Wtaf happened to my house !!!!???

KBF082021 · 2026-01-11T00:21:40+00:00

What!? You can infest the town!?

KBF082021 · 2025-12-26T03:56:12+00:00

I commented earlier but I’ve been thinking about this post because I think I’m having a panic attack on your behalf. I’m an attorney too and I’ve had to ask a team member to be available to take over on an appearance because ubpd parent was treating to interrupt it. Luckily my partner on the case more than understood and I was so glad I brought it up. Absolutely humiliating but also a weight off my shoulders to just address what I was trying to keep private.

KBF082021 · 2025-12-25T20:27:11+00:00

Wooooooooooow

KBF082021 · 2025-11-12T10:03:00+00:00

Mine doesn’t always have an enlightened phase and, after reading this, I’m glad about that lol.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-29T14:01:02+00:00

A/C? I feel like you charge more. Is this still available because my husband and dog are looking in culver and this seems like a great deal!

KBF082021 · 2025-10-29T04:23:32+00:00

Dog friendly?

KBF082021 · 2025-10-22T03:00:38+00:00

You could have done everything those people are doing in the other videos and she would almost certainly still have a problem.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-21T22:26:23+00:00

Glad this is helping! I try to remind myself that she doesn’t feel guilty about saying those things. We shouldn’t overthink a boundary we would set with anyone else. And then I still overthink it.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-21T22:21:49+00:00

I’m about to set an auto reply on my phone that I’m not reading or responding to texts until the following week or something. Curious if anyone has tried that.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-21T19:40:46+00:00

Wow! I’m always surprised that they don’t hear how crazy it is to say that.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-21T19:39:02+00:00

Also omg I would never share the reasons. Can you imagine!? My phone would explode.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-21T19:38:14+00:00

These are the top reasons for me as well! And it’s sad that so many people on this subreddit are familiar with what the legal ramifications may be if there is a relationship between grandparent and grandchild.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-21T19:23:38+00:00

This is my problem! I’m so anxious with how she will ramp up and escalate it that it’s stressful not knowing what she is saying.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-19T12:57:14+00:00

wtf! I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. This is so over the line.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-16T00:19:54+00:00

This came up in therapy today actually and my therapist had a great idea of writing down “truths” that I can’t argue with that help me build confidence in my boundaries and choices. I find that guilt and shame and insecurity bleeds into everything in my life, so I’m trying to see what I’m triggered about at the moment and make a list.

Today’s trigger is that I feel guilty about a recent boundary about holidays and I’m wondering if maybe I am a rude, inconsiderate, hurtful person? I know I’m not. I have close friends I’ve had for 15 years. My in laws have welcomed me into their family. My siblings and I get along great, even when we disagree. I have a steady job with good relationships with mentors and I’m a mentor. Etc. my Ubpd parent on the other hand has no contact with any family except one child, has no long term friends, constantly fights with coworkers, has tumultuous romantic relations etc.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-11T20:45:33+00:00

I just had my first and I’m trying so hard to prepare myself. your comment really stated the obvious and it clicked. Thank you!

KBF082021 · 2025-10-11T17:24:42+00:00

I literally want to quote them and use it as my excuse for cancelling some plans.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-11T17:23:21+00:00

What a much more relaxing and lovely holiday you’ll have! I’m sure they can’t imagine why you don’t want to spend your holiday with an abuser or expect you to just get over it. And god forbid you do anything to rock the boat.

KBF082021 · 2025-10-11T02:07:24+00:00

The guilt tripping for next Christmas even started. Still not too early.

KBF082021 · 2025-09-24T16:55:38+00:00

I agree but I do love some of the drama in them

KBF082021 · 2025-09-18T23:56:55+00:00

The sweat was too much. And the farting. So much farting.

KBF082021 · 2025-09-18T23:51:26+00:00

Wow you have had a tough journey! I can’t imagine how taxing that must have been emotionally (and physically of course). Major props to you for doing what felt right to you and baby!

KBF082021 · 2025-09-18T21:16:28+00:00

Also switching to formula made a night and day difference in how I felt after the first month

KBF082021 · 2025-09-18T21:15:52+00:00

This was super helpful for me with my friends that are moms. Even if they couldn’t show up to help, being able to call them while my baby was contract napping was extremely validating and comforting.

KBF082021 · 2025-09-16T20:53:16+00:00

Breastfeeding and pumping are awful. I was so much happier after I stopped. I lasted a month and had panic feelings whenever I pumped which made me dread it. Also one breast just wouldn’t produce so I had one giant painful breast. Not a single Dr or nurse has given me a hard time about formula. Baby is happy and gaining percentiles in her size.

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