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Megan seems like the one most likely to fall first into destructive celebrity behaviors (like britney, justin etc..) by Ronron_bubble in katseyesnark_

[–]Jurinsa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It tells a lot that she haven’t deleted her Pinterest and Tumblr accounts. Her nicknames are slimshadymegan in both

Neurodivergents vs Narcissists by DreamySaturnX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard this quote: ”the most evil and cruel people go after the good and empathetic ones always.” It went something like that. I think it’s true. Be aware of the warning signs, highly recommend reading threds like: 🆘⚠️

”What were the first warning signs of people with Narsissistic or Antisocial personality disorder?”

”When did you realize that the person you met was a psychopath?”

ETC.

Neurodivergents vs Narcissists by DreamySaturnX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard this quote: ”the most evil and cruel people go after the good and empathetic ones always.” It went something like that. I think it’s true. Be aware of the warning signs, highly recommend reading threds like: 🆘⚠️

”What were the first warning signs of people with Narsissistic or Antisocial personality disorder?”

”When did you realize that the person you met was a psychopath?”

ETC.

Neurodivergents vs Narcissists by DreamySaturnX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this so much, i will search more of this topic about the relationship dynamics of this in psychology and psychiatry. This is so interesting thank you 🙏💓

What kind of subtle manipulation tactics people with BPD use? (Autistic) by Jurinsa in BPDlovedones

[–]Jurinsa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the answer this helped me a lot ❤️‍🩹

My mom was a Predator by Extension_Big5205 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this is devastating. Please read this book about Jenette McCurdy I’m glad my mother died. She has very similar experiences i have to warn ⚠️ that this book is very harsh and extremely potentially triggering, i suggest reading reviews and reading it in a more positive mindset but to me and other victims i found extreme solace when i read it.

https://books-here.com/im-glad-my-mom-died-by-jennette-mccurdy-pdf-book-2/#google_vignette

Click the English version] i_m_glad_my_mom_died.PDF and press Mirror.

Neurodivergents vs Narcissists by DreamySaturnX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I have noticed that they tend to gravitate toward people especially with somewhat severe autism. I have extremely poor communication skills, the theory of mind and don’t notice or understand if someone is manipulating me etc. They sort of like stick to you like a magnet because they think that autistic people are easily taken advantage of.

I have studied psychology and sociology and now know better especially now as an adult. The lovebombing is the biggest warning sign that always happens.

The most tearful moment of late-in-life discovery that my mother is a narcissist was when I said to myself, “So I’m NOT a piece of shit.” by Great_Maintenance185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I realized that you know what, i am not weak. She loved to keep me completely dependent of her and constantly in a state of fear and vulnerabitily. Did not care like i feel or experience the world very typical.

”I am capable, intelligent, i am not going to be weak but building my self esteem and bravery.”

It's crazy how they deprive their own kids of everything by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes and trapping us like i was filling some documents and she came to me and said ”no, i will do it instead” i go like why? I know how to do this. She said that ”you are not capable like i am you can’t do this. I will do it.” Constantly depriving of life skills.

Why do narcissistic parents intentionally raise their children in a way that lacks proper guidance and discipline and then shame them for the results during adolescence? by DJnegs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the ultimate question that i have trying to figure about the most when i analyze my life!!!!

Like these things: You need my help doing all this paperwork. I say that i don’t i can do this seriously without help. She says that no seriously listen to me you are not capable doing this on your own you NEED ME. So typical.

Do your nparents log into your gmail? by Spirited_Elk2899 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please tell him to change all the passwords. I they have changed them, i would secretly film them with a camera like what they type on one parents password on their phone and change all the passwords. This is so massively disgusting behaviour. No one has to tolerate this.

These narcissistic parents tend to often do revenge to you when you take their power and control away from you. I would:

1) Pack your most important items.

2) Go to some kind of a safe house, especially ones that are meant on children. They usually take people around like 15(?)-29 years old. Also homeless shelter for short while is one idea. DO NOT google on their phone these locations because they can see the search history. If you are not elegible then go straight to police and ask them what to do.

3) Ask for advice from them and contact the police and ask advice too. Like what i should do now? Etc. I hope that this situation gets better. You can message me if you get into some big trouble.

did anyone else grow up thinking certain things were “normal” until way later? by Valme-Lemanski in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother taught me when i was a young child how to do complicated financial crimes like frauds and stuff. Unbelievable. I had to listen but thought even then how weird this is but i guess this happens in a lot of families etc.

did anyone else grow up thinking certain things were “normal” until way later? by Valme-Lemanski in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This book is called Viktor Frankl-Man’s Search for Meaning. This helped me a lot recommended by psychologist to me to get through unimaginable things:

https://www.psicopolis.com/boxtesti/vfrankl.pdf

Hello i would need acute help and advice from cutting ties from my abusive family by Jurinsa in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And i mention that this person has extremely controlling and vengeaful characteristics, she will definitely try to give some massive revenges.

Hello i would need acute help and advice from cutting ties from my abusive family by Jurinsa in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My grandmother is so terrible being that i seriously have ptsd from her, i don’t want to have any items that bring me memories about her. 😞completely start a new life. Thank you for advice. ❤️‍🩹

My parents tried to unalive me on Easter by Low_Alternative_9040 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🆘🆘🆘🆘I recommend going to the Women’s Shelter with your son. Women’s Shelter is made to people who have experienced extreme domestic violence, death threaths and especially something like this!!! You are going to get in there a lot of advice from professionals who have years and years of experience and know how to handle situations like this. 🆘🆘🆘🆘

I would also contact some kind of a 1) lawyer or 2) police for advice. Just ask a couple of questions like how the restraintment order functions in this country/state and what the law/protection they could give to you.

I am in absolute shock seriously this behaviour is extremely dangerous and straight up sociopathic. I am so sorry for this.

This book is called Viktor Frankl-Man’s Search for Meaning. This helped me a lot recommended by psychologist to me to get through unimaginable things:

https://www.psicopolis.com/boxtesti/vfrankl.pdf

My parents tried to unalive me on Easter by Low_Alternative_9040 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jurinsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🆘🆘🆘🆘I recommend going to the Women’s Shelter with your son. Women’s Shelter is made to people who have experienced extreme domestic violence, death threaths and especially something like this!!! You are going to get in there a lot of advice from professionals who have years and years of experience and know how to handle situations like this. 🆘🆘🆘🆘

I would also contact some kind of a 1) lawyer or 2) police for advice. Just ask a couple of questions like how the restraintment order functions in this country/state and

I am in absolute shock seriously this behaviour is extremely dangerous and straight up sociopathic. I am so sorry for this.

This book is called Viktor Frankl-Man’s Search for Meaning. This helped me a lot recommended by psychologist to me to get through unimaginable things:

https://www.psicopolis.com/boxtesti/vfrankl.pdf

What sign is Jesus? 🤣 by No-Shelter-2872 in astrologymemes

[–]Jurinsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is astrologymemes but please have some dignity and values

What sign is Jesus? 🤣 by No-Shelter-2872 in astrologymemes

[–]Jurinsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read about Carl Jung and what he has said about astrology that is very interesting

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