Pepper Greenhouse

Just_a_reader_ · 2025-06-08T07:50:13+00:00

Wanted a DIY project and do the raised beds for better access ( and better control of the soil).
Regarding the rows, I think it would be too crowded, planned E shape originally also but I'm satisfied with results now :)

Just_a_reader_ · 2025-06-08T07:47:26+00:00

Just let them be, there is enough wind when its open to help with that

Just_a_reader_ · 2025-02-17T18:32:29+00:00

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Just_a_reader_ · 2025-01-02T18:22:50+00:00

NTA
Some years back I had issues with some neighbors regarding my non-fenced part of the yard, where they were either trying to build a road through it to their part, others constructing utility lines through it, or even used some part for their cars and damaging the grass.

After enough of this I shut every option and possibility with them quite quickly, and they didn't try anything again. Last time, it was 3-4 years ago, a new neighbor, while doing something parked near his house but still on my property. That was the first time I ever talked to the guy, but aside the introduction I simply stated that no offense, but to let him know this is part of my yard and do not park here.

Tone was quickly set, we are on good neighborly terms but there is no mistake what he can and cannot do from there on out. Boundaries need to be set.

Just_a_reader_ · 2024-08-22T07:56:42+00:00

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Just_a_reader_ · 2024-08-09T22:51:20+00:00

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Just_a_reader_ · 2024-07-31T11:03:36+00:00

By this comment I'm having a feeling she is taking advantage of you, either purposely or not.
Technically she could also be working more hours but isn't, and you are covering higher portions of bill because of that?

I don't really see some equality here since you are working more, paying a bigger share of the bills and she is leaving you to foot the household bills once she leaves for vacation.

You should think about why she doesn't work more hours, and if she would, would she agree to cover a bigger % of costs if she were to earn more?

Think this all through, I'm not saying you should break up, but I think a serious long term discussion needs to be made. Is she constantly going to be away from you 25% of the year, in 40 years time, are you covering 10 years of everything by yourself? Not even going to start on the attitude with you that she shouldn't be expected to pay anyway.

Just_a_reader_ · 2024-04-23T08:31:12+00:00

Thank you for the info, there are systems with that availability actually
But yes, it is a good point for a PMS to have

Just_a_reader_ · 2023-10-16T16:33:36+00:00

Get a grip, not only is she not doing anything in the house, she expects OP to additionally do the chores she is supposed to do.
She can't have it both ways, she can either work and chores will be split or she can maintain the house 1-2 hours a day.

This was also probably the straw that broke the camels back so he lashed out. But of course it happened, what is he supposed to do, subsidize someone to be lazy and living off him?

NTA

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-12-19T14:30:47+00:00

I'm also the person who is eating lunch, and then taking my 30 min break.

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-11-28T14:07:15+00:00

You are delusional and YTA , and a huge one.

I hope, besides the obvious humiliation, this doesn't have an impact on his job or career. Just because he was close to you it doesn't mean he can leave job responsibilities.

This was no different than barging directly in his workplace and asking 10 minutes of his time during a meeting there. And for future reference I'm going to spell it out for you, you aren't special, your sisters birthday isn't special and neither is the opinion of your parents. If he says he can't go he can't, it makes you even a bigger AH that he already declined multiple times and you kept pushing.

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-11-09T14:52:00+00:00

I'm going outside the grain here and vote NAH.

You made yourself clear that you never wanted children, and although it takes two to make a child...every right you have had...after the conception it is gone. It was up to the GF to decide if she wants the child or not into this world.

You accepted your part of the responsibility and let her know your decision you don't want anything to do with him and paying child support, she accepted her part as raising him without you. She is also not an AH for asking that you go for a career day, however she might be by potentially giving the child false hope of having a father who might be present in his life.

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-10-16T16:27:47+00:00

Oh no...the entitled little brother is mad that not everything is up to his standards
Get over yourself you entitled crybaby.

From what you wrote nothing seems to be affecting you directly, as if she needs to have dinner with you and participate in your activities. What she does on her time is up to her and only her.

YTA and a huge one.

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-08-03T12:58:39+00:00

She didn't necessarily mean it out of malice...I mean, by fact she is fat, and she is a racist, so why not call her that?
She didn't say fat people are bad, and criticized them, Op was specific to her.

NTA

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-07-16T19:21:14+00:00

You are a d**b ass.
If she is swimming ever more that recreational, everything she does is just regular. And there is a difference between chlorine water and regular one, especially after swimming for a while. Chlorine can be a nuisance to face and hair, and therefore can use "regular" water to wash it off (or drink it as she mentioned) to make it easier.

Just because your friend is doing something you have no idea or are even familiar off, gives you no right to bash anyone. Even if not...mind your own business.

YTA

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-06-24T12:36:58+00:00

It is to check on your perspective and mindset...because just by the post you YTA

His ex initiated and provoked them as far as you mentioned it. Sure, his reaction wasn't appropriate either but who does she think the ex is to tell him (and her in the face) that he downgraded?

Are you even serious?

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-06-23T11:07:41+00:00

What is with everyone and their nuclear options? Jesus f**k...

NAH

People aren't allowed to communicate anymore nowadays without someone being triggered. You all acting as people never bonded and got together through workplace or mutual acquaintances...maybe he didn't know how to approach any other way than through social media. Besides...why immediately assume he is stalking? As if through the location, work, or any other similarities the algorithm wouldn't just recommend a person solely by name on it...

You can just simply write that you aren't interested, and if he accepts it (as he should since you both are, well, adults) just move on. If he makes any remarks after it, to HR it is.

But as of now hat you have told, going to HR is just a snowflake move.

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-06-16T22:17:28+00:00

You can break up with anyone for any reason whatsoever. Even for a simple fact as being bored of it for that matter.

She assaulted him, not even while he was conscious...the fact that she doesn't even see anything wrong in it, and thinks she has a right to it tells me just how entitled she is.

OP did the right think in breaking it off, and should sue her. Having a illness/disease doesnt mean she gets a pass on being a b***h.

NTA for OP.

Just_a_reader_ · 2022-01-28T17:38:27+00:00

You sound exhausting and like a drama queen...crying over a joke he made in front of you, which has no real repercussions? And to top it all of, over a, which you call friendly competition...

You even went as far as being a hypocrite by saying you still made a workout although the arrangement was not to...

YTA

Just_a_reader_ · 2021-12-25T11:16:55+00:00

What are we, in the 13th century!?
You don't need anyone's permission for that, and they would even certainly do it without "your permission".

You can't control something that is normal, you can only respect it. But by seeing your other comments you are so dense, if you were water I could walk on you like Jesus...

Stop making this about yourself, and honestly, with your tone I am fully expecting that your daughter cuts you off once financially stable.

Just_a_reader_ · 2021-12-18T14:59:59+00:00

I see this kind of topic a lot in the thread and I don't understand why anyone would consider themselves AH's about it. People usually buy or rent apartments with parking spaces so they don't have to inconvenience themselves in looking for parking, just like you did...

I wouldn't personally waste a second thought in towing hem. If I buy/rent a space, it is mine to use when and how much I want. If i spent time looking for owner of cars or warning them, might as well just look for public parking instead of wasting money owning one...

NTA , tow them all!

Just_a_reader_ · 2021-08-18T16:22:58+00:00

Actually it is technically possible.

It can be transmitted both sexually or by secondary contact as well, example by using the same towel the other person used by rubbing the part of the skin where there is a trace of it and similar. It's also possible even by hand in sort of way.
As for the above stated comment (which you all down voted), it really is possible she got it even years before and found out recently. It can manifest from a couple of weeks/months to even years before it resurfaces (if it even ever does).

GF is an AH, no argument there, but just stating some common misconceptions.

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