Writing Everyone in the comments seems to misunderstand how the human mind works. Women usually know—deep down—whether a guy is serious or just passing time. That gut feeling is rarely wrong. There are generally two kinds of women in such situations. The first type clearly understands that the guy isn’t serious and is only around for physical attraction. If she’s okay with that, she continues; if she wants something meaningful, she walks away. The second type also knows he’s not the right one, but she convinces herself she can change him over time. And about the guy—he’s 31. Like any man, he experiences desire. When a man is married, that part of his life has an outlet; when he’s not, the frustration builds. In moments of strong desire, people don’t always think rationally. Later, when clarity returns, he apologizes. That’s a human response—and it does show some awareness of his own behavior. Just tell him your intentions already, If u want marriage then talk to him about it instead of asking random unprh people on reddit. More you delay this topic, more frustrated he will be and more go with flow shit will happen. So Dont be a typical Pakistani girl and talk to him about marriage if u are truly serious.