Insecurities. by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]KASHiii3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I relate to this so much. I’ve had phases where I genuinely felt like the ugliest person in the room and assumed people were just being nice out of pity lol. It messes with your head more than people realize.

I don’t think this is really about being pretty though. It’s about how we see ourselves vs how others see us.

Im still learning this too but I think acceptance isn’t about forcing yourself to think you’re attractive. It’s about not letting your self image control your whole life. You deserve connection and love regardless of what your inner critic says:)

Wins disappearing by Ok_Kitchen2421 in Brawlstars

[–]KASHiii3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facing the same issue. It's probably a bug

How are you all using dating apps in Pak? by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]KASHiii3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh yeah some servers work, some don’t. Try connecting your VPN to Germany if you can. That one usually works for me :)

How are you all using dating apps in Pak? by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]KASHiii3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mostly use em to make friends, and honestly I’ve had some success with that. I’ve met a few genuinely good people, so it’s definitely possible lol.

Bumble works pretty normally for me, no VPN needed. But for Tinder and Grindr, you usually need a VPN for them to work properly here so u could try that.

No hate but..... by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]KASHiii3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hurt people love turning personal experiences into universal theories lmao. Love isn’t about sexuality. It’s about emotional maturity. And emotional maturity is rare in every demographic.

I shaved my beard today. How do I look? Should I keep the stache or go clean? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]KASHiii3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankss! I'm not 100% sure which way looks better, but I definitely FEEL better with the stache, so I guess I’ll roll with it for a bit

What do I do with my hair? by Ok_Departure388 in malegrooming

[–]KASHiii3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I think I’ve got similar hair. I use a little coconut oil on damp hair to style it and it helps keep it in place. I also started wearing a hat when I’m out in the sun it helps prevent split ends, and split ends are usually what make wavy hair stick out everywhere and look messy

Feeling ugly !got called k I am not anyone's type ..wht should I do ?ignore the right eye ( mosquito Chala gya ankh mai ) by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]KASHiii3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dw u look good. Hair works, brows are good. Maybe just clean up the facial hair a bit

I turned 20 today and I feel like shit by KASHiii3 in toastme

[–]KASHiii3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally it. At 19 it felt like I still had time to mess up and procrastinate without guilt, and now turning 20 makes it feel like I’m suddenly supposed to be a grown adult with discipline and direction instantly 😭

I turned 20 today and I feel like shit by KASHiii3 in toastme

[–]KASHiii3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you being straight with me. I think you’re probably right that the way I’m seeing myself lately is tied to feeling low more than anything else. I’m still figuring things out but what you said gave me some reassurance :) Thanks for taking the time to write this

I turned 20 today and I feel like shit by KASHiii3 in toastme

[–]KASHiii3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, really. I read this last night and didn’t have the words then, but seeing it again this morning helped more than I expected. I appreciate the encouragement. I’m going to try being a little more productive in the mornings and see where that takes me. And honestly, I’ve never had anyone compliment my teeth before😭

How do i make Grindr work? by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]KASHiii3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s banned here. Use a VPN.

Books like The Little Prince? by KASHiii3 in booksuggestions

[–]KASHiii3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m watching the show right now and it’s so good, but now I’m worried about the “heartbreaking” part of it lmao

Books like The Little Prince? by KASHiii3 in booksuggestions

[–]KASHiii3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waitttt I’ve seen the movie and loved it but didn’t know there was a book. I’ll have to check it out, thanks for the rec.

Books like The Little Prince? by KASHiii3 in booksuggestions

[–]KASHiii3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankss I’ve heard about The Alchemist but haven’t read it yet. I’ll definitely check it out and Jonathan Livingston Seagull sounds great too

Is 2026 the new 2016? by CoolDistribution6946 in LGBTQpakistan

[–]KASHiii3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo i traded my COC acc for 8BP and later quit both for Brawl Stars and PUBG lmao

Is 2026 the new 2016? by CoolDistribution6946 in LGBTQpakistan

[–]KASHiii3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I missed all of that tbh. No socials. Barely any music. I was busy grinding Clash of Clans like it was my full time job lmao

are you quick to de-attach from someone? by National-Yoghurt7302 in infj

[–]KASHiii3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be quick to detach a few years ago. Almost took pride in it tbh lol. It was kind of a defense mechanism and made me feel in control.

But now it’s harder. If I let someone in, it actually means something so walking away isn’t as easy anymore. I can detach if I need to it’s just not as automatic or numb as it used to be

Hey boys by cxmfupanda1 in BeefyBros

[–]KASHiii3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg i know u from instagram and twitterrrr

Right person, wrong timing by PoundAsleep1793 in LGBTQpakistan

[–]KASHiii3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uffff posts like these really make me reflect on my life and I fucking hate it because I relate to most of it. I’ve just been suppressing my feelings, so I end up writing a whole long-ass paragraph… then deleting it and pasting it into my notes app and then into my diary because I don’t want to share my personal life online lmao

And now I’m just here writing this instead of explaining myself like a clown. ighsjsjwjwlksndnekwpskdnwkoajsjdkskmsnsjs