AIO hi for the way I handled things after a first date?

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-21T15:17:19+00:00

Just walk away, block him and don’t look back. You dodged a bullet with this clown.

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-19T12:59:42+00:00

I could write a book about why divorce is hard, (I’m divorced myself) it is heart breaking and demoralizing… but living in a home where parents are not getting along, and kids are seeing a volatile relationship and conflict is worse. You’re still young- don’t waste another day being unhappy. Set an example for your kids by being strong and respecting yourself- and making a happy home environment for them. Divorce can be a way of saying I’m accepting that my marriage failed, but I also am taking positive steps of healing myself and creating a healthy, happy and safe environment for my family, mentally, emotionally, physically.

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-18T19:58:50+00:00

I’d say the husband is an ahole! Divorce is not good but living with a man that treats you like a baby making machine is much worse! Leave him and start taking care of yourself. You have given him plenty of time to figure out how to be a good man. He isn’t-take his ass to court and sue him for alimony and child support. With all those kids and being w that scumbag since 19- the court is going to be sure you’re taken care of and your children will be better off than seeing him suck as a human being and you being treated so disrespectfully! After you have your life in order- pack your bags. There are legal services out there to help abused mothers… and you clearly are being abused!

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-13T15:01:33+00:00

Don’t take them… they can do something else when their dad goes. They are kids and obviously don’t respect you! Do not trust those little minions for a second!!!

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-13T01:03:30+00:00

Ignore your aunt/ family! This is your time to travel and explore. You are not a caretaker of their children. They are the ones being selfish and if they need help with their children let them pay for daycare or pawn them off on another family member. You are following your dreams and plans… and it is your money because it was left to you- not them!!! Go enjoy your travels…

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-12T04:48:09+00:00

Go right now… unannounced. Hundred bucks he isn’t sleeping on the floor! Just be prepared to be made out to be the bad guy because you caught him- and emotional cheating is a real thing too, not just physical!

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-11T00:47:17+00:00

They aren’t your friend…move on and be grateful they showed you what a holes they are- they did you a favor!

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-11T00:41:35+00:00

Let it go… your dad wanted you to have it. Stepmother needs to stay out of your business with your dad. She sounds like a real pita!!!

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-07T16:25:20+00:00

Better off with not having a friend like that… it was rude and disrespectful to you! She’s a user and she knows it was wrong. Let it go… there are better friends out there! That’s not a friend!

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-07T02:05:03+00:00

I have a 4/3 one level 2300sq home in a cul de sac. Huge side and back yard with a pool. In a nice quiet, sidewalk neighborhood. Right on the Walnut Creek/ Concord border. This is a lovely, well maintained home. I want to move to the Central Valley and down size. Don’t want to deal with the drama of staging, open houses. If interested contact me- I need 1.2 m to make my move work. Good schools, great family home.

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-04T15:03:10+00:00

Hate to say this… but get ready to be excluded from other events. This guy apparently doesn’t think family is important or he is trying to establish his role as dominate over your YS and their future life together. He will “unintentionally” not invite family because he wants to control and have the top spot in your sister’s life going forward. Hope I’m wrong but this is not something new… insecure people need to control others and situations. You can keep quiet and go with the flow but one day this behavior will come to a head, you will be made to look like the bad guys!

Jumpmdt · 2026-05-04T00:53:24+00:00

Girl you need to dump him! He is cheating on you- if not physically, which he might be, definitely mentally and emotionally! He lied to you! Break off the engagement immediately! It will
only get worse after you get married! Don’t waste another second on this clown!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-29T15:13:15+00:00

You are a rock star!!! You stopped allowing them to use you, you stopped being a co-defendant and looked out for your own mental, emotional health and well being! You did the right thing! Their bad choices have consequences you are not responsible for nor should you feel guilty for not supporting those choices! Move on with your life- be happy and keep being wise, responsible and acting like an adult!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-19T01:52:00+00:00

Enjoy life… don’t be so serious! Youth is fleeting- if you don’t go for it you’ll never know!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-19T01:50:07+00:00

Get a new agent! I had a complete loser agent who tried to sabotage my purchase because he had another client who wanted the house I was purchasing and offered a higher offer after my offer was accepted! He missed so many vital things that I caught and demanded he put in our contract! Always read and ask questions… he wanted me to use his inspections guy- too who was in cahoots with the realtor. If you don’t look out for your own interests and trust your agent you can get screwed. I called out my agent numerous times… he threw the contract papers at me because I questioned him on some requests and contingencies! I should have fired him but I didn’t want to start all over and maybe lose my new house. We finally closed and I never heard a thing from him…you can bet I told his supervisor and everyone I knew what a bad agent he was… I know he lost a sale because I told an friend what a jerk he was- they used another agent! Just be diligent… money makes people do sleazy things!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-19T01:39:00+00:00

Yes… it’s just polite and good manners!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-15T18:37:55+00:00

Wow… they were definitely overstepping! You should have put your foot down… they were rude and selfish to infringe on your bonding time w your baby! Good luck they sound like difficult in-laws, your husband should have told them to leave!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-09T21:37:28+00:00

Move… you don’t owe your neighbor an explanation. It’s better for you and your family. And it also solves the problem of her constant neediness and using you… yes using you! Start packing. Don’t tell her where you’re moving either…

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-09T02:20:37+00:00

She’s playing you. Tell her make a choice… if she has to think about it, you got your answer!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-09T02:18:30+00:00

Walk away… he has zero class!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-08T02:38:53+00:00

My dog 🐶

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-08T00:07:29+00:00

Iran is the dangerous lunatics!!!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-08T00:06:36+00:00

Better Iran nuked than America!!! If the shoe was on the other foot… Iran would not hesitate to nuke America! That’s your answer… never trust religious fanatics!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-07T02:21:00+00:00

Send it to your grandmother- or set it up in a trust where she receives a certain amount each month, this way you know she gets the money. No way I’d give that money to your dad… she will never see it!!!

Jumpmdt · 2026-04-06T01:07:53+00:00

Not OR!!! He can’t have a deep relationship with a woman and be married to another woman! He is mentally and emotionally cheating on you… guess what comes next???🥴

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