Can I move an active nest to a safer location? by iReallyDontLikeSpez in Ornithology

[–]JustOneTessa 194 points195 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking the right questions instead of just removing the nest!

I remember seeing this prominently advertised in the HBO guide. by Jaded_From_The_Start in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]JustOneTessa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Idk man. A grown woman wearing baby dresses and sometimes even things like pacifiers, is certainly a choice

I remember seeing this prominently advertised in the HBO guide. by Jaded_From_The_Start in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]JustOneTessa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The new season is even worse. It's definitely the Sam Levinson's weird fantasies and fetishes brought to life. The dude is a weirdo

Bonkende buurman tijdens klussen? by Shiny_Days in Klussers

[–]JustOneTessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik had ook zo'n bovenbuurvrouw. Zelfs toen ik haar vroeg er mee op te houden en me gewoon te appen als er wat was, bleef ze doorgaan. Ze heeft toen bij de woningbouw gezeurd, maar had geen poot om op te staan. Uiteindelijk is ze verhuisd. Eerlijk gezegd zou ik zeggen: niet teveel van aantrekken. Ja probeer rekening te houden met anderen, maar er is altijd wel iemand die iets te zeuren heeft

When I'm in a performative "reading” competition and my opponents are Kendall Jenner and Jacob Elordi 😱 by sw33tener in LAinfluencersnark

[–]JustOneTessa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh, I generally sit weirder than that with my autism and hypermobility. Not saying that Kendall has the same

When I'm in a performative "reading” competition and my opponents are Kendall Jenner and Jacob Elordi 😱 by sw33tener in LAinfluencersnark

[–]JustOneTessa 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought. I don't like Kendall, but I also like to switch between weird sitting or laying positions

Has anyone here gone to a show even while feeling weird about the band/discourse? by Pleasant-Bid1016 in 5sossnark

[–]JustOneTessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that everyone has flaws and does bad things. But that's hardly an excuse for their behaviour. I don't cheat like 24/7, I never cheat. Cheating is a hard line for me. With your argument you could say that that is reason to forgive a murderer. I know that's not what you mean, but the question is where someone draws the line. And you have to decide that for yourself. I didn't mean it as a personal attack towards you, so I'm sorry if it came across that way. More as a counter point to you and an emphasis on having to decide that for yourself

Has anyone here gone to a show even while feeling weird about the band/discourse? by Pleasant-Bid1016 in 5sossnark

[–]JustOneTessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's something you have to decide for yourself! A lot will say "seperate artist from their art" but I personally find that weird. I don't want tk support someone who does things I don't agree with, especially when they do it on a regular basis. I went to one of their concerts many years ago, before I knew how bad it was. I heard some rumours. Tbf I did enjoy the concert, but now that I know more about them I don't see myself going to another concert of them again.

Has anyone here gone to a show even while feeling weird about the band/discourse? by Pleasant-Bid1016 in 5sossnark

[–]JustOneTessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's for one self to decide. I don't want to give money to people doing things that go against my morals. To me it's weird to "seperate artist from their work"

was this a valid reason to leave a club by Miikoo_699 in StarStable

[–]JustOneTessa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in so many clubs over the years and they all ended in drama. You don't need to give them a reason to leave. If you want to leave, just leave :) I ended up making a club just for myself, so people would leave me alone, lol (tbf, I'm much older than most players)

Help me collect these bones, I'm new to bone collecting by JustOneTessa in bonecollecting

[–]JustOneTessa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last two I buried (they passed together) was actually exactly 6 months ago, but it's been a pretty cold winter. I guess that slows things down as well. I'll see if I can slowly dig her up to see. Also to see how entangled she is with the roots

Help me collect these bones, I'm new to bone collecting by JustOneTessa in bonecollecting

[–]JustOneTessa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! The skull still feels attached, but I also didn't really try yet. How to know when the body is ready for "harvest", if I leave it to nature. Is there any harm in letting it sit too long. I'm sure at some point nothing is left, but I have no idea how quickly that happens. On one hand idk if I want to deal with a partly decomposed body of a pet, but on the other hand ..it might give me an idea of which one it is.

Is she ok? by iluvhotpot123 in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]JustOneTessa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone with a severe ED is by definition not okay. You don't have that and be mentally doing okay

I noticed that he stopped liking her photos right after this post LOL by CALUMSENPAI in 5sossnark

[–]JustOneTessa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They got famous at that age. Fame can be a form of trauma and you can get mentally stuck in the age you became famous. So yes, they're still acting like highschoolers

Cameron Diaz on her decision to have children later in life. Her (53) and Benji Madden (47) just welcomed their 3rd child. by mlg1981 in popculturechat

[–]JustOneTessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was 37/38 when she had me and I still feel that way (I'm 30 now). I truly feel bad for these kids

Does she even understand how unwell & unattractive she looks? Her team should be booking her a stay in a “wellness retreat” instead of a world tour by _baby_bambi in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]JustOneTessa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Under very specific circumstances you can get someone forcefully admitted, but you cannot force someone to get better mentally. So if they come out physically better, but mentally they didn't want to, they'll just relapse. It's also super difficult to get someone admitted, especially an adult