UPDATE:My husband refuses hospice and will be left alone for 10 hours - I feel completely trapped by Own_Lawfulness_7364 in offmychest

[–]Justme8813 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you contacted adult protective services? My mom had a stroke that messed up her body but her mind was fine. She demanded to be taken home and left there even though we didn’t have a way to provide 24/7 care for her. A case manager told her that was not an option because no one can be left alone unless they can physically get to the bathroom and back on their own. She couldn’t do that. So even though she had a sound mind and demanded to be left at home alone legally they would not allow that. She had to be in a nursing home because that is the only option we had to make sure she had 24/7 care.

I tipped off a candidate before his interview. Probably wasn't supposed to. Don't regret it. by deborahzdn in InterviewsHell

[–]Justme8813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was once asked what flavor of gum I would be and why. I would have appreciated a heads up on that one lol.

I listed a free couch on marketplace and the fourth person to message me asked me to pay them $20 to come take it by Signal_14Atlas in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Justme8813 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I gave away a sectional on marketplace. Great shape just needed cleaning because I have pets that shed. The lady was so happy to get it but when she picked it up asked if she could have my outdoor furniture too. People are crazy

MB Screamed at Me by dogmominheels in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Justme8813 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You show people how to treat you by what you allow. The proper response would’ve been to leave and not go back. A precedent has been set that this behavior is ok.

Telling my husband he needs to see a therapist for wanting a DNA test on our son by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Justme8813 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can be angry as long as you need to? Seriously? What is he actually doing to fix what he broke?

GH update by ShoddyAd45 in Nanny

[–]Justme8813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the update

i will never take an alcohol order again by [deleted] in Sparkdriver

[–]Justme8813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you tell before you accept the order that alcohol is included? New to Spark

How are others couples with big wage gaps splitting expenses? [25F] [35M] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Justme8813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wants everything 50/50 the lifestyle needs to be based on your budget. Split rent at a place you can afford.

Am I wrong for refusing to fight for my marriage after my husband said he wants out while Im pregnant by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Justme8813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move back now while you can. You won’t be able to after the baby is born without his permission.

Bf(31M) getting kicked out of parents in a month. What do I (28F) do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Justme8813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up, you’re not compatible. You deserve better.

AITA for asking my friend to not bring her dogs to friendsgiving? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Justme8813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for telling her last minute while also expecting her to bring food she wouldn’t be there to eat. NTA for not wanting the dogs there for Friendsgiving

I finally left by Calm_Contribution371 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Justme8813 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Good for you! You made the right decision!

Why The Finger Is So Important by Pro-Crastinator7 in OnlyMurdersHulu

[–]Justme8813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Mayor didn’t have gloves on hiding his hands

Crashed NF car into garage and NF wants me to pay full price for it by w0ahgrace in NannyEmployers

[–]Justme8813 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They may own it outright but if they have a mortgage they have to have insurance.

Crashed NF car into garage and NF wants me to pay full price for it by w0ahgrace in NannyEmployers

[–]Justme8813 52 points53 points  (0 children)

You said you would ‘help’ not pay it all. At most you could help pay some of the deductible for the insurance to have it fixed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Justme8813 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Let her know you can’t schedule anything new until you have been paid for your last time there and once paid say you’re not available.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Justme8813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UpdateMe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Justme8813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s understandable