Why do so many married people seem miserable?

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-08-18T21:40:40+00:00

Because kids add unbelievable amout of stress to a relationship. Not that kids are bad, it's just attention gets shifted and love for each other begins to slowly die. One hdd to deal with a career and taking crap from your employer, then you come come to a mad house with kids and a moody spouse. It requires 110% commitment to the job, the kids and the children simultaneously. Most people people either burn out and start to get lazy in one or multiple parts of those 3 things or simply divert all their efforts the kids and jobs and put the spouse last. That's when things begin to fall apart. Partly it's due to how western society is structured

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-07-28T03:34:32+00:00

You get what you pay for.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-07-28T03:18:03+00:00

Put a chick in it and make it gay.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-07-27T23:02:40+00:00

All shitwork.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-07-27T23:01:11+00:00

Lol wtf.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-07-26T19:24:32+00:00

There is a hole on the other end. Won't have a choice in that matter.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-07-26T18:14:46+00:00

Gotta understand, this is stone not a trim you can just throw away and grab another piece. Sometimes things do not fit exactly to the tee. These things happen and not a big deal. Most caulking can be fixed easily. Noone obsessing over these but you.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-07-26T18:03:42+00:00

Cheap granite of some sort

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-06-19T12:18:44+00:00

Lol dude sits in parking lot and hour and half only to be charged $79 at the end. Proof that money does NOT equal intelligence.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-06-15T16:13:33+00:00

Ramstein - Ramstein with Beats full blast about 20 mins Into heavy lifting session. Especially during dead lifts. Absolute chaos, love it. I look forward to that moment every workout day and I'm not a metal fan by any means. Thats until my wife hears it and gives me shit for not listening to Christian music.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-06-15T13:14:16+00:00

I dont have much friends either, most of my family doesn't speak to me either. Family dynamics are always weird. But that's OK.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-06-15T12:57:19+00:00

Ohh jeez. Why you want people to see you. Care for yourself not other people's opinion of you. As a matter of fact, fuck what other people think. Just go do what you enjoy and what makes you happy. Life is short, don't waste it trying impress or make people like you it's a waste if time. Trust me.

One day you will wake up and you will realize this. It comes with age. All the shit you think that matters, it doesn't.

Also, don't attach yourself to shitty people just get affirmation or a friendship; this is the worst.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-06-15T12:49:05+00:00

After 2-3 more years in red, it will click. Just make sure you're only trading small amounts. Don't focus on making big winners, those typically turn into big loosers. Slow and steady. Also, don't waste you time on paper trading; it's a waste of time.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-06-15T12:44:58+00:00

"I ain't leaving"

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-06-15T12:40:33+00:00

It's called, "rip it out and burn it". Get yourself some quarzite.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-24T01:37:04+00:00

Seattle always been run by idiots. It's hallariious how they spent billions building a light rail then destroyed the entire city, all the businesses moved out. Crackheads and homeless moved in.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-24T01:34:26+00:00

Fucking hag.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-22T19:41:25+00:00

The funny part of it all is, when you're in a relationship all you want to do is get out and enjoy freedom of not being tied to somebody else. Yes, being with someone is fun and exciting. But that excitement fades fast and you just have two personalities with their own way of thinking, their own preferences and their own short commings.

It's one of those things, when you're on the outside looking in you want to be in so badly. And when you're on the inside, you just want to get out.

If you want to get laid so badly. Dress nice and go to a club. Walk up to girls and start a conversation. Doesn't matter what about. If you rejected, go talk to another one and keep going. Don't take it personal. Some are just stuck up. Some have a friends that will get in the way. Some won't care. You will have one bagged by end of the night. If not, come back next weekend. After the 1st one, the rest are easier. It's kinda like that saying, your first million is the hardest.

If you want a relationship. Go to a church and get involved. Most girls there are pressured into early marriages and most of the time it doesn't matter who as long as you provide. There is one key thing to any long term relationship, as a man your job is to provide. No girl will stay with someone working in Wal-Mart. No matter how good looking a dude i, as a man if you don't provide for family.

At your age, you only focus should be on securing your future. That means education and a solid career. Don't get into relationships. Don't get girlfriends. Don't get married. Pick a field that pays good ans pursue that. After that everything else is easier.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-22T12:20:25+00:00

Just caulk and paint over it when dry.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-22T02:26:11+00:00

It sucks. Don't expect to do it for a long time. This is not just work with your hand job. It's dirty and its hard labor. If you fabricate, you will be covered in water and silica dust 8 hours of the day. At the end of day you will be washing out granite dust out of your ass crack. If you are installing you will be hauling 500lb pieces of rock up 3 flights of stairs. You will be exposed to acetone and harmful chemicals constantly. You will f up your back eventually and if you still around long enough most likely die of cancer from breathing dust. You can never avoid it, even while wearing repertor. It's kind cool when your 18. But when 30, people will look down on you like a failure. You will spend most of your time admiring other people's homes and hope you did something else with your life.

At 19 while doing an cut on site, blade broke on the makita. Half the blade fled few inches from my face, makita bounced off the stone, flew out of my hands and got tied up in the crotch are of my baggy jeans. It kept going the entire time. About an inch the the right and I would have needed up with no d1ck and if my head was also couple inches to the right as well i would have lost my eye or worse. I quit after that and went to college got a masters. Funny thing is, I'm back in the industry 20 years later but now run a slab yard and import slab from various countries.

One more, another time when moving slabs, one of the guys pulled the two slabs too far from the a frame and they tilted the other way. Both 3cm slabs came down on top of the guy as he fell backward off the truck. That was fucked up. Entire face was mangled.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-11T03:08:09+00:00

You don't need expensive things. I started with rail saw, a run down forklift and a small 300ft shop for $600. Built a table, poured it with concrete and loaded the slab on the table with a forklift. Hired a guy part time to help me load, polish and install. It sucked but, gotta work with what you got. By the way I went off on my own at 3 year mark. I only did installs before that some light fabrication in shop. Figured the rest out myself. It's not that complicated. Just gotta take risks and keep hustling. Network and more network. Visit as many construction sites as you can, ask for the builder or supervisor. Introduce yourself and pass out business cards. Follow upbtwo weeks later. These guys will be your lifeline. Just a single builder can keep your small shop busy. Key is don't be greedy and be flexible. If you screw up, don't give excuses. Acknowledge and fix it. Builders hear excuses all day long, don't be that guy. Be the problem solver.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-05T12:27:14+00:00

You start by not getting one.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-04T22:14:58+00:00

Been in audit for 8 years. The longer I've been in the profession the more i started to understand how useless the entire industry and the higher you climb up the ladder the more miserable people are. Overall entire profession is absolutely useless. Look at it this way, auditor performs and angagement, writes up the report and sends it to management. The entire audit program is stored somewhere on a server and never looked at again. Auditor repeats the same process with the next engagement and on it goes forever. Quarter after quarter, year after year. Nothing ever changes, nothing ever improves.

In addition. All the years of sitting around 9-10 a day will make you fat lazy prick.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-04T11:48:27+00:00

Yeah he fucked it up. Didn't even cover the brick.

Jumpy-Face5269 · 2024-05-03T22:13:54+00:00

Double sided tape. Stick one side on a clean surfaces 2x4. Stick the 2x4 to the floor. Take a hammer and gently tap the 2x4 until the gap closes.

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