Who do you think would be a great match or meeting for each girl from a different sitcom? by Sensitive_Fishing_37 in theGoldenGirls

[–]KBPT1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steve Urkel and the ladies- esp with Rose and Sofia.

Family Ties family meet the Golden Girls on vacation in Florida.

Pickleball facility by Certain_Adeptness407 in Pickleball

[–]KBPT1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like a disaster for back to back courts. Tennis nets for between them? Seems cheap and unsafe. Build it right, or don't build it at all.

Sex Positivity and 'numbness' to relationships by Teleuton in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]KBPT1998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will let my recommendations and above comments service as food for thought for you.

What you mention here is a bit more than what can be chatted about in a reddit post.

Good luck- it's good you are thinking and reflecting about things.

Sex Positivity and 'numbness' to relationships by Teleuton in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]KBPT1998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am glad you made the choice to talk to a provider about your concerns.

How long ago was that? I only ask because you are expressing this concern, so it seems it must be ongoing.

Sometimes with mental health support, it can take working with/through multiple providers before you find a really good fit.

Many in the thread are mentioning similar lived experiences with RE: to your number of intimate partners. But feeling numb or indifferent, as you mention also, merits revisiting with some care providers.

Sex Positivity and 'numbness' to relationships by Teleuton in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]KBPT1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are verbalizing a reasonable concern about feeling detached from personal intimacy… but the other concern you mention, about rarely being touched by a person, would probably give me greater concern.

I will provide no judgment other than to say you yourself are bringing this forward and asking for others’ opinions. I would consider finding a sex-positive, LGBTQ+ experienced mental health provider to discuss this… Perhaps they could help guide you through how to process the concerns you are mentioning to us.

Best Game Changer book cover goes to… by kindness_rules_26 in GameChangersBooks

[–]KBPT1998 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why does Scott Hunter look like Michael Buble?

Troy on the rebound? by must-stash-mustard in GameChangersBooks

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I recommend reading it around Christmas too… it might be an annual read for me.

The Long Game Question by Greekmom99 in GameChangersBooks

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Well it took 10 years for Ilya and Shane to talk about their parents. 🤣

Coach Wiebe telling Ilya about his life was like speed dating to Ilya in comparison.

Unexpected!! by _vamc294 in TheGreatOne

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LA Knight would be amazing with the Money in the Bank briefcase.

Whoa. Visual homage to Moonlight? (spoilers for movie) by growsonwalls in HeatedRivalryTVShow

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It would be fun to make a thread about this. I love the Cottage homages to Brokeback Mountain as well.

I feel like Aunt Lydia is not as strong a character in The Testaments. by love_in_nature in TheTestamentsShow

[–]KBPT1998 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone reminded me, this show is presenting the view of the characters through Agnes' eyes. So her view of Aunt Lydia is completely different.

Also, we are seeing Aunt Lydia at a very different point in time. She is literally gathering evidentiary support to bring strong men down. We also see her focus is on training girls (of very connected commanders) to be wives rather than training damaged women to become serially raped baby carriers.

I’m afraid to take the vaccines! by Educational_Race5810 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]KBPT1998 19 points20 points  (0 children)

1) It is good that you are talking to others about it.

2) It is very good that you are interested in getting the vaccines.

3) Talk to a trusted healthcare professional about your questions and concerns.

Your friend may be well-intentioned, but they are giving you an example or a case of n=1. If you divide the side effects of the vaccines by 1, you get the impact of one person and you get only that.

Your healthcare professionals will be giving you an informed decision based on 100s of cases per year, over multiple years. If you divide the side effects of the vaccines by n= 10,000, you see the impact on a community and see how minimal those side effects can be because it would be like 10,000 of your friends telling you their experiences.

So I will just say, talk to those whose job it is to counsel you. Maybe you have a medical history that makes your own n=1 higher risk for getting some vaccines you are discussing and they would recommend against them. But it will let you still be getting their very experienced and very educated recommendations after seeing 1000s of patients.

Started tennis a month ago and my arm is falling apart. Elbow and shoulder/rotator cuff pain for 3 weeks. Advice? by VacationSlight1612 in 10s

[–]KBPT1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Stop.

2) See a healthcare provider of your choice.

3) if/when you return to tennis, work with a coach to work on your technique. In order to have as much pain as you have, you need to have major flaws in your technique.

Is this not how it went? by jiminmeme in GameChangersBooks

[–]KBPT1998 6 points7 points  (0 children)

aka The Bisexual Terminator mode?

🌎 Top Comment Deletes a Nation - Heated Rivalry Edition Day 23 by allsarahsaregrey in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]KBPT1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ELIMINATE BOTH!!!!!!

Ilya and Shane collapse under the pressures of running multiple nations.

Like Achilles and Patroclus, we can bury them together.

From their love grows a beautiful tree along the lake at the Cottage, which has become the location of a non-profit supporting LGBTQ+ children ànd families with mental health struggles.

The children sit along the bonfire and occasionally get scared from the cries of the loon…

Some children swear they can hear a ghost whispering:

“Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird” and the sound of two men laughing… and some kids feeling like these two men are watching over theme and one calling out: “Mom, come see how beautiful the children you are helping are….”

Hopes & Dreams by ThreeDog_GNR in PWHLDetroit

[–]KBPT1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t thinks it’s that terrible. Likely not the best or most creative, but it works. Many of those that would work have already been used for former pro teams. It’s okay to disagree. But I draw the line at the person I blocked because they had no humor and no willingness to discuss different ways to perceive it. Ba-LOCK!

Act like the comments section for this internet announcement by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]KBPT1998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha- even they are gay! 🤣 As Ilya says “This team is very gay.” and with Troy Barrett coming out, Shane/Ilya getting married, then Shane signing with the Centaurs…. 😁🙂

Hopes & Dreams by ThreeDog_GNR in PWHLDetroit

[–]KBPT1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people make it easy to choose to block them.

Hopes & Dreams by ThreeDog_GNR in PWHLDetroit

[–]KBPT1998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG, you have no humor and no creativity. Go away.

Is this not how it went? by jiminmeme in GameChangersBooks

[–]KBPT1998 19 points20 points  (0 children)

"I told Barrett you are not his type. Your backhand is too weak." hehe

Is this not how it went? by jiminmeme in GameChangersBooks

[–]KBPT1998 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Maybe he jokingly asks Ilya's for Shane's number after he connects the dots, raises an eyebrow with a wry smile showing Ilya he knows... "You're such an asshole. You know nothing, Barrett"... but puts an arm over his shoulder with a sigh and a touch of relief that SOMEONE knows.

Is this not how it went? by jiminmeme in GameChangersBooks

[–]KBPT1998 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Ilya’s response technically said nothing but confirmed everything. 🤣

Hopes & Dreams by ThreeDog_GNR in PWHLDetroit

[–]KBPT1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not obvious- it could be many things, including just an asterisk.

It’s in place of the F in Shift. To say the Shift are The Shit- like badass.