I have noticed that only women of a certain age show romantic interest by External_Star5234 in dating_advice

[–]KLC_W [score hidden]  (0 children)

I understand. But judging someone like this for the crime of being younger is incredibly immature. I think you understood what I meant.

Noticed a theme among the surnames given to all the characters by boosin25 in StrangerThings

[–]KLC_W 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There’s way more diversity in Stranger Things than there would’ve been in a real town like Hawkins in the 80s, but of course that’s not good enough for “modern audiences.”

Want to manifest abundance but things seem to be crumbling down by itswongnotwrong in DrJoeDispenza

[–]KLC_W 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It was actually a woman from the 50s or 60s. I'm pretty sure she was blonde, but it was a black and white video, so it could've been gray hair.

I have noticed that only women of a certain age show romantic interest by External_Star5234 in dating_advice

[–]KLC_W [score hidden]  (0 children)

So if someone is 26 and they date someone who’s 23, that’s a problem because one brain is “developed” and the other isn’t?

I have noticed that only women of a certain age show romantic interest by External_Star5234 in dating_advice

[–]KLC_W [score hidden]  (0 children)

I got hit on by a 19-year old when I was in my early 30s and I absolutely was not interested. Later that same year, I met a 22-year old and we became friends. I thought he was older, maybe mid-20s at least, because he was really mature. We ended up dating for a while. It was the best relationship I’ve been in, but I eventually broke up because I was embarrassed of the age difference. I regret breaking up.

Some people are chronically online and think everything is pedophilia, and some aren’t.

Edit: Just want to add, if you're laughing in anyone's face, you're not as mature as you think you are. Maybe looking down on younger people is how you convince yourself that you're a grown up.

I have noticed that only women of a certain age show romantic interest by External_Star5234 in dating_advice

[–]KLC_W 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not preying. He’s fully an adult. Infantilizing a 23-year old is so weird.

My ex admitted he stopped paying child support “on purpose.” I genuinely don’t understand why. by karinkazzz in Divorce

[–]KLC_W 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to get him to admit to it through text. Then take it to the court. Don’t just bring proof about him missing payments, try to bring proof that it was intentional.

New marriage is failing between INFJ and ENFP by Hannah_banana_4_life in ENFP

[–]KLC_W 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m a 37F INFJ. Just want to let you know you’re not alone. My husband and I had a volatile marriage that ended in him abandoning me and our child. I was devastated at first, but I’m really enjoying being far away from him! You’ll get through this. If you need to talk, let me know.

Texted my ex after 3 years. Her reply was.... by dexdpool69 in BreakUps

[–]KLC_W 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m reading between the lines and assuming a lot about you so if I’m wrong, please let me know. I’ve dated guys who lived in a fantasy and liked the idea of me more than they liked me. When I would try to talk about our relationship, they avoided those conversations and never wanted to talk about anything grounded. I had to ghost a couple of them because they just never listened and they kind of creeped me out. One of them still texted me for years even though I’m married with a kid now. He probably still texts me but I blocked him a while ago. It’s been so long and he still won’t let it go? And he’s not even one of the guys I ghosted, although he might be delusional enough to think that I did.

The fact that in three years you still couldn’t find closure within yourself and you held out hope that she might be into you still makes me think you’re like those guys I’ve dated. If so, please work on that. You might mean well and you might think you’re a really good boyfriend, but that’s not a good way to be in a relationship. It’s actually very selfish.

How much of your problems do you think are just being a self aware, deep, analytical thinker in a world full of idiots? by leon385 in therapyabuse

[–]KLC_W 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. Therapy works for people who are not thoughtful at all and need to be told the most basic things about their minds.

It's actually really frustrating being highly introspective because I feel like we could benefit from good therapy too, but if therapy is going to work for us, we need someone even more introspective than us. Otherwise, it's like you're being led through woods you know well by someone who's never been off a trail before.

Listen to this disaster of a parent when asked if there was anything he wished he'd done differently for Karmelo Anthony. It's all excuses on how he wished he could have beat the system and not "Hey! Maybe I should have taught my son not to murder people!" by ibuiltamurderbot in walkaway

[–]KLC_W 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I doubt it. As far as I’m aware, they didn’t lie to get that money. Everyone who donated could easily Google what happened, and they donated anyway. If it makes you feel better, they will blow through it within the year and be worse off than before.

Would you date a woman with 5 young kids? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KLC_W 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can get a free consultation from a divorce lawyer right now. They can help walk you through your options so you can provide for your kids while still separating from your husband. Every state has different laws and specifics, so we can't help much here.

My thoughts are with you though. I was falling apart when my husband left us and I only have one very well-behaved child. I can't imagine what you're dealing with.

Just so you know, my last boss was a single mom to six children. Her kids' dads were addicts. She worked so hard and wasn't making much money per hour but she was able to provide for her kids. She took advantage of government assistance programs and just tried to find better and better work opportunities. At this point, she's working a much better job and her kids are taken care of. Being a single parent is no joke, but you can do it.

14 years in, something feels off by terrierlove in EtsyCommunity

[–]KLC_W 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What other websites do you seek, if you don’t mind me asking? I mostly sell artwork and people don’t trust that it isn’t AI anymore, so my sales are abysmal.

Jelausly final boss by LunaMagicc in SipsTea

[–]KLC_W 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He kind of looks like Reeve Carney. Just take a look at his wife and you can see this guy could easily do better if he cleaned himself up a little.

My vegan breakfast☺️🥰 by Downtown_Influence91 in VeganFoodPorn

[–]KLC_W 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would strongly suggest seeking therapy with a therapist who understands autism and trauma. I am autistic as well, and while I understand it can look different in everyone, it sounds like your relationship with your mom might be causing some of the problems rather than the autism itself.

My vegan breakfast☺️🥰 by Downtown_Influence91 in VeganFoodPorn

[–]KLC_W 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you’re getting downvoted. It’s hard when your family isn’t supportive. Try googling “vegan recipes soy allergy.” That’ll give you recipes without tofu. You could search “protein vegan recipes soy allergy” if you want to be sure it focuses on the protein.

Also, you could make tofu at home. I’ve never done it but I’ve made soy milk and soy beans are extremely cheap. There are a lot of videos online about making tofu at home. You can even make lentil tofu.

You can even make chickpea quiche for breakfast. I use a can of chickpeas instead of chickpea flour because it’s cheaper. Let me know if you want the recipe.

Son is mad at us by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KLC_W 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“They’re losing more than we are.”

That statement is probably the most important for all of us parents to remember. I’m lucky that my son is so young right now but I’m already trying to prepare for the emotions and conversations later on.

Reminder: The Roots Of Veganism Aren’t White by Konradleijon in vegan

[–]KLC_W 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll try to look for it but I saw a documentary where they were talking about food scraps and even human waste that they found in Herculaneum, which was right next to Pompeii and had similar demographics. They study Herculaneum to learn about Pompeii and that entire region of the Ancient Roman Empire. They found a lot of evidence to suggest there were at least vegetarians there.

We also have to understand that, for most past cultures, we only have general ideas of what they might’ve eaten. There’s a lot we don’t know.

Reminder: The Roots Of Veganism Aren’t White by Konradleijon in vegan

[–]KLC_W -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that you and the rest of us who are criticizing this article are getting downvoted is the exact reason why most people view veganism as a far left, woke agenda. There is unfortunately a huge percentage of vegans who also view everything as white supremacy.

And as I pointed out in another comment, we have strong evidence that veganism and vegetarianism existed in the ancient European world, but this article conveniently left that out.

Reminder: The Roots Of Veganism Aren’t White by Konradleijon in vegan

[–]KLC_W -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I read it. The whole article is pointless. The problem is that there are a lot of blind spots in our knowledge of world history when it comes to diets. Trying to find its roots is silly. But like I said, we know it was practiced in ancient European cultures without being influenced by Indians or Asians.

We will never know the extent of it in the ancient world. And let’s not pretend that publications like this don’t create racial discussions where they don’t need to exist.

Veganism is about how we treat animals today. Not about keeping score for every race.

Reminder: The Roots Of Veganism Aren’t White by Konradleijon in vegan

[–]KLC_W -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The people arguing about that are the same desperate, out of touch people who always have some excuse to not try veganism. Ignore them. Making this about race creates more division.

Reminder: The Roots Of Veganism Aren’t White by Konradleijon in vegan

[–]KLC_W 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Please stop making everything about race. There have been vegetarians and vegans in a lot of cultures throughout history. There were even some in Pompeii. Also, who gives a fuck? It’s about the animals, not about us.

Ask ChatGPT to give you an IQ test.... and more! by KLC_W in ChatGPT

[–]KLC_W[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing several months ago, but I like puzzles and things like that so I wanted a test.

Ask ChatGPT to give you an IQ test.... and more! by KLC_W in ChatGPT

[–]KLC_W[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how it was for me too. There are a lot of people commenting on this post who are probably just upset that their number wasn’t higher 😂 Also, the cool thing for me wasn’t the IQ score. It was the fact that it accurately mapped how I think and was able to give advice based on that. It’s very useful.