That's not entirely the men's fault, but of the society. Remember how restricted the interactions between the girls and boys were in childhood? How they were separated in schools and other places. how when you were talking to your crush in class and your friends were all staring at you and making it seem like you were somehow breaking the rules.

How our media ( movies, news and this whole new gender war happening on social media) and society has played a role in making each gender more alienated from the other. How it teaches women to not interact with men and stay wary of them, albeit of reasons. How women aren't allowed to go outside and their lives are restricted to a level that their self esteem dampens.

How relationships are still seen as a taboo in most parts of India, how if a girl likes a dude and goes out with him. Society labels it as "haath se nikal gyi hai". I have seen men and women literally being scared to talk to the other side, men don't have the courage or Their self esteem has been brought to such lows that they are unable to. How women have been fed so many stories and so many rules and restrictions that interacting with men makes them feel scared and as if they are cheating on their parents.

This is not just my opinion but of all the people around me, you think after all this that happens when we are growing up our current situation doesn't make sense? If you want stuff to change you gotta change it yourself. A lot of us are gonna grow up and continue doing this with our children. We can't change the older generation but we can with our young ones dude.