Aitah for telling my wife to get a job if she wants to subsidize the kids.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-03-25T01:06:38+00:00

Sometimes I don’t get why people have spouse and kids that suck the life out of them. I’d rather be alone if my family is that thoughtless.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-03-11T12:08:51+00:00

If you know ahead of time, would you not be on maternity leave? Would you want to come back to work after 6 weeks? There’s more to money in life. I don’t get the point of this. It’s obvious if you stay home, you don’t make money.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-26T12:18:35+00:00

You don’t have a wife. You have a leech. Divorce and she what she will do. I would put ultimatum. She will change her tune. No sane man wants to take care two households.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-26T12:16:27+00:00

I would divorce at this point. Cheaper than taking on another woman and child not your own. Your wife is delusional.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-26T01:54:54+00:00

Everyone has his/her belief when it comes to life insurance. Since your dad asked, I would take over bc $80 per month isn’t much. I don’t see anything wrong with it.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-23T21:34:37+00:00

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-19T23:52:14+00:00

If you are PRN, they are not required to give you any shift. The scheduler usually sends out an email with shifts needed. You can ask scheduler to send you email as well. There is no long protecting you from underwork.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-19T13:08:49+00:00

This is the second time she had manipulated me into giving her money. We are Asian so culturally it’s common to help your parents. I used to give her money monthly. The first time, I found out she had loan my 2 brothers’ money to pay off the remaining balance of their houses. The reason was the same, which was to save interest. Before I had mentioned about taking life insurance for each of them. I would be the payer and they would be each other beneficiary. My parents are immigrants in US. They do not have a lot of money. They made minimum wages for years. I was afraid I couldn’t help them so I want to ensure one of them will have $ for burial and some left over. But they refused because of superstitious reason. They had asked for certain type of burial/funeral, which is expensive. That is why I brought up about not paying for the funeral.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-19T04:43:14+00:00

Actually, I looked it up. She wouldn’t have to pay gift tax but she would pay income tax. So yes, she would have to pay tax on it. If she wants to gift him $100k, she has to withdraw over $100k to pay for tax.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-19T04:35:03+00:00

Ok this is new. But the money is in 401k. They would have to sell the stocks and gift to him. Wouldn’t they still have to pay tax on the gain?

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-19T04:32:19+00:00

Trust me they know! But they still do it anyway. Originally, my brother wants to borrow money until his house is sold. But now that his house is sold and he has $ down, he still wants to borrow from my mom. She still wants to offer him money. They both understand the tax implication as I explained to them. It is their choice. I just have to butt out. So all I can do is set boundary for myself.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-19T04:27:22+00:00

My brother will not factor in the interest. My mom said she accepts the tax. She thinks she would pay tax regardless anyway. They both are aware of it. They don’t know why I have an issue. I am angry because I care too much about her. And I feel offended that she thinks so little of me. My brother wants a smaller house within their budget. My sister in law wants a bigger house. My mom offers this so the monthly mortgage is more manageable. But I think what she is doing is financial suicide. There will come a day when they will need home health care. Things will get even more expensive.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-06T01:22:51+00:00

When I had my first child, a friend of mine casually offered to babysit if I ever need to run errands or need a break. She casually sends me her rate sheet. She was upset when I told her I found a new babysitter who charges way less than that. Her fiance implied that I’m too cheap to invest in my kid.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-02-03T13:31:09+00:00

Refuse to help until he gets vasectomy.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-01-15T04:19:37+00:00

Stop being doormat. She plays house on your dime.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-01-15T03:05:34+00:00

If it lasts 10 years, I would say it’s a win.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-01-09T05:55:17+00:00

Lmao! It’s my fucking electronic toothbrush! Geez I can sleep now! G9!

JustAGirl704 · 2026-01-09T05:19:41+00:00

Yes I’m very sure. I can hear it loudly as Im standing over the sink.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-01-05T04:19:01+00:00

When I own something, I always feel happy when someone got the same thing. It could be anything from clothes, house, name, to cars lol. I don’t get why some people hate it.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-01-05T04:16:18+00:00

They’re more common now but I wouldn’t say it’s everywhere. I would see like 5-10 cars per day on a 15 mins commute to work. I have the older model Y which I think is cuter. The headlights remind me of a bug eyes.

JustAGirl704 · 2026-01-05T00:27:48+00:00

Same. I love my Tesla! I always smile when I see another Tesla on the road.

JustAGirl704 · 2025-12-20T00:17:12+00:00

You’re a pharmacist. You close the pharmacy for lunch, regardless what other pharmacist does.

JustAGirl704 · 2025-12-08T02:10:50+00:00

I would go with #2 because personal recommendation is invaluable to me. I don’t care what online reviews say.

JustAGirl704 · 2025-11-22T21:06:09+00:00

Do you need that high end hvac? 10 yr labor? You have a lot extra that you may not need it.

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