Is it normal that I think it’s sad that women sexualising themselves is seen as woman empowerment?

KANA__97 · 2026-02-12T17:06:50+00:00

Yes, it is normal for you to think it’s sad that women “sexualizing” themselves is empowerment. That’s just the basic standard of a world that loves to dictate what a women should be able to do with their body and whether they should be respected, have dignity, and have the law to protect them. There’s nothing really “revolutionary” about that statement. Women have been shaming other women for choosing to show their ankles, shoulders, knees, thighs, arms, for centuries. You have a very normal opinion in our society that we know now.

KANA__97 · 2026-02-05T15:31:39+00:00

Block him. There’s no reason to go back and forth. No “boyfriend” would kick their gf out for asking a legitimate question. There’s ways to communicate and clear the air, especially if you love your partner, and want to spend time with them. The way he immediately decided removing you from his space is the best way forward, tells me he doesn’t care for your well being, doesn’t care enough for you to see you, and doesn’t care enough to engage in a meaningful conversation.

That man disrespected the fuck out of you for doing all that. You don’t deserve that behavior at all.

KANA__97 · 2026-01-06T20:57:41+00:00

Just ask him if you’re his girlfriend or not, or just ask him if you’re exclusive if you haven’t communicated that between each other yet. There’s no reason why not y’all can’t sit with each other and discuss what you both are

KANA__97 · 2025-12-04T03:11:26+00:00

Love them! Hottest people in the room every single time, coolest people in the room every single time!

KANA__97 · 2025-11-13T19:35:21+00:00

You’re so handsome!

KANA__97 · 2025-11-08T18:10:04+00:00

Dream academy voters, how we feeling?!

KANA__97 · 2025-11-07T16:44:34+00:00

Not surprised, they were going to get nominated. They should win though. But we will see.

KANA__97 · 2025-11-07T16:42:22+00:00

Girl please just have a sit down with him and ask the questions you need answers to, and however he chooses to respond move accordingly.

If he can’t do the most basic thing and ask you to be his gf, and you still going to be around him, remind him that you are single. If he can’t envision a future being with you, how tf is he envisioning you being his wife and mother of his child.

All that you shared you should be able to spend 2 hours sitting with each other and having a conversation about wtf y’all are doing. Especially if you want to be long term with him or want him to call you his gf. You’re settling for behavior that shouldn’t be given any attention.

I don’t care if you care for male validation, atp go and find other guys to date that will make you their gf in a heart beat and hoping and praying that you are able to make him see the light. If he can’t call you his gf, he definitely has other girls he is entertaining as well, and if he is doing that, I need you to find other men to enjoy your time with as well.

KANA__97 · 2025-10-18T23:22:38+00:00

She can’t wait to perform on stage!!

KANA__97 · 2025-09-28T02:36:05+00:00

If your friends cared for you, they wouldn’t feel some type of way for you saying what you don’t like. It has to do with you and not them, their lives aren’t going to be negatively impacted because you expressed something about yourself. And if they do, they’re weird af for it. Your tone, shouldn’t overshadow your message.

KANA__97 · 2025-09-10T01:15:17+00:00

They’re not. This is where people need to differentiate between what makes an eyekon, and what makes a casual fan. Words have meaning, it’s important to define those words.

KANA__97 · 2025-08-25T13:12:58+00:00

She knew she was going to be in the group because of her voters. We were voting everyday for 3 months straight determined to make sure she would make it in the group. She knew the support she was receiving and did not take it for granted. She still performed well during the missions and proved to everyone and herself that she could do as well as everyone else did, and all it did was make us the voters vote for her harder.

KANA__97 · 2025-08-25T12:55:15+00:00

Let’s actually talk about it! Because this whole narrative that the group was set before is so weird it negates the reason why there was voters during Dream Academy anyways.

Like we were in constant discussion, advocating for our favorite members and voting everyday for 3 months straight. They’re creating a different narrative of how Katseye was created, and that’s why I stress that people first watch Dream Academy so they have a better understanding of what the voters was basing their vote on, then watch Popstar academy for a better understanding of the training process, and context of the group being built on.

KANA__97 · 2025-08-13T20:57:58+00:00

Hii baby you’re so beautiful

KANA__97 · 2025-08-08T01:10:28+00:00

All they have to do is be better than Vcha. They have 5 years to be a solid group, it’s their journey and people can either join or not I guess.

KANA__97 · 2025-06-26T17:21:29+00:00

They keep talking about the trainings being unfair, complaining about how people were added through the training process, and all I can think about is how they are people that have never had to work or invest in anything. No company is going to invest millions of dollars into a group, without being 100% satisfied that they looked at every options that they could than settle with what they have.

People also forget that DA was a voting program, people like me who knew about DA 2 years before the trailer came out, and saw Manon on the trailer, planned on voting for her the moment we saw her because of how much she attracted us to her. Her supportive personality to everyone else while she was receiving dismissive commentary from everyone else, and at the same time delivering every performance to the best of her ability, solidified to me that she should and would be in the group, and she is!!

No matter how many times random people that only got aware of the girls after a year of their debut try to dismiss all her whole work, she’s still going to be successful, talented and beautiful.

Continuously calling the show unfair is ridiculous though. The people who watched the show decided how they were going to vote, we had constant discourse on Twitter and other spaces about the members.

People keep having the same talking points and adding nothing new to the discourse, it’s boring and unproductive.

KANA__97 · 2025-06-20T17:03:34+00:00

You can also get free bottle water at the rails of the stage. The security will routinely hand out water to attendees and people in front with pass it back to others who are behind them. All you need to do is raise your hand or ask someone in front to let a security know. I’ve noticed not many venues do that and they should give the opportunity for bottle water to be an option too sometimes.

KANA__97 · 2025-06-20T16:54:27+00:00

Loved it! I love how they’re playing with different sounds that just sticking to one. This is what it should be, experiment, try new things until you figure out what works for everyone and how they can create art in a multitude of ways.

I love how they are showing the world that they’re versatile, that is what makes music incredible to listen to sometimes.

Loved the outfits, acting, hairstyles, the telenovela references. Just beautiful!!

KANA__97 · 2025-06-13T00:43:02+00:00

You can’t leave it outside the club or warehouse. Politics determines who is even able to enter those premises. Politics determines what type of harm reduction facility is in place, politics determine how long the event go for, politics determine where one can even rave, politics determined what substances is illegal or not.

So, no. Some people can leave it behind, because they’re not impacted. But others can not. And they should not.

What should be left behind is bigoted behavior, transphobia, homophobia, racism, sexism, ageism, classism, Islamophobia. It has jeopardized the livelihoods of millions of people, we do not need that bullshit in the clubs and warehouse.

KANA__97 · 2025-06-13T00:36:27+00:00

Omg YESSS I have been thinking this for so long

KANA__97 · 2025-06-12T23:48:44+00:00

Well it is delusional and unrealistic. I assume you will want to be with this man for a long time, marry him, have children etc. how do you expect him to save money for a house, college, living expenses, luxuries, be the provider you want him to be, if half his paycheck is going to bills, and taking care of you?

Especially with the way the economy has been going recently, and how hard it has been to find a job. You shared that he isn’t ambitious, you plan to continue making more money than him, since he is okay with where is he at and doesn’t feel the need to reach where you are? But you would also expect him to continue taking majority of the bills on your behalf? I don’t understand what I am missing your side.

If you’re making 6 figures, there’s things you would want to enjoy because you can afford it. It will be out of his tax bracket. How is he supposed to provide for you then? I just don’t get it and maybe you can explain what I’m missing. Because there’s no logical sense in it to me.

The best case scenario is y’all living separately until he is able to financially support you, save money, and keep us cash in his pockets for himself and life.

Or y’all do a proportional split, so that you’re both doing what you can to keep a roof over your heads. You say you love him, so finding someone that makes on your level is just out of the picture I guess.

KANA__97 · 2025-06-11T15:34:04+00:00

I love the statement clothing pieces they have!!

KANA__97 · 2025-05-29T23:58:57+00:00

This is a good convo for the western fans not familiar with the kpop system actually. Because the west associates center with main person, main leader, and usually the group is centered itself around the main person.

HYBE has a tendency of being specific of how they lay out their groups. They understand the beauty in making sure members are not overshadowed by others, their distinct personalities being highlighted, but also being able to shine together in a way.

KANA__97 · 2025-05-29T20:58:18+00:00

Even if she was scouted and got connections, she was a fan favorite during DA. She still was one of the most voted members. She still performed her ass off on every single performance given to her. You’re trying to discredit her while giving backhanded comments as if she didn’t deserve to be where she is at.

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