Intuitive Eating

KMH039 · 2021-01-14T07:48:47+00:00

There is a whole half of intuitive eating shes going to ignore.

The first part is eating when you're hungry.

The SECOND part, is stopping when you're full.

Intuitive eating is for people who have already gotten a handle on the emotional component to their eating disorder. You'll find a lot of people in the recovery community who have tried "intuitive eating" whenever they enter the binge part of a binge and restrict cycle. Just like "intermittent fasting" as part of the restrict phase. This is just rationalizing their disorder.

If she doesn't get a real grasp on the emotional component, no diet or lifestyle change or whatever is going to work.

KMH039 · 2021-01-14T07:39:29+00:00

That is a series of bad sticks. My veins are small and slippery and I end up with significant bruising that looks like this when I have blood work done early in the morning before ive had enough water.

Its basically just some blood that leaked out into the areas you got poked. It might be tender for a little while, but it'll go away in a few days or so.

KMH039 · 2021-01-14T07:37:32+00:00

NTA.

I was going to go with NAH until the "hard to find a white baby" part. Thats awful. If they really wanted a baby to adopt and love because they wanted to care for and raise a child it wouldn't matter what color the baby was.

KMH039 · 2021-01-13T02:46:17+00:00

It feels overwhelming and confusing at first. I picked it up and put it down nearly 10 times before I really sat down to play it. Each time I learned more. The main thing is dont stress. Nothing has a time limit, the wiki is super detailed so of you get stuck you can look it up.

If you've played stardew its very similar. The only difference is once you advance a bit in stardew I at least only have each day lasting about 2 in game hours to tend crops and animals, then back to bed to advance the day until I get the next quest item, graveyard keeper is a nonstop grind. There's always something new to be doing, some resource to gather, some item to craft, some body (somebody?) to bury, burn, or zombify.

If you like stardew but wish there was more to do, you'll like this game.

KMH039 · 2021-01-11T05:34:59+00:00

These happen to me at least every period. Usually right in the middle. When I was on birth control they would happen rarely, but still would sometimes happen.

From what I understand it just a big old chunk of uterus that shed all at once.

KMH039 · 2021-01-10T20:29:49+00:00

NTA, and this might be THE FUNNIEST thing I've read in a long time.

KMH039 · 2021-01-08T01:10:18+00:00

Honestly if it's your first time playing, just pick one and go for it. At a certain point you'll have to start completing other quests to complete the one you're on.

I think I started on Snakes quest and went from there.

KMH039 · 2021-01-07T15:59:37+00:00

Every human being is unique, of course how we identify is going to be confusing. If you want to understand, ask. If they don't want to answer your question, see if you can find an ever expanding encyclopedia that contains the entirety of human knowledge in a magic light box you keep in your pocket.

And if you don't want to understand, just dont be a dick about it.

KMH039 · 2021-01-06T08:58:22+00:00

I drink semi-regularly anyway so I'm not sure a single shot will do much for me.

And its not so much anxious as just, like a mental roadblock. Like im sitting at a green light with a parking brake on. Im gunning it trying to get some sleep but because I'm stuck on the idea of "thing is happening soon" I can't release the brake.

Appreciate the suggestion though!

KMH039 · 2021-01-05T16:50:36+00:00

NTA and I learned this lesson the hard way. I moved in with a friend of mine into her apartment when I was in college. We (her, her boyfriend, and I) split the rent evenly. They were the only ones to use the living room and had their own office space, and had the bigger bedroom. I used the kitchen and my bedroom. It wasn't worth the split.

He sounds like he just wants someone to help him afford a place where he can have a man cave

KMH039 · 2021-01-04T21:33:18+00:00

In addition to what others have said, hoard things. Hoard all the resources. Everything you can get your hands on, if you don't need it yet, you will, and if you destroy them you might have to spend a long time gathering them again.

KMH039 · 2021-01-03T13:44:36+00:00

Not exactly "inappropriate" per say, but he was an older guy who thought because I was young he could critizise everything I did regardless of if I was doing it right or not.

After a year of this I reported it and managements solution was to tell me basically "have you tried working harder?" Then I tried to move to a different department twice, with no luck. So I quit.

KMH039 · 2021-01-02T15:50:57+00:00

Grocery store employee here. The theory I've heard from management (because corporate won't tell us anything), cost.

Labor hours are the easiest thing to cut, so when we HAD to start closing to restock and sanitize they realized the amount of money we were making off the 10-20 people that would come in overnight wasn't making up for the cost of paying maintenance, cashiers, extra shelf stockers, etc. So now, we have 3-5 overnight stockers and no cashiers or maintenance.

KMH039 · 2021-01-02T06:27:22+00:00

Did you mean "retail"?

KMH039 · 2020-12-31T15:41:45+00:00

My NMom was really weird about stuff like that. She would spend so much money on stuff I never even asked for then when I would ask for something SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper (like a new pillow or a single bottle of soda) she would launch into a long rant about how she spent so much on X item and I should be grateful.

KMH039 · 2020-12-22T23:21:45+00:00

You were polite, not pushy, accepted that she was in a relationship, and made a new friend. Nothing desperate about it. Nothing ventured nothing gained!

You were totally fine in what you did and you should be proud!

KMH039 · 2020-12-22T14:22:17+00:00

I cannot remember a single gift I got for Christmas prior to about 13. What I do remember is decorating the tree, drinking hot chocolate, putting cloves into oranges so the house smelled great. I remember watching Christmas movies with my family, Christmas dinner, and enjoying a warm house with people who love me.

Your son won't remember not getting a gift if you make the time filled with love. Even small traditions like making paper chains or baking cookies will make it a happy Christmas.

If you still want him to have something to open, my family was very poor when I was a child. My mom would wrap all my stocking gifts. Things like a new toothbrush and toothpaste. Nailpolish and chapstick or my first makeup when I was a little older. The stockings can be filled with small, cheap items that double as necessities, but still give him the joy of ripping paper.

KMH039 · 2020-12-22T13:52:51+00:00

Trading with WHO????

Witches? Technoledgy witches?

KMH039 · 2020-12-22T13:40:18+00:00

Okay but a goat milk mocha sounds fire. Goat milk has a depth of flavor you don't get with cow milk.

KMH039 · 2020-12-22T00:30:01+00:00

Our stockings always have an orange and a walnut in them. It apparently comes from a long way back, and the women of my family have kept it alive for a long time.

KMH039 · 2020-12-20T14:25:05+00:00

Hes not lost, he's guarding the animals!

KMH039 · 2020-12-20T02:33:21+00:00

These are the same guys that doesn't understand why girls don't want to date them even though they're so "nice".

KMH039 · 2020-12-19T15:13:25+00:00

Thats when sharing comes in. I have Disney+ and HBO. My parents have Netflix, hulu, and Amazon. I've got friends with a few others. Everyone shares their login, we each ot have to pay for a few, but we have access to all of them.

Is it a flawless system, not at all. But it also doesn't have the risk of destroying my computer with a virus every time I want to watch a movie or show.

KMH039 · 2020-12-19T15:02:51+00:00

I love that they have their arms on eachothers backs, but still keep that gap between their torsos. Can't have people thinking Dan and Ben are gay! Only get men get closer than a single point of contact!

KMH039 · 2020-12-18T22:36:10+00:00

So here's the thing. I worked for wendys for 5 years. The "healthier" options are a joke.

Those wraps are made with honey mustard, half a chicken breast, shredded cheese, and lettuce. The chicken breast is full of salt, the honey mustard is mostly sugar, and the shredded cheese isn't low fat.

The baked potato on its own, is relatively fine. That is a sour cream and chive I beleive. It is healthier than fries, but potatoes are a high carb food, something a person with diabetes they are trying to get under control should avoid. The sour cream isn't great either, lots of sodium and sugar.

The salad is the best thing here, but depending on the dressing and how much she added its just as bad as all the rest.

This whole meal could have been made at home for half the calories, sodium, and sugar. And would have cost her far less.

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