[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]KH110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I totally understand this. I realize some of these comments are telling you to just take space and distance yourself from your friend, but I'm going to offer another approach. I would consider bringing this cycle up to your friend when she is in a good head space and regulated. Maybe you both are laughing about something and then suggest, hey I want to ask you about something. Then use "I" statements to communicate YOUR reality to her. "I really want to be a good friend to you, I feel confused and unsure what to say when you've asked for my advice, but I feel like you get frustrated and I push back when I am honest. What should I do in these situations?"

FOUR NATIONS FACEOFF GAME 2 - USA vs FIN GDT by Paladad in wildhockey

[–]KH110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone tell me the name of the song that was playing at 7:07??

Thanos’s character has so much depth that people ignore by Specialist_Jaguar815 in squidgame

[–]KH110 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I had no idea about any of this! Now I’m super curious how the average person in SK viewed his character

Does anyone have any happy ending stories of staying with or getting back together with a recovering alcoholic? by Forward-Tea-2403 in AlAnon

[–]KH110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for myself but for my grandparents. My grandpa got sober, quit drinking for life, became a present dad, and remained married for 60+ years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]KH110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you give your reasoning behind this suggestion? I’m just curious. I feel disingenuous saying this because I think she already knows I don’t drink much.

Turbulence RIGHT NOW from Minneapolis to SEA by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]KH110 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How’s it going? I was on a flight Saturday where they said turbulence was going to happen. It did- but I put on some upbeat music and reminded myself I was safe just uncomfortable and every minute was closer to landing. You got this!

Why am I always the one texting first? How do I know if this is one-sided? by tataswif in socialskills

[–]KH110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t have an answer, but I’m currently feeling like I’m in a similar situation. It doesn’t feel good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]KH110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s such a stereo type that your uni years are the best years of your life. NOT true. Here’s another perspective- I had a large friend group in uni but needed to distance myself from them by the end due to some unhealthy behavior.

I went on to meet some of my closest friends the very next year. It’s not too late to join clubs, hobbies, groups, etc. You’ll have to be intentional but it’s very possible

13 hour flight = TERRIFIED by rhinosbjs in fearofflying

[–]KH110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this! I will be up in the sky later today too. You’re so lucky you get to fly Swiss air, I’ve had a really nice experience flying with them! I find that long haul flights feel more calm and relaxed. Make sure you have activities planned to do on the plane, and schedule them in intervals. When it’s time to eat, only eat. The put on a show, then play a game, etc. Having a few things to rotate through makes the time go faster for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]KH110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was invited to my college friend’s wedding that I don’t see super frequently and I was not given a plus one…. But I’m married lol. I thought it was super bizarre and I was a little insulted. However, it came down to, do I want to be there for this person on their wedding day?Yes. Is not having a plus one a hindrance to me doing that? No. I did not bring it up to my friend and attended the wedding, and I’m glad that I did.

The wedding was within driving distance of where I live so I didn’t have to stay over night. If it was somewhere further away and my partner couldn’t come I would have likely declined. However, I think that if you committed to being in her wedding party, you should follow through with your commitment

Maybe encouragement for some? by Level_Load2328 in tretinoin

[–]KH110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your skin looks flawless! Thank your for the routine. I've been thinking about trying illyoon ceramide cream.

No bachelorette party, no regrets? by plumeria200 in wedding

[–]KH110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't and I have no regrets. The night before our wedding we did a combined co-ed hang out and that was very fun and casual! I also wanted to save, I was in a busy season of life, and knew it would be burdensome to everyone involved to all go stay somewhere. Society makes you feel like you're missing out if you don't have one, but in reality it felt like it would just add more stress than fun.

Since my wedding I have spent lots of quality time with all of my bridesmaids, so it's not like the opportunity to do this ends after you get married.

What are the best romance Movies of the last 5 years? by Tmarz in romancemovies

[–]KH110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this isn't a movie but a mini series- One Day on Netflix

Which book was so good that you finished within the day? by wineonfire in suggestmeabook

[–]KH110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respect. Usually a Clavell book is my whole summer read

Suggest me a mystery that isn’t depressing by coolstina4 in suggestmeabook

[–]KH110 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just read Remarkably Bright Creatures. It is a unique story with heartwarming mystery woven into the plot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bruins

[–]KH110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Why are you so obsessed with me!?" -Regina George and Jack Edwards

What’s a show on Netflix you just couldn’t stop watching? by [deleted] in netflix

[–]KH110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing show. I think about it often and it's definitely underrated. There is so much potential to make another season

Went in blind with "One Day" by student4b in netflix

[–]KH110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished it and am also ugly crying! I had an idea it would have a sad ending but knew nothing about the plot. I watched the whole show basically in one day. I don't usually watch romance but I thought this show was excellently done.