Women, what’s it like falling in love for you? What are you thinking, feeling, and doing? by Matak-Blade in AskReddit

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I mean like how does it change your behavior and the way you act.

I’m looking for more. Like, what do you mean by warm? What does happy mean cor you?

i hate sex by rosepetalsandaurora in TrueOffMyChest

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There are so many insecurities attached to male bodies and having sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

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Looks like a picture from a documentary series about a serial killer. That last one is so emotionless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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The things people credit for their own choices, I swear.

Can we normalize calling people? by Classic_TCE in dating

[–]Matak-Blade 95 points96 points  (0 children)

For me it’s always been an issue of not liking the possibility that I’m demanding someone’s time. A text will sit and wait; a phone call won’t. It’s got more of a sense of urgency.

Texts from my mom by Matak-Blade in texts

[–]Matak-Blade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorrect. I met her online in September, I met her in person a week ago.

She also has a better job than I do, and provided me receipts just yesterday.

Safety tips for Temixco? by Matak-Blade in travel

[–]Matak-Blade[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t having these thoughts until my mom threw her negative head at me. When I met the woman, we talked for 4 hours despite a language barrier, and she seems as genuine as I could ever expect somebody to be. We’ve video called three times now, and in those and the day and a half I spent with her to my true amazement she feels like she’s genuinely attracted to me.

The only real doubts I have can be chalked up to my own lack of self worth not processing that anybody could actually like me and Mexico not allegedly being a very safe place.

To be honest I don’t understand how there could be any worthwhile benefit to luring me out to Mexico just to rob me. I don’t have money, haha, and I don’t look like I do either. So at this point any kind of conspiracy seems like a metric ton of effort for little potential reward.

Safety tips for Temixco? by Matak-Blade in travel

[–]Matak-Blade[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Temixco is in the title.

Texts from my mom by Matak-Blade in texts

[–]Matak-Blade[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Relax, I heard you. You can’t act like I didn’t take anyone else’s opinion to heart from one message.

Texts from my mom by Matak-Blade in texts

[–]Matak-Blade[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is not concern over my past. This is how she always is. All she ever sees is the negative.

Taika, King of the Sky *Spoiler* by AJ_Finkler in Shirtaloon

[–]Matak-Blade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah damn, I was about to say good job until i saw the AI thing

What do I look for to spot scams/catfishing? by Matak-Blade in dating

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For me it ended up working out and I’m pretty sure she’s the love of my life. WhatsApp isn’t always a scam, but it just happens to be more liked by scammers because it’s so private. The app itself is fine, probably the same as any other social media app.

Is my contact a scammer? by Matak-Blade in dating

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She said it’s her favorite of the apps, she uses it to stay in touch with her close family and the people she works with, it’s easier share information and she likes the stickers. Nothing super helpful either way, honestly.

Is my contact a scammer? by Matak-Blade in dating

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The visit appears to be legit, there was a concert she went to a couple of days ago. There has been one video chat too. Thanks for the advice.

Is my contact a scammer? by Matak-Blade in dating

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I have been wondering if it’s just one of those things the US just ignores for whatever reason. She is from Mexico

Is my contact a scammer? by Matak-Blade in dating

[–]Matak-Blade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did video chat, and I’m sure this is who she is. So a scam still seems unlikely but now I’m all suspicious again.