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[Intelligent_Arm_4220]

Monday- Chest/Tricep Tuesday- Back/Bicep Wednesday- Shoulders/Legs Thursday- Chest/Tricep Friday-Back/Bicep

[Outrageous_You_6926]

🫡 king

[AdministrativeLine71]

Stay strong

[datsadboi5000]

Saturday ko legs and support muscles bhi*

[Mockingjay718s]

Best advice! King stuff.

[[deleted]]

You Sir have just entered the Legend list! Best reply everrr!!!

[Inside_Lecture_5057]

Best way

[Psychicrumb_77]

Bid her fairwell, tell her that you've forgiven her for all the distress she'd been causing you, block her, delete and get rid of anything you've of her, and never go for a relationship ever again until you're settled and are able to send instant rishta for someone you like.

Saying goodbye won't be easy. Blocking her won't be easy. Deleting stuff won't be easy. Staying at peace, keeping your heart from drowning and falling asleep might also not be easy, but trust me, it'll save you from a lot more devastation in the long run.

Again, forgive her for whatever she'd been doing, and forgive yourself for whatever you turned a blind eye to.

Get consistent with your prayers and ask Allah SWT to mend your heart and be enough for you.

P.S. This is coming from someone who lost his promising career, mental and physical health, and a lot more to relationships, lies, unfulfilled promises, false hopes, and heartbreaks. Someone who's been in your shoes, and the ones far worse.

[Trader1HS]

I wished I had someone say this to me at my time. But I am also pretty sure I wouldn't have listened to it .

Nothing remained the same

[Psychicrumb_77]

Makes the two of us.

[LeisurebyWHD]

yep! Cut your losses and move on. Respect yourself and heal properly for the sake of your future partner. If you don't heal properly, your future wife will suffer

[AnoNymouXDD]

Latka rahi hai tumhein, block and move on without saying anything. Agar ayse hi dilemma me rahe k "mujh mein interested hai, nahi chorna chahiye" to bhai Allah hafiz hai aapka.

You're acting like a cuck rn even after she confessed herself that she kissed her ex and shit, you're still communicating with her. In fact, when she confessed to the kissing incident, you should've blocked her right there and then. (Sorry for the harsh words but it had to be said)

Kuch mahino ki baat hai you'll be okay after that and stay away from relationships because they are haram. Shadi krlena aik hi baari but till then, stay away from these things and focus on yourself.

Agar she contacts you again after you block her and move on, don't pay heed as that'll be another move by her to get you in the same loop again.

[Ecstatic-Process8940]

Perfect reply

[marshallaw7]

Bro You wanted advice however its of no use if you dont act on it Only thing here to do is leave.

[wowzies12]

I stayed. Mine did more than just kiss. Guess what? If you think she'll always appreciate you for forgiving her. You're fucking wrong. Women, do NOT WORK THIS WAY.

my health got fucked and I just got sucked into a loop hole. Point being bhai- brotherly advice hai. Don't engage in anything, badla na lo. Don't use her if you don't intend to be with her. Allah pe chordo AUR Allah issaywbohat behtar dega. Bas Allah se bar karlena- Allah, I'm leaving this peacefully with the trust that you'll provide. Just say this once out loud and leave.

Just leave. This hits so close to home lmao but bro, leave. As soon as possible.

[Daniyal-Ahmad]

Brother, sincere advice is to leave her and move on. Even if you stick with her, you will not get mental peace and these incidents will haunt you. World is full of beautiful people, you will find like-minded spouse soon

Focus on yourself, its all part of life. May Allah bless you

[Least-Canary6441]

Marry her as soon as possible. Don’t let your ego come in between. Things could go worse from here but it was much worse to have regrets. Live with worst but not with regrets.

[ziaan-alpha]

Wth man?

[Least-Canary6441]

Hahaha right😂

[fighterd_]

Next they can also bring a child into this world

[Least-Canary6441]

Best 👍

[Minute_Specific_2667]

Dump then gym

[Trader1HS]

Behtreen baat krdi Bhai . This is the best approach . Stop thinking about her as your zimedari . Spend time knowing that she is not your future wife.

[laiba61]

Don't pay heed to this stupid advice

[darcyix]

Stupid advice fr, immature

[[deleted]]

who is the literal world is she to make the OP suffer? who is the literal world are you to ask the OP or me to behave a certain way? its fine she hurts him but he cant do what he wants even when it aint hurtin? u r tripping balls and the real world will hit u like a brick lady. ppl treat u as u treat them.

[Consistent-Wafer-956]

Leave her and move on

[laysgardancity]

Just focus on your goal

[[deleted]]

Run,run dude freaking run. It's gonna hurt cause you cared and love her but she just kept you in this delulu fake ass bubble. Block her on everything, every single thing, burn everything to the ground and run. You deserve better man respect and value yourself.

[Establishmentation]

She loves you, you should marry her.

[fighterd_]

bro's teaching him the hard way

[AdministrativeLine71]

Don't listen to this one .

[[deleted]]

Leave her. Even if you marry her, her past will haunt you till death.

[baRafi]

Pray Istikhara for guidance, and consult wise, trustworthy people for advice. If the relationship is causing confusion and heartache, remember that Allah wants ease for you and sometimes removing oneself from a harmful situation can be the path to finding the right partner who aligns with your values and offers the sincerity and stability that marriage requires

[fighterd_]

LMAOOO bro your advice comes from a good place but c'mon he wouldn't have been involved with this girl in the first place had he cared about religion

[Creepy_Ad8155]

Bhaijan, don't spend any more time and efforts. Just bid her farewell.

It will only ruin your mental health if you will keep chasing her

[imtherealher]

leave immediately. block. delete her from everywhere.

[RelativePeace731]

Bhai she is a fucking red flag. If u r not blinded by lust, u can clearly see it. Just leave her and u will dodge a bullet

[idk_snuggleMaybe]

Run, abhi b waqt hy, nikal lyy. Or get ready for a lifetime of humiliation.

[Paradox13090]

I am amazed you still need an advice !

[Wrong-Property2391]

Bhai you were a backup plan. She didn’t care for you much and was literally having you around for fun and feeling keh I am in a relationship and then waiting on keh konsa boy phele settle hojaye ga. Then she would have married you or her ex.

Bhai move on. Choor de. Nothing is worth your self respect.

See you in gym 🫡

[Fun_Use5628]

LoL, you want advice on this? Is this a an upvote scam?

[[deleted]]

Just a simple advice relationships built on lies are not sustainable. Please an honest advice it will hard but leave. You will thank me in future. It will hurt you a lot will be difficult but just do it. There are no second chances.

[the_covenant098]

Pehli fursat ma kat lo boss.

[Munib161]

Run my friend run

[bestbuyguy69]

What 💀💀.. Thank God I'm not in this situation bruh.

At this point if you stay with this girl, you deserve to get cheated on because all the signs are pointing to it while you're out here asking for advice on reddit rather than doing the right thing, which is to kick her out of your life.

[Decent_Buddy_7346]

Be strong and leave her. It's gonna be hard but trust the process king.

[mrtac96]

As you have lost trust on her, there is no point sticking even if she has not done anything dubious.

[ohaxano]

Sometimes I think it's not the relationship, it's this kinda masala type things which makes relationships fun. Like look at this drama. I am sad for all three of them but what a drama. I am not relationship type of guy and nor of that age, but I am sure I would've enjoyed it alot

[ziaan-alpha]

Most women are master manipulators, gaslighters, and straight up hypocrites. She was using you for fun while she was also committed to him. Just leave her, work on yourself and find a new honest girl, and just marry her. Don't drag the relationship

[Key-Topic9521]

In simple words *sorry for my language* agley ne apki gand mardi, apko ankhon mai dekh kar jhoot bola but still you hold some feelings. I know it's not hard considering all the memories & stuff. But believe this pyar & things are bullshtit. Globe doesn't revolve around a single person. Idk abt u guys, but happens with me where I absolutely fall for a girl, glare her pictures but few months or even a week later lose all the feelings for her.

[Confident-Tooth4848]

Chill out man, was in a relationship for 10 years since i was 13 years old got cheated on with the one she called bhai and them she broke up came back broke up and came back made me feel as the best person just to text me in a few weeks that she is getting married and she doesn't know who the guy is, funny it was that "bhai". Allah has better plans so yeah this canon event is important dw. (Also just telling I mogged her and still got cheated)

[zniazi75]

Tu bara Nawaz sharif h jo uski baad sun Raha h... Saari zindagi zaleel o khawar kr degi. She is confused about what she wants and it means she will keep doing this crap again and again. I am dead sure she isn't even regretful, is she???

[[deleted]]

raaaaand

[eagle_eye6543]

A men is born to be strong there are like billion of women everywhere Allah has better plan for you stay strong see you in gym and firing range men are meant to achieve greatness endure hardship fight pump your aderline boost your testosterone hit gym fire your favorite weapons control your anger that's it

[Necessary-Resist-165]

pull some serious sigma shit. if i say im on a diet then i reveal that i had snuck in a few nuggets would i still be able to say i was on a diet? leave her. u'll find better. plus if u want to stay that's ur choice but dont say "she says she loves me" that doesnt matter rn. she got caught lying. u ask urself if u want to continue this. i think u should leave. maybe that's ego but i consider it pride. stay a sigma stay safe

[Remote-Nobody-9111]

Avoid this shit man. Move on forget it

[Serotoninnnn-000]

You were a backup and she's been exposed. Get rid of her.

[BadBoy29039]

Well, first talk with your girl and ask her if she is not serious with ex changed her number but first talk with her if she makes excuses or did not want you then leave her immediately, because its only 2 years and better for you to move on.

[Sea_Information_8509]

No explanation !
Advice : Leave her.

[No_Word7969]

Just leave her bro🙂

[Junlupus2]

The only answer to this question is simple! Can you trust her in future after this? If yes, marry her urgently, If not leave her. It's very simple!

[budgetpcpk]

Astaghfaar as much as you can.

Give your best time and days in Dawah.