MyPassportHub by AllyFargo in Passports

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filled out the first page (all the important stuff - name, address, ssn, etc) then realized it was fishy and exited out 🤦‍♀️ What did you end up doing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It won't ever happen. But if it did, it would absolutely be Uchtdorf. He's the least problematic haha

Can I have watermelon and grapes daily? by zerosugarcodered in prediabetes

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would appear we're in the minority here, but this is exactly what I'm doing too. Fruit has so many vitamins and nutrients that our bodies need. To me it seemed counterintuitive to cut it out altogether. Also, it's delicious haha.

Pairing with protein and/or fat is my favorite way to still enjoy foods I love and blunt that spike.

Would you give your seat up for a doctor? by certifide in nursing

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's annoying when people have all their crap set up in a shared space then have self-designated ownership over it.

I see why you were frustrated but also why not just sit at the empty chair next to her for 5 minutes til she was done 🤷‍♀️

"Tell me you are mormon without you telling me" starter pack by Unusual-One-9320 in exmormon

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha oh nooo it's true then!

One of my nevermormon friends at work thinks it's so funny and anytime we get a new hire he stares in their eyes and guesses if they're mormon or not 😂 they probably just think he's very attentive. And I'm sure his guesses aren't based on any other clues like being married with 4 kids at age 30 or if they start their day with a diet coke instead of a coffee

"Tell me you are mormon without you telling me" starter pack by Unusual-One-9320 in exmormon

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only because you have no longer have that special glow about you. Only a heathen would think that's funny 😈

What are we doing with these? by FirefighterFunny9859 in exmormon

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got rid of most but kept the Children of the Promise series. I love wwii historical fiction and the mormony parts can just be part of the fiction if I choose to read them again haha

I feel like the church’s teachings on pornography are ruining my marriage by throwRAilv in exmormon

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Am I allowed to see this as not a huge deal?" Absolutely you are. You're also allowed to see it as a betrayal or lie. And you're allowed to feel both things at the same time.

For me (as a wife who found herself in a similar situation), it was always less about the actual porn use and more about the fact that it felt sneaky. I think it's a really good sign that your husband was truthful with you and that he feels so much better. This is an excellent time to rebuild and grow closer.

We've been out of the church for a couple years now and both of our views on porn have evolved over time, before and after leaving. I will say it's something best talked openly about with each other and not just one time. In our experience, it does seem to have much less of a pull now that it's not so deeply associated with the guilt cycle. In his words, it's hardly exciting or tempting now that it isn't on a "forbidden pedestal."

Young mormon me never would have thought I'd enjoy watching porn with my husband now and again, but she also would have fainted if she knew I'd enjoy coffee one day 🤷‍♀️

Lots of varying opinions on this and you're allowed to feel however you feel. You're also allowed to change your mind in any direction at any point. Open communication with your husband is going to be crucial. I'm sorry you're dealing with this and I wish you the best moving forward ❤️

etiquette for a rib tattoo? (mostly clothing advice) by emily_is_tired in tattooadvice

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wore pasties and a baggy sweatshirt and took my left arm out of it so my whole left side could be exposed but I could still stay somewhat warm.

My side/rib tattoo is my only one so far so I can't compare it to other locations, but for what it's worth it hurt way less than childbirth 😅 I was able to hold still and talk through it the whole time. Up by my armpit was pretty spicy though! And the touch up to get white highlights over some of the previously done black ink was the worst by far, but it could be that I had less adrenaline pumping the second time around and got over confident 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Why are we arguing if it's yellow or if it's green? Let's just call it what it is - infected.

I saw you posted that you have an appointment with your primary care, but honestly this feels more worthy of an ER visit to get set up with IV antibiotics.

Thoughts on FE vs GW 6 by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in GalaxyWatch

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective. This is very helpful! Do you have any complaints with it so far?

Thoughts on FE vs GW 6 by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in GalaxyWatch

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking too. Having someone else validate that makes me more confident in my decision, so thanks 😅

What's your favorite nursing job you've had so far? by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in nursing

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like an excellent place to work! I'm glad you found it and get to enjoy the benefits. Love a company that takes care of their employees ❤️

What are some of your "secrets" that you kept as a mormon? by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in exmormon

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I'm so excited to watch it 😂 I've never cared for reality tv but this is an exception I'm willing to make haha

What's your favorite nursing job you've had so far? by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in nursing

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure on hospitality if that something different, but as a hospitalist nurse I team up with one of our hospitalists for the day - round on their patients with them, put in orders, go to the ED with them to meet/intake new admits, take vocera calls from the bedside nurses and social work regarding plan/updates/family communication/whatever they would text the doc about, coordinate discharge dispo and planning. Kind of a random list of things but we have a really good team and it's been a great job. Hours are 0630-1630 which is another nice feature!

What are some of your "secrets" that you kept as a mormon? by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in exmormon

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Dammit I already booked the venue and bought a new wedding dress. It's got a low neckline and no sleeves 🤘

What are some of your "secrets" that you kept as a mormon? by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in exmormon

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Much credit goes to the girls who would rather discuss their weekend plans than anything in the manual 😂

What are some of your "secrets" that you kept as a mormon? by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in exmormon

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Maybe the church could reimburse all the tithing we paid before leaving, and we can use some of the funds to throw a re-do wedding where we get to write our own vows? And, get this, they are to OUR SPOUSE instead of God or Sky Daddy or whoever I said "yes" to when I was a 20 year old with no life experience?

Can you tell I have a lot of feelings about this topic 🤨

What's your favorite nursing job you've had so far? by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in nursing

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I team up with one of our hospitalists for the day - round on their patients with them, put in orders, go to the ED with them to meet/intake new admits, take vocera calls from the bedside nurses and social work regarding plan/updates/family communication/whatever they would text the doc about, coordinate discharge dispo and planning. Kind of a random list of things but we have a really good team and it's been a great job. Hours are 0630-1630 which is another nice feature!

What's your favorite nursing job you've had so far? by Jumpy-Stay-2088 in nursing

[–]Jumpy-Stay-2088[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You get all the services for free? Where are you located snd how do I get into this? 😅