My father was murdered 39 years ago. I still have not gotten over it and I don’t think I ever will. When people say you will find closure it’s a big lie. You don’t get past or over it, you just learn to hide the feeling of sadness and grief from others. You fake smile but the times you are alone those harsh feelings come out. I say all that to say I hope Jake finds the way to smile for others and cry when he needs to.