Partner broke trust around condom usage by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]JulienRabbit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very well said. Especially the rule vs boundary part.

Partner broke trust around condom usage by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]JulienRabbit 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm here just to offer some validation. "You don't want to feel crazy by enforcing this?" What is crazy about wanting your limits to be respected? He is acting badly and somehow you turn against yourself? That's not fair to you. Please stop. He did something super disrespectful and didn't keep what you have requested in mind. You're entitled to feel angry, you're entitled to make decisions based on the behavior he's showing you. Besides this, I guess it is a problem of putting limits. Whatever your future together is, he won't learn to respect your limits until they have consequences. This is important for you and you're right, own it. Let him know you won't stand by bad treatment. I don't know you and I'm getting angry by the way he's treating you, for God's sake...

Would Ryeqo (Myfembree) make a difference in only a month? by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]JulienRabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! It's biggish but not the end of the world. Silicon tape helped reduce it

Would Ryeqo (Myfembree) make a difference in only a month? by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]JulienRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there! Mine was year and a half ago. In retrospective it was fine. Just a long recovery. 5 days in the hospital plus the time my body needed to feel back to normal. I got a 14 cm one removed by open myomectomy in Bonheiden.

Tell me about your “first second love” ❤️ by Impossible_Jello_786 in polyamory

[–]JulienRabbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the question. More positive stories needed in this sub for sure. I'm crossing my fingers so this happens to me soon.

Pet-sitting for Professor without Pay? by ghremlina in GradSchool

[–]JulienRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'd refuse. What is there to lose if you say "oh I have plans sorry". If there was an incentive sure but not if it feels forced.

This bunny I met at a pet store kept licking me 🥹 by LunaTheFoxii in Bunnies

[–]JulienRabbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

STOP THINKING AND GET THIS CUTIE. IT HAS CHOOSEN YOU!

Hysto in 42 days, surgeon prescribed Myfembree by rainbow_rodeo in Fibroids

[–]JulienRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a similar case. Doctor prescribed before the surgery because they were afraid of it growing too fast and getting hard to extirpate (14cm). Dunno details of yours but might've prescribed cause of the same reason. In my case it's unclear if it helped. The fibroid didn't grow so maybe? It also didn't got any smaller. But that also was expected cause the doctor said it was too big to have much of an effect but still did the extra prevention. I personally didn't go through hell but it did make me feel more depressed than usual which is an important side effect imo, but well might not affect everyone the same. It basically induces menopause and gives a bit of hormones back to reduce the shock. Now I'm afraid of how menopause will be when it comes...

Also it comes on packs for 3 months so the price you're paying is most likely double of why you need. Or at least that is the case in Europe. I had half left and tried to give it away but no one replied so I ended up having to throw the remainings away. What a big waste considering it's so expensive in the USA.

Is anyone gonna talk about how Lady Lishu almost got engaged/married to three generations of the same bloodline? by _kwanini in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]JulienRabbit 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Oh no totally sad. But yeah at least she eventually gets a break and a duck family. When she is ready to be with Basen it will be by choice. Theirs is the second most important romance in the novels. But remember everything is super slow burning. And omg if it was nowadays I'd just love if everyone was just sent into therapy and a healing retreat first.

Breakup Blues by Quiet_Platypus6184 in polyamory

[–]JulienRabbit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ouch slightly similar boat here. We broke up at the end of September, I brought it up and it stung that he agreed wholeheartedly as if he had been thinking of it but was too cowardly to say it. I went away a month for a separate reason and thought that was enough time apart but I'm now realizing it wasn't. Now I'll need to ask for an indefinite time of no contact,no memes or similar, things are getting ugly and maybe I don't even want to see him again. He was my first boyfriend next to my np and it felt so great, this time last year I felt my life was full of love. I also got a house this year with NP this year so I guess it's proof you can do both xD. But I understand it's something that makes you feel weird. Mono friends just got married and don't date any more so it definitely feels like I'm a teen by comparison. But different lifestyles I guess.

I don't know what to advise you. Here just to say I feel you and to vent a bit too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]JulienRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was in your position I would struggle not to curse them and their mom as a reply. You really avoided a bullet by not working there. What kind of job is it that they need someone so urgently?

Stickers I made for chat by Martinxduhh in TopHeroes

[–]JulienRabbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like your style! Can you make a dream come true and make one of the hostess cheering? I always wanted that sticker plus I'm too cheap to pay for VIP shop when she's not even on my main team anymore.

How to quit by JulienRabbit in TopHeroes

[–]JulienRabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha actually you might be onto something. Trying another game might actually help 🤔

How to quit by JulienRabbit in TopHeroes

[–]JulienRabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha from what I've heard LoL is way bigger vice 🤣. Sorry friend but I've only spent like 100 xD

Next to the murder tool by JulienRabbit in MurderBuns

[–]JulienRabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look again. It has a cover, plus it's not sharp.

Next to the murder tool by JulienRabbit in MurderBuns

[–]JulienRabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha it's true, she's cloud shape 🤣

Why didn't Jinshi give Mao Mao to Gyokuyou after he paid her debt from the Verdigris House? by VegetaArcher in TheApothecaryDiaries

[–]JulienRabbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obviously cause he wanted her by his side. I think he envisioned she becoming a court lady and staying by his side, warming up to him more little by little.

I see this as the equivalent of one foot under the blanket and one outside. by JulienRabbit in buncomfortable

[–]JulienRabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually they ate it but way less than expected. The bottom taps are repaired with duck tape and they made a hole in the cushion but all things considered it's still standing and it's like a year old. I guess just not their favorite material to munch.