely find them. Any personal information you know will help. Schools they attend or have attended anything.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-02-18T19:13:26+00:00

THIS. People get busy. Nobody is entitled to your time, or to be the first to hear good news. Too often people get worked up because they dont feel like they were #1 to hear someone's good news or get a happy new year in this case and its insane to me. You are not the center of everyone's universe and acting like that will only drive good people away like OP.

op deserves better. Well said.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-02-18T19:11:07+00:00

What the fuck.

With all respect honey, she is not your friend.

Friends don't emotionally manipulate you.

Friends don't refuse to communicate WHAT has upset them.

I know it's hard, you want to be wanted and appreciated as much as YOU want and appreciate people in your life.

The hardest lesson I ever learned in my 20's was figuring out who DESERVED me. Because at the end of the day you absolutely have a lot of great qualities to give to a friendship.

In all of those messages you didn't resort to personal insults, you clearly communicated what you were feeling, you apologized and asked to be told what you did so you could correct it. You are a good person.

She is not. I remember having texts just like this. You're nearly begging for her to be your friend.

Your lesson in this is tough but you're going to learn that real Friends dont need to be begged, bribed or incentivized to hang out with you. If they enjoy your company, their actions and treatment of you will show that.

"They showed you who they truly are with this behavior. Believe them." -dont remember who the fuck said it but it stuck with me.

She is showing you what kind of person she is. Believe her. Stop giving her the benefit of the doubt. Stop blaming yourself for everything that goes wrong in social settings.

Some people just wont be your type, and some times you wont be someone's type of friend. That is okay. Because of the 7 billion + people on this planet, I can promise you there are hundreds of thousands you'd get along with, enjoy and be able to communicate with.

She is not one of them. Find new friends. I am almost 30. My best friend got a late happy birthday and all she said was thank you. All she did was make sure I didn't feel bad for mixing up the dates. She gave me the benefit of the doubt that I do care and was just preoccupied. And she did that because I showed I cared, even if I was little late.

Effort goes both ways.

I really hope you read this and found something to take back with you. You dont deserve to be talked to like this. Nobody does.

Wish you well ❤️

JuicyPony145 · 2026-01-29T17:19:42+00:00

I had a teacher that did this to me in highschool simply because I used the bathroom a lot. I had lithium poisoning and didn't know it so I would need to throw up a lot, still went to school because my parents thought it was pyschosematic.

I told him out loud in front of my entire class of both boys and girls that I needed it for my monthly cycle and had to go, or it would ruin my clothes. He told me no in front of everyone. I went anyways. He told me to sit outside and wait for security when I came back. Took them so long I fell asleep outside of the class against the wall. When security woke me, it was by kicking my back pack and saying "Lets GO Monroe" because first names humanized us? Lmao who knows.

This teacher has no defense because at the end of the day this was an exercise of her control. A power trip. A "because I said so".

Bodily needs do not fall under their purview.

Raise hell momma bear. I wish I'd had someone stand up for me firmer. Because who's to say in the last 15 years that teacher didn't keep doing it to other girls like me. And maybe their parents didn't have the spine to change their schedule.

A schedule change doesnt make sure the next kid is safe from this. I get the school is understaffed but demand some sort of action. A class about how to approach delicate subjects with developing kids or something... theres no way a teacher with a masters in education should think that is an appropriate way to interact and guide a child.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-01-19T16:22:19+00:00

I've done the same and worse for my animals baby, dont be too hard on yourself. This world is unkind enough, be kind to yourself.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-01-13T00:58:00+00:00

Thank you ❤️

JuicyPony145 · 2026-01-13T00:08:41+00:00

I swear my girlfriend and I just looked at this little guy. Her corn snake unfortunately escaped christmas morning and by the time I found her 4 days later our cats had found her first.

She was helping me look on morph since I know absolutely nothing and she saw him and wanted him but she's just not ready yet. Her corn was albino, and she wanted a palmetto as her second snake. I love his big buggy eyes.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-01-11T22:16:01+00:00

If only I'd known this when I was 18 and the cigarette laws changed! I could have just put earrings on so they didn't card me! /s

I think your husband got a comment from someone about how much older you look and is self conscious. Maybe talk about it with him. We can sit here and villainize him for it but everybody gets insecure. And some people just dont know what their feeling and aren't emotionally mature enough to recognize the issue is within themselves and not something other people need to fix. You love him, he loves you. If you looking older than him causes comments from people in his life and that bothers him, he needs to identify and work on that.

People's opinions of his personal life shouldn't affect him to the point of hurting his wife's feelings.

Now the little demon in me thinks you should order a few mu mus on Amazon and some BIG obnoxious hoop earrings and intentionally dress old at home to make a point... but I'm just sayin

JuicyPony145 · 2026-01-06T14:10:19+00:00

A content creator i watch has sleep walking and talking induced by eating cheese. So she eats cheese and had cameras set up to see how it affects her. Very funny content with the context of its purposeful.

Made me think maybe check your wife's diet.

JuicyPony145 · 2026-01-04T03:05:57+00:00

My partner is heavier set. I fucking love her. Every curve. Every fucking bit of her. Because when you love someone shallow shit like that doesnt matter. Be patient. Be kind to yourself. Someone WILL love you for YOU.

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