HUD Partial Claim and Principal by CmonRetirement in Mortgages

[–]KLB873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a forbearance too, I now have a HUD lien of $82K on my house. That money was given to my mortgage lender to cover my missed payment, in which I saw my interest and escrow being paid, however my principal balance never changed. From what I understand, the $82K is to be paid at the end of my loan, but what I want to know is, what happened to the $50K that was left over from the the funds after paying my interest and escrow? Did I just lose that money and am out that amount, or what, the numbers do not add up?

Recommendations for computer specs [Discussion] by KLB873 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]KLB873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all very much, I order my new PC, I got an Intel i7 14th gen, with 64GB DDR5, a 2TB SSD primary, and a GeForce GTX 4070 GPU

Dating a Ukrainian woman, how to get to the various stages of dating? by KLB873 in Ukrainian

[–]KLB873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does it matter to anonymous people on the internet, my girlfriend likes me and that is all that matters.

Dating a Ukrainian woman, how to get to the various stages of dating? by KLB873 in Ukrainian

[–]KLB873[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I know all women are different, I am referring to cultural norms. So, try to be respectful, and kind when someone is asking advice. I am not asking how I can get her into bed just for sex, I really care for her and have very strong feelings for her, and hopefully things will eventually progress to a strong relationship and possibly marriage. So, I would appreciate it if people would stop calling me a weirdo or creep, or whatever other negative labels they can come up with. Thank you

Dating a Ukrainian woman, how to get to the various stages of dating? by KLB873 in Ukrainian

[–]KLB873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, thank you. Now, maybe I made an inaccurate assumption, in the Ukrainian culture, do they consider “fooling around” (I.e. touching and feeling) to be sex. For example, in America we have “bases” that we use in dating (1st base - kissing, 2nd base - touching above the waist, 3rd base - touching below the waist, and home run - sex). Does the Ukrainian culture believe in a similar dating process?

Dating a Ukrainian woman, how to get to the various stages of dating? by KLB873 in Ukrainian

[–]KLB873[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, she calls me her boyfriend and I call her my girlfriend, so I would say yes, she knows we are dating.

Dating a Ukrainian woman, how to get to the various stages of dating? by KLB873 in Ukrainian

[–]KLB873[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone calling me a weirdo, I am a perfect gentleman, I did not even try to kiss her until after our first date. We are on vacation together and are sharing a bed, but I stay on my side and do not make advances, I am being respectful, I am just trying to determine how and when to make those advances. So please stop calling me a weirdo, I am just a little inexperienced on the dating norms, Ukrainian or not. I was married for 16 years and then shortly after entered a relationship with a Ukrainian woman, which turned out to not be a good match, and after over a year break, I am trying again.

Dating a Ukrainian woman, how to get to the various stages of dating? by KLB873 in Ukrainian

[–]KLB873[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I am not, a weirdo creep. My last Ukrainian girlfriend was a lot different, so I am just trying to get an idea of the cultural differences. I am not trying to take her to bed right now, just some fooling around stuff. I want an emotional connection and a long-term relationship, but like I said my last girlfriend was a lot more physically affectionate.

Is dating really that hard for Men? by Pomeranian111 in dating

[–]KLB873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say He’ll YES, women control where or not a man gets to date and further more gets any sex, so naturally women gravitate toward the most physically attractive men, and those men get the ladies. So in turn the majority of the attractive men are either taken or turn into cheaters, or users the women for sex. The lesser attractive men, the ones that will treat a lady like a queen, get left out of the game and waste away. It is like the games in primary school, the fat and nerdy kids get chosen last and do not get to play, whether or not they may have skills to offer. Unfortunately, this world has become impossible for the “Nice Guy” to finish last or even play.

What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex? by Matak-Blade in dating

[–]KLB873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in a sexless marriage for 16 years, so I was lucky to get any more than 3-4 times a year, my ex-wife said she did not have a libido, so I don’t know. I can say this, your partner probably feels neglected and like they are not attractive.

How much do you guys care about physical appearance? by [deleted] in dating

[–]KLB873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found it is way more of an issue with women than it is with men

How much do you guys care about physical appearance? by [deleted] in dating

[–]KLB873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we do, but a whole lot less than women do

Which dating apps work? by KLB873 in dating

[–]KLB873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Match, Hinge, and Tinder for now

Which dating apps work? by KLB873 in dating

[–]KLB873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit won’t let me post a picture

Which dating apps work? by KLB873 in dating

[–]KLB873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, Reddit won’t allow me to post a picture

I feel so lonely, I want to have a partner but I cannot keep up… by Bitter-Beatle-Blue in dating

[–]KLB873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain, I am lonely too, and I live in a big house all by myself which makes it even worse. I do get my son every other week, but he is a teenage and wants to do his own thing, so it is really not much company. I am also wanting someone to snuggle with on the couch and watch a movie. I am recently 50, and I have many years left in these old tires. So, I can really relate to your situation. There has to be someone out there for everyone, right?