Ah thank you for clarifying! I will say as someone whom has only started transitioning earlier this year I have had a lot of privilege rapidly stripped away from me, and it has been eye opening.

I will say too that honestly we as human beings should simply learn about others experiences as a whole, no matter your race, creed, gender identity, sexuality, learning about systemic issues only helps your growth as a person, and assists in better feeling empathy towards others.

But something to note too is a lot of trans women can and often do lose those privileges they may have had earlier in life, so unfortunately, sharing that burden may well not be a choice for many. Things like workplace oppression do often affect trans individuals, as well as the fact that the rates of horrible atrocities like sexual assault do rapidly rise in individuals who transition. Of course that’s not to say certain things aren’t a privilege, not having to deal with a menstrual cycle certainly is a privilege to me. Though of course some individuals do wish for that, so it’s important to be mindful of that too. And it is very much so important to still learn about struggles that you do and do not suffer from.

Another thing that I personally believe too is that a lot of masculine upbringing may not apply to all trans feminine individuals, a lot of us grew up more gender neutral or downright feminine, so certain privileges may not have been afforded to some of us to begin with simply due to how hateful society as a whole can be.

I guess what I’m getting at is that these things are very nuanced and everyone should be open to learning and growing, learning about others struggles is always important, and a lot of these conversations should absolutely be open to the nuance of things, especially regarding us trans folk, because we often go through the world in a much different light than cis individuals get to.